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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2020, 06:04 PM
Replies: 43
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Posted By Tired_of_court
He would use to it highlight that she made enough...

He would use to it highlight that she made enough money in 2019 to cover the tuition, but, like you said, that isn't how it works. With the T4, I'm concerned he'd find out where she works and create...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2020, 02:13 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
I figured they were irrelevant, and I will...

I figured they were irrelevant, and I will disclose them if I have to, but I'm not giving him her personal information without being forced to do so. He's entitled to mine, and he has that. He...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2020, 12:46 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Update: He now admits that he cashed in RESP...

Update:

He now admits that he cashed in RESP "years ago" despite it being on his financial statements since then.

He is also claiming that post-secondary isn't included in S7 expenses, and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-22-2020, 07:41 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
He may have done that, I really don't know. ...

He may have done that, I really don't know.

The last court appearance was to end the S7 expenses he was previously ordered to pay and I did have a conversation with himself and the judge that I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-22-2020, 02:13 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Excellent advise. I'm really not as emotional as...

Excellent advise. I'm really not as emotional as perhaps my message indicated. I'm not at all surprised he's objecting, it is his pattern. It's almost amusing how right I am about how he'll handle...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-22-2020, 12:33 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
An update - he finally responded to my email....

An update - he finally responded to my email. Congratulated the child on the scholarships she earned, but then went on to state that he didn't have funds to contribute towards post-secondary despite...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2020, 12:26 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
The motion was pretty easy by comparison to...

The motion was pretty easy by comparison to finding him and having him served in the US. He had moved, not told me. Then delays in income disclosure, etc. I managed to settle 4 years of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 11:02 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
His lawyer has tried his best to intimidate me...

His lawyer has tried his best to intimidate me since the beginning. He used all his fancy legal jargon with the exchange rate battle and I just went along with what the judge determined reasonable. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 10:54 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
I know it sounds confusing, but the order was...

I know it sounds confusing, but the order was guideline child support + $250 in S7 expenses. It was replaced with guideline child support only.

Yes, that support went up due to income change...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 09:53 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Thank you for your input. I agree, I could have...

Thank you for your input. I agree, I could have fought for a different exchange rate calculation back then, but I was also dealing with custody issues that felt more important. I decided early on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 06:11 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
I will. That's generally what I've done in the...

I will. That's generally what I've done in the past.

I'll give him the opportunity to save some money, like this time, I'll forget about income increase, I'll recognize the annual over payment in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 05:54 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
I know people are sly, I get that, I just haven't...

I know people are sly, I get that, I just haven't been. He has the receipt from school, he has the OSAP information, he has my income information, he has everything he needs to just say okay.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 05:26 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Him and his lawyer always approach the situation...

Him and his lawyer always approach the situation with the forethought that I'm out to screw them financially and imply I'm lying about this that or the other.

It became very invasive at one...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 05:19 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Yes, that's precisely what we do. But...

Yes, that's precisely what we do.

But exchange rates change, especially over the last few years. The initial order applied a 3% exchange rate. The subsequent one 25% (off the top of my head, I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 05:08 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Yes, it works out higher. 70K US at exchange...

Yes, it works out higher.

70K US at exchange rate 2 years ago is $90K CAD
70K US at exchange rate today is $85K CAD

Right now, CS is based on the 90 and as of June 2020 should be based on the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 04:40 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
The exchange rate used last time in court is...

The exchange rate used last time in court is higher than the exchange rate I would be using this time. Based on previously agreed upon Bank of Canada rate at December 31 of the relevant year.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 04:01 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
I'm not sure about the CS part of that, but will...

I'm not sure about the CS part of that, but will soon tell when I delve into the numbers and paperwork. At present, I couldn't request the correct amount of CS because I don't have income disclosure...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 03:15 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
That's what I'm going to do. File a Motion for...

That's what I'm going to do. File a Motion for S7 expenses and request $X per semester (no matter what the actual cost is) to be paid on X dates annually.

I'm not going to even bring up the child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 02:35 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Basically you're saying that the separation...

Basically you're saying that the separation agreement was a pointless waste of resources and funds because it doesn't really make him do anything, at all, if he doesn't want to. Which makes me...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 01:51 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Unfortunately I can't skip the exchange...

Unfortunately I can't skip the exchange calculation, as it is now part of the agreement since it was the second trip to the courthouse to enforce the agreement. He was originally in Canada, then...
Forum: Reference 08-20-2020, 12:48 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 4,154
Posted By Tired_of_court
I'm dealing with this as well. Not only did they...

I'm dealing with this as well. Not only did they reverse my tax credits that I've already received (5 years worth), they reversed my equivalent to spouse tax deduction and fined me a negligence...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 11:20 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
I don't know if his income is going to change. ...

I don't know if his income is going to change. The last time we were in court, the child was still in highschool, but I managed to get 3 years of adjustments (due to income) taken care of at one...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 10:46 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Thank you. I'm aware of how to calculate what is...

Thank you. I'm aware of how to calculate what is owed, and I'm aware that court will provide the documents I need for FRO to enforce. I've done this 5 times already and feel very confident in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2020, 09:11 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,216
Posted By Tired_of_court
Court - How many times?

My ex and I have a separation agreement which covers child support, S7 expenses, exchange of financial information annually, etc.

He has always refused to adhere to the terms of the agreement and...
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