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Forum: Parenting Issues 08-22-2012, 04:41 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,980
Posted By Pharah
Fact is my son asked me to talk to his Mom and I...

Fact is my son asked me to talk to his Mom and I did, reminding her of the schedule and she didn't tell me he wouldn't be going until that Saturday.

I had a lady at hockey say that attending...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-22-2012, 02:29 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,980
Posted By Pharah
The activity was agreed upon in advance. This is...

The activity was agreed upon in advance. This is apart of what was above. She agreed to it and still didn't go.

My son did tell her he wanted to go. She ignored him.

And honestly, I am not...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-21-2012, 09:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 851
Posted By Pharah
File a motion...but be sure to provide as much...

File a motion...but be sure to provide as much information as possible. For example, what country you would be going to and where you will be staying. Also check if the country is a member of the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-21-2012, 08:59 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,980
Posted By Pharah
Unhappy Extra-curricular activities

I currently have shared custody with a 50/50 split on access. No child support. We are each responsible for paying for our own care extra. In our order, the judge put a section that my ex and I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2012, 04:12 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,051
Posted By Pharah
BTW, I have crossed the border with my son...

BTW, I have crossed the border with my son without his passport, using his citizenship card. Our order states that I am allowed to travel with my son without my ex's permission and a passport is not...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2012, 04:03 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,051
Posted By Pharah
My ex and I represented ourselves and in the end...

My ex and I represented ourselves and in the end the judge bullied her into agreeing to a final order without trial or the judge said she would aware custody to me with EOW access for my ex. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2012, 03:47 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,051
Posted By Pharah
I have had a similar experience with my ex. In...

I have had a similar experience with my ex. In 2010 while still in court, I had asked to go on a family vacation with my son and my new spouse. My ex refused to give her permission, so I entered a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2012, 03:30 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 4,528
Posted By Pharah
You are both responsible for the high conflict...

You are both responsible for the high conflict situations, like they say it takes to to tango. The best advise I had even been given on this site was to treat my ex like a business partner and leave...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2012, 10:46 AM
Replies: 44
Views: 4,528
Posted By Pharah
First, he is responsible for picking your...

First, he is responsible for picking your daughter up from camp when she is with him. Your offering to pick her up, while nice, is not your responsibility and I think your offering has complicated...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2012, 09:55 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,381
Posted By Pharah
Decisions like this are all about what is...

Decisions like this are all about what is reasonable. If you offer to allow your ex 'make-up' time for his missed visitation with the kids, it would be unreasonable for him to not allow you to take...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2012, 09:21 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 824
Posted By Pharah
Medical insurance policies should be a section 7...

Medical insurance policies should be a section 7 expense but in our case it was not something the Judge was willing to make a ruling on (I was never married). That said, it is in the child's best...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-20-2012, 09:31 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,011
Posted By Pharah
Common Law and Death

My mother has been living with her common-law husband for almost 20 years and she has retire. Her husband is to retire in a few years but there is some health concerns. My mother is the beneficiary...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2012, 02:45 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,819
Posted By Pharah
Thank Hammer. I might do that before I hand them...

Thank Hammer. I might do that before I hand them over just in case. My fiance's uncle is a lawyer and he will most like do it for free.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2012, 02:43 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,819
Posted By Pharah
Wow, seriously take a breathe. My son is Canadian...

Wow, seriously take a breathe. My son is Canadian but he was born in another country. He was naturalized at 3 months of age. As a matter of point, I have offered a notarized copy in addition to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2012, 01:08 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,819
Posted By Pharah
My son was not born in Canada but thanks for your...

My son was not born in Canada but thanks for your input Blink.

I have agreed to provide the documentation with the understanding that they are returned following the application in order to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2012, 01:00 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,819
Posted By Pharah
You can have multiple copies of birth...

You can have multiple copies of birth certificates, for example long form and short form but generally you are correct. For Health and Citizenship card and the like, you are only allowed a single...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2012, 12:03 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,819
Posted By Pharah
I am not sure that is a legal requirement. His...

I am not sure that is a legal requirement. His health card had been sent back and forth but his other documentation have not. If this is a legal requirement, could you please refer me to where...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2012, 11:43 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,819
Posted By Pharah
I understand that the documents belong to my son...

I understand that the documents belong to my son but as stated the documents have a purpose and need to be sent with my son's other application. I had to apply for them, so should she.

I am no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2012, 11:35 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,819
Posted By Pharah
The passport has a provision in the order. She is...

The passport has a provision in the order. She is not able to withhold it so that is not a good example. I have a need for the documents hence the reason I ordered them. She has the ability to do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-14-2012, 10:54 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,819
Posted By Pharah
Child's Identification

We have joint custody with shared access and a court order re-enforcing that. In the order, it states that my son will have a valid Canadian Passport and it's the responsibility of my ex to renew...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2011, 04:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,155
Posted By Pharah
They have education sessions for kids at Toronto...

They have education sessions for kids at Toronto Family Services - FIT.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-28-2011, 08:58 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 762
Posted By Pharah
CAS are there to intervene in serious cases of...

CAS are there to intervene in serious cases of neglect or abuse. They are not there to deal with battling parenting. They rarely get involved in cases where two parents are involved in a custody...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-20-2011, 11:02 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 701
Posted By Pharah
They maybe a deciding factor but they don't just...

They maybe a deciding factor but they don't just do whatever the kids want, regardless of what is in their best interests. From what you have said, living with her is not in their best interests.
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Forum: Parenting Issues 03-20-2011, 10:39 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,392
Posted By Pharah
Feeding time between a parent and a new born is...

Feeding time between a parent and a new born is when a parent bonds with their child, mentally and emotionally. Parents that live together or separate need to be sharing this experience and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-20-2011, 10:35 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,392
Posted By Pharah
Why is it any more detrimental for an infant to...

Why is it any more detrimental for an infant to be 'bounced around' from home to home, then say a toddler that can recognize where they are? When my children where young, we spend all kinds of time...
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