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Forum: Divorce Support 09-06-2014, 02:59 PM
Replies: 23
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Posted By Stacy'sMom
I was going to give my thoughts on this, and I...

I was going to give my thoughts on this, and I did like where you were going in trying to have the child empathize with the father's situation; I'd have done it a little bit differently to ensure...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-06-2014, 02:52 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,955
Posted By Stacy'sMom
This is exactly why I don't advise leaving things...

This is exactly why I don't advise leaving things in the hands of the child because it is the child who is being forced into distress by the mother's actions (meaning in short that it's not his...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-06-2014, 12:26 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,955
Posted By Stacy'sMom
Never at any time did I give an assessment on...

Never at any time did I give an assessment on this child or on the family dynamics at play in this situation because you're absolutely right I have none of the history, I've met none of the family,...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-06-2014, 02:57 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,955
Posted By Stacy'sMom
I did give my opinion. I stated what I...

I did give my opinion.
I stated what I thought was in the best interest of the child.
I additionally expressed concerns which I had about something which I saw as having a potential damaging...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-06-2014, 01:28 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,955
Posted By Stacy'sMom
I'm sorry I don't agree. As someone with a bit...

I'm sorry I don't agree.
As someone with a bit of background in developmental psychology, I can tell you that what you're suggesting, even if it be on an interim basis, is not healthy to the child....
Forum: Divorce Support 09-06-2014, 12:51 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,955
Posted By Stacy'sMom
this I agree with wholeheartedly! He is a...

this I agree with wholeheartedly!

He is a teenager, and like any teenager, he will need firm boundaries and guidance in order to navigate him through the next few years.

Look at it this way; if...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-06-2014, 12:06 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,955
Posted By Stacy'sMom
This I agree with This is a very bad...

This I agree with



This is a very bad idea!
Your partner would effectively be appropriating their behaviour by doing the same thing himself, and it teaches them nothing aside from affirming...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-05-2014, 11:25 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,955
Posted By Stacy'sMom
Is there a court order for access in place? If...

Is there a court order for access in place?
If so, does it have a set schedule?

I'm sorry to hear that this is happening to him. It isn't right and even if the kids are teens, he is still their...
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