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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 10:21 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 118
Posted By iona6656
My ex would probably say his experience is/was...

My ex would probably say his experience is/was positive...we started out last December with me saying he would NEVER get midweek overnights. And now? Heís getting midweek overnights. Not for a while,...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-16-2019, 02:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 219
Posted By iona6656
thank you arabian for your candid post. I...

thank you arabian for your candid post.

I never picked that up from your previous posts. About the abuse. This was your first husband (your son's dad)? As opposed to the idiot who keeps dragging...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2019, 01:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 275
Posted By iona6656
your daughter was 12. our daughter is 2. ...

your daughter was 12.

our daughter is 2.

you haven't identified any special factors in your daughter's care. Our daughter has life threatening allergies and severe atopic eczema that requires...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-15-2019, 02:57 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 219
Posted By iona6656
How to resolve doubts about your agreement?

We're *this* close to finalizing parenting stuff.

I'm not elated by the schedule, and neither is my ex...so according to my lawyer- that usually signals that it's a good agreement.

While my ex...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 10:10 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 275
Posted By iona6656
SO close..

Update.

I'm drafting a new final order, to walk in to our settlement conference next Monday, incorporating a transitional parenting schedule that my ex and I agreed to with our co-parent...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 09:50 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 219
Posted By iona6656
This is a really hard question to answer without...

This is a really hard question to answer without seeing your separation agreement.

As lawyers, we have a professional obligation to ensure that anything we're reviewing, and providing advice on,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-12-2019, 09:19 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 745
Posted By iona6656
Iím so sorry to hear about that for your...

Iím so sorry to hear about that for your daughter. Sucks for her. Hope you have the resources to get her some help.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2019, 11:13 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 598
Posted By iona6656
Iím pretty sure you can file for exclusive...

Iím pretty sure you can file for exclusive possession but not be in the home temporarily for a couple of months. Get your paper work ready. Donít tell him. Leave for a bit and have him served. Donít...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-09-2019, 09:40 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 282
Posted By iona6656
Had a friend in need of a family lawyer in the...

Had a friend in need of a family lawyer in the ottawa area. These referrals come from my family lawyer.


Marta Siemiarczuk- is the one referred to by my lawyer most....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-09-2019, 09:31 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 295
Posted By iona6656
My ex asked for this in our parenting plan- that...

My ex asked for this in our parenting plan- that any new partners provide a vulnerable sector check if requested by the other parent.

It made laugh because my ex wouldn't even pass a vulnerable...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-09-2019, 09:24 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 393
Posted By iona6656
Yeah- I think it's 50/50 crapshoot on whether I'm...

Yeah- I think it's 50/50 crapshoot on whether I'm back in court.

Knowing my ex- I'm thinking there are three possibilities- 1) he walks away once the fight is over 2) he fights me every couple of...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 09:50 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 393
Posted By iona6656
Child support variability clause?

No- because there is another clause regarding CS update based on the previous years T1- and revising section 7 contributions. These clauses are different.

My lawyer wouldnít be doing the work...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 09:04 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 393
Posted By iona6656
Itís a bad clause because it allows for the...

Itís a bad clause because it allows for the parties to present ďevidenceĒ that hasnít been tested. And then you argue and end up in court anyways.

My ex is an accountant - with a good lawyer. If...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 08:57 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 393
Posted By iona6656
Which strengthens my argument that we shouldnít...

Which strengthens my argument that we shouldnít put things in there that wouldnít hold up in court.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 08:54 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 393
Posted By iona6656
Stretching is a nice way of putting it. He wants...

Stretching is a nice way of putting it. He wants to be able to change CS without having to go to court.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 08:51 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 393
Posted By iona6656
My lawyer struck it. He said itís garbage too. If...

My lawyer struck it. He said itís garbage too. If a party has a material change - they can make the arguments to the court. Putting it in the agreement just allows him to do so unilaterally as...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 04:35 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 393
Posted By iona6656
Child support variability clause?

My ex's offer says the following:


....
Child support shall also be variable in the event of a material change in circumstances of either the Applicant, the Respondent or D2 that would affect...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2019, 09:58 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 887
Posted By iona6656
Telling the OP how the visits will work is...

Telling the OP how the visits will work is pushing boundaries.



this.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2019, 09:56 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 887
Posted By iona6656
You don't know what the extent of the abuse was....

You don't know what the extent of the abuse was. Was it purely physical? Was it emotional or psychological? Was it sexual?

Yeah- that's why you're wrong about this. Safety is about the person...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-04-2019, 01:30 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 887
Posted By iona6656
Question about parenting time

While I agree that being reasonable and taking the higher ground is generally the preferable approach. With ex partners who were abusive, itís an invitation to them to engage in boundary pushing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-04-2019, 01:25 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 887
Posted By iona6656
Question about parenting time

Ehhhh....you donít necessarily know what she means by safety fears. We donít know her dv history.

This behaviour the OP is describing by her ex is exactly the bullshit boundary pushing behaviour...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2019, 02:48 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 887
Posted By iona6656
Your ex sounds like a bully, just by how you...

Your ex sounds like a bully, just by how you framed your original post. The fact that he told you. Boundaries with abusive ex partners are necessary. The leeway that other co-parents may have is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-30-2019, 04:09 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 258
Posted By iona6656
Whatís a gag order? What or who are you going to...

Whatís a gag order? What or who are you going to put it on?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2019, 11:23 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 615
Posted By iona6656
Thanks. I might propose the overall costs be...

Thanks. I might propose the overall costs be limited a bit higher- like $2000- kids activities are goddamn expensive. Even city programs are like $500 a session for ballet or dance. Not to mention...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2019, 11:02 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 326
Posted By iona6656
This is pretty much what happened with the...

This is pretty much what happened with the parenting plan that I'm working on with our co-parent therapist. My lawyer looked at it- and said "Nope. No separate plan- put everything into the offer to...
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