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Forum: Financial Issues 08-14-2019, 02:46 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 469
Posted By HammerDad
The term to use for this test is that the...

The term to use for this test is that the agreement would need to be so one sided as to be found "unconscionable".
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 04:58 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 469
Posted By HammerDad
It kind of is double dipping. C/S is to cover the...

It kind of is double dipping. C/S is to cover the costs of the children in a way that would be similar to their lifestyle if the parents remained together. So the things you mentioned here "cable,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-09-2019, 02:03 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 295
Posted By HammerDad
The ex is not entitled to the details of your...

The ex is not entitled to the details of your current g/f. They may like to think they are, but are not. You are no longer together, thus her ability to play gatekeeper to who you associate with is...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-09-2019, 11:00 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 393
Posted By HammerDad
IMO that the first clause is in the event of job...

IMO that the first clause is in the event of job loss or job changes mid year. Giving NoA's isn't helpful when there is a change in September and you have wait until May-June when you receive your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-09-2019, 10:48 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 295
Posted By HammerDad
I would reply with: "Dear Satan's Dance...

I would reply with:


"Dear Satan's Dance Partner,


While I understand the concern you may have for the safety of our child, please know that your request for a CAS and police check are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-07-2019, 01:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 225
Posted By HammerDad
Share the driving with each parent being...

Share the driving with each parent being responsible for picking up the kids for their parenting time. Don't do the "meet half way" because that sucks when 1 parent runs late. Let the parent who has...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2019, 09:32 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 887
Posted By HammerDad
The answer here should be to simply switch...

The answer here should be to simply switch weekends until a later date, unless the ex is dead set on having the kids that weekend. And if that is the case, I would have simply offered to drop off the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2019, 02:57 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 295
Posted By HammerDad
Actually, I am not sure a judge would see that as...

Actually, I am not sure a judge would see that as "shared". Most judges look at overnights when determining the percentages of parenting time. Now, most isn't all, but just be aware that it is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2019, 02:08 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 295
Posted By HammerDad
I read your other thread, you mentioned you have...

I read your other thread, you mentioned you have kids and the ex has left with them. If that is correct, what arrangements have been made in relation to custody or your parenting time? If nothing,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2019, 09:00 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 887
Posted By HammerDad
If he cannot take care of the kids for long...

If he cannot take care of the kids for long periods of time I would ask the ex if they would be open to switching weekends to a weekend when they are more mobile. That it would save the kids a lot of...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2019, 09:44 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 474
Posted By HammerDad
Braces are s7 every time. So is the current...

Braces are s7 every time. So is the current dental work. The ex should simply run it through their insurance and then you split the remainder proportionally to income.


My kid just got braces. I...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-25-2019, 09:21 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 976
Posted By HammerDad
Yup. Status quo of the child living down there...

Yup. Status quo of the child living down there has been established. What is most likely going to happen is that you will get the EOW and the lions share of the school breaks. Allowing the move...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-24-2019, 05:04 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 976
Posted By HammerDad
Uggg..... I didn't realize there is another child...

Uggg..... I didn't realize there is another child in the mix and you share custody. It would be REALLY hard to justify giving up time with one child for the other. IMO, I think you are stuck in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2019, 04:59 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 615
Posted By HammerDad
He may have a tough climb, but he may still be...

He may have a tough climb, but he may still be successful. There could be any number of reasons why he may have to work during an unscheduled period. He would need to specify this. It would be...
Forum: Political Issues 07-24-2019, 04:23 PM
Replies: 87
Views: 20,174
Posted By HammerDad
But I thought after we took down FRO we were...

But I thought after we took down FRO we were gonna raid Area 51..... :D
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2019, 04:22 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 615
Posted By HammerDad
That is not how the law looks at it.

That is not how the law looks at it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2019, 04:21 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 615
Posted By HammerDad
I guess it will all come down to how the ex...

I guess it will all come down to how the ex reasons this. If they say that the summer camp is necessary for them to work, then you will likely be on the hook for your proportional share. Their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2019, 03:42 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 615
Posted By HammerDad
Whether or not the summer camps are s7 would...

Whether or not the summer camps are s7 would depend on whether your ex needs them for work. I see the kids are 13 and 11, but the ex may not want to leave them home alone while he works. If that is...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-24-2019, 03:34 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 976
Posted By HammerDad
^^^ Best advice in the thread actually.

^^^ Best advice in the thread actually.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-24-2019, 03:29 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 976
Posted By HammerDad
C/S may still be reduced to factor in the...

C/S may still be reduced to factor in the increased costs of transporting the child notwithstanding that transportation is shared. 10 hours shared is still 5 hours each way, which is still a...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-23-2019, 04:58 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 976
Posted By HammerDad
As mentioned, child care for your daughter is a...

As mentioned, child care for your daughter is a s7 expense and you will need to pay your proportional share of the amount. There is no way around that, notwithstanding that you take time off from...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2019, 04:47 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 516
Posted By HammerDad
My first agreement took about 6-7 months, but it...

My first agreement took about 6-7 months, but it only dealt with custody (not married, didn't live together or have mutual assets). But it only dealt with the first year or so. I've had to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-11-2019, 01:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 183
Posted By HammerDad
If this is the case, where the costs associated...

If this is the case, where the costs associated are high (as in long drives and 2-3 nights stay), than it is a s7 expense. The cost would be split proportionally to income. That is how it is supposed...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-11-2019, 09:49 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 183
Posted By HammerDad
No, that is not how it works. My...

No, that is not how it works.



My daughter is also in competitive tournaments. The costs associated with hotel accommodations and airfare for the activity are s7 expenses. The parent that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-09-2019, 11:12 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,399
Posted By HammerDad
Sounds like things are going OK. You can likely...

Sounds like things are going OK. You can likely look up the principal online through the schools website and get their details there.


Regarding all of the people that have traveled without a...
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