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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 01:57 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 171
Posted By Janus
Get a year long calendar. Post it prominently in...

Get a year long calendar. Post it prominently in the kitchen. Highlight your weekends in bright neon pink, where the kids will see it repeatedly throughout the year.

Once the kids are on board,...
Forum: Political Issues Yesterday, 01:50 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 961
Posted By Janus
As they say: 83% of statistics are just made up...

As they say: 83% of statistics are just made up on the spot.

Edit: To be clear, I think valentine is making up stuff, not 95% of those alleging domestic violence :)
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2020, 02:55 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 402
Posted By Janus
Your local federal MP might be a better place to...

Your local federal MP might be a better place to start.



You are preaching to the converted here. For a few years there was a workaround but CRA shut down that door. I'm honestly not sure why.
Forum: General Chat 01-20-2020, 02:51 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 747
Posted By Janus
Did I hurt your feelings? :) Worst...

Did I hurt your feelings? :)



Worst case scenario is tens of thousands of dollars lost in court costs and financial ruin. Court is not an argument that you lose and move on with your life. ...
Forum: General Chat 01-20-2020, 02:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 100
Posted By Janus
You can definitely get an order from the court...

You can definitely get an order from the court dispensing with her consent for passports. Might want to also get an order that also allows you to travel without her consent. Probably want to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2020, 10:52 PM
Replies: 34
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Views: 731
Posted By Janus
Normally, I would say start an application asking...

Normally, I would say start an application asking for what you want. That's how courts work. You also become responsible for keeping the case moving forward. Nobody is going to push it for you. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2020, 12:28 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 596
Posted By Janus
I meant court, I was using your terminology :). ...

I meant court, I was using your terminology :).

It is unfortunate, but "fair" is not a strong concept in family court. You need to be careful.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2020, 11:56 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 596
Posted By Janus
General rule: Assume that anything you say or...

General rule: Assume that anything you say or write to your ex will be read by a judge.

General rule #2: There is no point in trying to convince your ex that she is evil. .

General rule #3:...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2020, 10:27 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 465
Posted By Janus
Family law Rule 18: That's it :)

Family law Rule 18:



That's it :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2020, 10:44 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 541
Posted By Janus
Yup, as I said: I don't think he fully...

Yup, as I said:



I don't think he fully gets that point yet. If he was actually abusive, he's not getting custody.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2020, 10:40 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 423
Posted By Janus
Yikes. I was not including the lawyers, since...

Yikes. I was not including the lawyers, since they have to be paid even at a trial. Is that number just the arbitrator?

That's a lot to pay for a bit of speed and privacy.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2020, 10:39 PM
Replies: 34
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Views: 731
Posted By Janus
At the end of the day, the standard in family...

At the end of the day, the standard in family court is "what is best for the children". Fairness to you is very much a second tier consideration. Can you show that cheerleading is bad for her? If...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2020, 10:31 PM
Replies: 34
Dro
Views: 731
Posted By Janus
I think it was you. It was something about child...

I think it was you. It was something about child support. Somebody had said that something was the way it is, but you clarified that the something was the way it should be, implying that it was not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2020, 06:53 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 423
Posted By Janus
All of this is true. I guess it is up to you to...

All of this is true. I guess it is up to you to decide if those advantages are worth the $40k. Maybe less, how much would the arbitrater generally charge in a case?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2020, 06:51 PM
Replies: 34
Dro
Views: 731
Posted By Janus
To paraphrase your comment on a different...

To paraphrase your comment on a different thread...

...Competitive cheerleading should not be S7, but let's be honest, a judge would probably make it S7 anyway. That stuff ain't cheap.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2020, 06:50 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 541
Posted By Janus
Think of it as saving you money. Fighting...

Think of it as saving you money. Fighting pointless battles is expensive.



If it makes you feel better, 2 year olds are notoriously unreliable story tellers. Many kids are not even talking...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2020, 09:59 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 423
Posted By Janus
Actually, I would skip both the "med" and the...

Actually, I would skip both the "med" and the "arb" part of "med-arb" and just go to court.

Arbitration is pretty much just like court, except instead of the judge being paid for by the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2020, 09:56 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 387
Posted By Janus
Sure, but you are resisting 50/50 so that you can...

Sure, but you are resisting 50/50 so that you can continue to receive his support payments.

That said, he did give you the finger. That's some pretty hard core alienation behaviour right there.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2020, 09:53 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 541
Posted By Janus
You are facing criminal charges which have not...

You are facing criminal charges which have not been dismissed, and you are fighting about RoFR?

You are facing a situation which is potentially completely lethal to your custody aspirations. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2020, 09:47 PM
Replies: 34
Dro
Views: 731
Posted By Janus
Why not just: 1) Not pay 2) Not bring the...

Why not just:

1) Not pay
2) Not bring the kid on your time

And let her start a court case if she is so inclined?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:51 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 613
Posted By Janus
When does weekend begin and end? Does it go...

When does weekend begin and end?

Does it go Friday to Monday morning, or Friday to Sunday at some time?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:50 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 495
Posted By Janus
ok, I can answer some stuff now :) 1) Why...

ok, I can answer some stuff now :)

1) Why spousal support

Strong compensatory reasons. She essentially sacrificed her ability to produce income in order to take care of the children of the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:22 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 613
Posted By Janus
So you currently have 50% of the overnights?

So you currently have 50% of the overnights?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:16 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 495
Posted By Janus
So, of those 13 years, in how many of those did...

So, of those 13 years, in how many of those did she work full time?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2019, 01:15 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 495
Posted By Janus
Haha, yes, that's right. Sorry :)

Haha, yes, that's right.

Sorry :)
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