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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 08:17 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 415
Posted By Tayken
Your agreement if in writing has set a status quo...

Your agreement if in writing has set a status quo and you are going to be stuck. Janus will be by later to explain it all and remind everyone on this forum that you should never agree to something...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-04-2019, 07:28 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 415
Posted By Tayken
Then make an offer to settle with a 50-50...

Then make an offer to settle with a 50-50 residency (access) schedule and joint custody. Then follow up with a motion for exactly that. Why waste time in mediation if the other party has made it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-04-2019, 05:55 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 195
Posted By Tayken
To file materials and book a motion date prior to...

To file materials and book a motion date prior to the 16th. If you in a court with a huge backlog then it will happen in February. Not may courts have that kind of speed when booking motions. The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-04-2019, 05:52 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 165
Posted By Tayken
TMC can be a point at which you settle. More...

TMC can be a point at which you settle. More people settle at TMCs as it comes on the heal of the trial.

You are fighting over 150$ a month in CS? If you were dealing with 1500 then I would say...
Forum: General Chat 12-04-2019, 05:49 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 342
Posted By Tayken
Set up the 2-2-5-5 access schedule now and follow...

Set up the 2-2-5-5 access schedule now and follow it.

Monday and Tuesday you are responsible for everything regarding the kids.
Wednesday and Thursday the other parent.
Rotate the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-04-2019, 05:40 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 737
Posted By Tayken
You are not fighting to see your kids. It is...

You are not fighting to see your kids.

It is not a war, battle, or otherwise. You need to be calm, collected, and strategic in your actions. If you fall into the expensive trap (Breaking Bad...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-03-2019, 09:04 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 737
Posted By Tayken
If you want a judge to lose their mind and...

If you want a judge to lose their mind and disregard you as being a reasonable litigant... Sure do that. I wouldn't recommend it ever.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-03-2019, 09:04 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 737
Posted By Tayken
Attach them to your costs request. :) You could...

Attach them to your costs request. :) You could be so bold and include an offer to settle costs on the motion prior to the motion and include that case law. :) Or your lawyer can reference it in a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-02-2019, 09:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 270
Posted By Tayken
I wouldn't even acknowledge to the other parent...

I wouldn't even acknowledge to the other parent that the police contacted you. I would send an offer to settle in accordance with the Rules the opportunity to change the pickup/drop off location to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-01-2019, 07:00 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 258
Posted By Tayken
Sure they are! For the other party! The...

Sure they are! For the other party! The cross-examination of a "boyfriend" is always damaging to the party that presents them. Unless this person is a common-law spouse (or an actual spouse) that...
Forum: General Chat 12-01-2019, 06:54 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 342
Posted By Tayken
Where to start: 1. 50-50 residency (access)...

Where to start:

1. 50-50 residency (access) of the children with the other parent on a 2-2-5-5 based schedule.

2. Full joint custody of the children.

3. Don't pretend to be the primary...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-01-2019, 06:32 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 270
Posted By Tayken
First, you don't need to talk to the police. ...

First, you don't need to talk to the police. Simply ask if you are being charged. If yes then say nothing and hire a lawyer. If they say no you are more than welcome to thank them for the call and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-01-2019, 06:26 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 261
Posted By Tayken
Unfortunately, this is a very strong possibility...

Unfortunately, this is a very strong possibility and the stats don't weigh in your favour. The lenient parent in a single child situation like this will generally get the child to vote with their...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-29-2019, 03:28 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 737
Posted By Tayken
I beg you to read that case and the other cases...

I beg you to read that case and the other cases it has influenced. It could be the best investment of time you make today.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-29-2019, 03:21 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 737
Posted By Tayken
Let your lawyer select what is relevant. YOu...

Let your lawyer select what is relevant. YOu don't understand the concept of legal relevance. It is super complex and most lawyers struggle with it. Especially in family law!



A good...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-29-2019, 02:58 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 737
Posted By Tayken
Welcome to no-fault divorce. No one cares. ...

Welcome to no-fault divorce. No one cares. Especially the judge. I would not bother with this kind of nonsense. It just causes you emotional distress and creates unnecessary conflict.



This...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2019, 06:30 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 930
Posted By Tayken
You are in the 3% pool. BPD is an even more rare...

You are in the 3% pool. BPD is an even more rare diagnosis in Canada. Not saying you are lying its just the odds of this are diagnosis is in winning the lottery level of statistics.

The other...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2019, 06:10 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 249
Posted By Tayken
Very interesting. The judge relied on case law...

Very interesting. The judge relied on case law that is inter-jurisdictional. Nice. I wish they did this more often.

This judge is very well-read when it comes to case law. Even cited Czutrin. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-16-2019, 06:08 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 597
Posted By Tayken
A change to an agreement requires a material...

A change to an agreement requires a material change in circumstance. Wanting a change is not a material change in circumstances. Check up the complexity of what it takes to change an agreement. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2019, 06:02 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 290
Posted By Tayken
You are doomed to be an every-other-weekend...

You are doomed to be an every-other-weekend parent at best if this is the question you are asking.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-16-2019, 05:58 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 429
Posted By Tayken
Try to find case law where a judge orders a...

Try to find case law where a judge orders a parent to pay a blood relative for childcare. I have never found it myself. Not saying it doesn't exist but, one oddball case does not equate to the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-16-2019, 05:53 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,390
Posted By Tayken
Kids Help Phone is the best resource for the...

Kids Help Phone is the best resource for the child. Provide them with the information.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2019, 05:51 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 185
Posted By Tayken
/ignore Letters are not binding. Only...

/ignore

Letters are not binding. Only respond to motions.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2019, 05:49 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 401
Posted By Tayken
If there are no children involved in the dispute...

If there are no children involved in the dispute why bother with the family law matter. The "divorce" / "annulment" is only needed if either of you are planning to remarry. You can cohabitate in...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-16-2019, 05:29 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 440
Posted By Tayken
I agree. I am of the opinion that the...

I agree.

I am of the opinion that the optimal way to look at this is what is the cost of residence for the student? The lowest common denominator to determine the cost of the residence.

Think...
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