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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-26-2018, 11:16 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,168
Posted By fairlight
We're in court already. I'm the respondent, not...

We're in court already. I'm the respondent, not the applicant, defending against his false allegations. I have never taken him to court over any issue.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-26-2018, 11:08 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 304
Posted By fairlight
Child/spousal support when no ability to pay

Husband is in a very bad way financially, however he is dealing with it in a destructive way. Do I still file child/spousal?
Forum: Domestic Violence 12-26-2018, 10:17 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,572
Posted By fairlight
kate331: It would be hard to enforce, yes, but...

kate331: It would be hard to enforce, yes, but may have the effect of motivating him to improve his behaviour, which is the whole point. He does have respect for the law, even if none for me and the...
Forum: Domestic Violence 12-24-2018, 02:02 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,166
Posted By fairlight
Very good for deconstructing a lot of the...

Very good for deconstructing a lot of the rationalizations abusers offer for their abuse and to become more grounded in reality again. I disagree with some of his explanations for WHY abuse occurs,...
Forum: Domestic Violence 12-24-2018, 01:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,572
Posted By fairlight
Emotional abuse of children

Serious problem. Hard to prove. Long history of DV in our case, along with criminal charges, but I think it would be a bit of an uphill battle to restrict visitation long-term. Nor do I really want...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2018, 01:46 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,168
Posted By fairlight
"Sugar mama" would probably be most accurate. Ha...

"Sugar mama" would probably be most accurate. Ha ha! But definitely not a very dignified term.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2018, 01:37 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,168
Posted By fairlight
^ Ha ha! Point taken. Ok, what's the...

^ Ha ha! Point taken.

Ok, what's the appropriate legal word then? I do cringe a bit at using a word like "girlfriend" or "partner". The first implies that he is single or already divorced which...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2018, 01:31 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 349
Posted By fairlight
Call me crazy but I don't like fighting and I...

Call me crazy but I don't like fighting and I actually believe people should sort their problems out between themselves, especially when it comes to their children. I hate having the government...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2018, 12:14 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,168
Posted By fairlight
Thanks, that makes a lot of sense. I actually...

Thanks, that makes a lot of sense. I actually have no desire to air the dirty laundry, just a bunch of false allegations to respond to and a custody battle. I had offered to settle out of court and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2018, 11:58 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 349
Posted By fairlight
Thanks. What if you ask for their claim to be...

Thanks. What if you ask for their claim to be dismissed, but you didn't make any of your own? Could the case actually be dismissed?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-23-2018, 10:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 349
Posted By fairlight
Asking for the applicant's claim to be dismissed

Why is this on the Form 10 answer? How could it happen that an applicant's claim would be dismissed?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-23-2018, 10:32 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,168
Posted By fairlight
I don't believe this is legal, actually. And I...

I don't believe this is legal, actually. And I wouldn't care to do that anyway. I offered to do a joint application and resolve things peacefully. He insisted on litigating to punish me for all the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-23-2018, 03:47 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,168
Posted By fairlight
Sorry, I had to re-read this to catch everything...

Sorry, I had to re-read this to catch everything you were saying. The other party does not have a "common law spouse". Where do you see that? Living with the other woman doesn't make you common law...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-23-2018, 12:50 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,168
Posted By fairlight
Thank you. I have a documented disability for...

Thank you. I have a documented disability for which I receive benefits, which has prevented me from working full-time. So it is not as simple as "go out and get a job" but I am doing what I can.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-22-2018, 10:24 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,168
Posted By fairlight
He hasn't claimed hardship at this point. Just an...

He hasn't claimed hardship at this point. Just an incredibly low income. If he was working minimum wage, he'd make triple what he's claimed.

I had a lump sum payout from an insurance claim years...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-22-2018, 08:44 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,168
Posted By fairlight
Naming a co-respondent?

I am counter-filing for divorce on the grounds of adultery and am wondering about naming my husband's mistress. Husband has admitted the adultery (in his application!) and is currently living at his...
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