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Forum: Parenting Issues 03-02-2020, 08:59 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,516
Posted By Tired_Dad
Boy does this hit home... I've been in your...

Boy does this hit home... I've been in your situation and am still going through it now. I have 3 daughters and they have all gone through some sort of separation from me. I left their mother (not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 08:28 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 455
Posted By Tired_Dad
I am also in a similar position. My ex recently...

I am also in a similar position. My ex recently moved 3 hours away with my youngest. My daughter (17) has been having difficulties in school since the house was sold and I've been blamed for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 03:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 665
Posted By Tired_Dad
You've been at this a lot longer than I, so I...

You've been at this a lot longer than I, so I can't offer much at the moment. I, as well, have received an order to unilaterally sell the matrimonial home. I've been at this for 1 year and no further...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2019, 08:06 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 404
Posted By Tired_Dad
Her lawyer sent my lawyer an email, basically...

Her lawyer sent my lawyer an email, basically asking for money without going to court!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2019, 10:02 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 404
Posted By Tired_Dad
Question regarding appealing an uncontested divorce when found in default

Good day all! It appears that my ex is trying to come after me a year after our divorce was finalized. I ended up going to court to finalize our issues and went uncontested and she was found in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 10:24 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 263
Posted By Tired_Dad
I believe we waited about 1-1.5 months for the...

I believe we waited about 1-1.5 months for the judges letter, stating that he wasn't going to endorse the uncontested trial until she was served with his letter, our application (if we decided to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 09:44 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 263
Posted By Tired_Dad
Good morning! I, myself, went through something...

Good morning! I, myself, went through something similar and here's what I went through. I tried to negotiate WAY BEFORE lawyers were involved. I offered up numerous options and even went to 1...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-02-2019, 12:50 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,900
Posted By Tired_Dad
rockscan - I understand where you're coming from...

rockscan - I understand where you're coming from and feel that you may be right. I will never give up on my girls, but cannot push a relationship that's not wanted. It been voiced and I need to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-02-2019, 10:08 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,900
Posted By Tired_Dad
I understand why that would come off wrong... I...

I understand why that would come off wrong... I just donít know how to deal with someone who avoids everything in life and expects everything. I donít mean to bash her mother, I really donít. I just...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-02-2019, 08:47 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,900
Posted By Tired_Dad
Hello all! Well, this road is not getting any...

Hello all! Well, this road is not getting any easier. It looks like my daughter is turning out like her mother. She puts on a face and tells you what you want to hear, but then avoids you like the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-20-2019, 08:36 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,900
Posted By Tired_Dad
Thank you all for the great advice! I did what I...

Thank you all for the great advice! I did what I said I would do. I went to the house, sat on the front porch and waited. She finally came home and didn't run away or avoid. I asked if we could talk...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-19-2019, 12:11 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,900
Posted By Tired_Dad
That you very much and hope she will let me hug...

That you very much and hope she will let me hug the living s$*t out of her!!! It's been way too long and I can't take this distance anymore. It kills me every day to know that she's living this way....
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-19-2019, 11:40 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,900
Posted By Tired_Dad
I'm not going to make her feel guilty or anything...

I'm not going to make her feel guilty or anything like that. I want to be there for her. Be a part of her life. I love her and her sisters so much and will refuse to give up on them. There has to be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-19-2019, 10:59 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,900
Posted By Tired_Dad
How to save a relationship with your child

Hello all,

I've recently received communications from my youngest (D17) stating that I failed her as a father, she doesn't see a relationship with me in the future and hopes I'll be happy with my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2019, 10:19 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 313
Posted By Tired_Dad
If you both are being amicable and are willing to...

If you both are being amicable and are willing to allow the children to travel with each other, there's an interactive section on the Canadian Border Patrol website:...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2019, 03:57 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,658
Posted By Tired_Dad
I'm so sorry you are going through all this. This...

I'm so sorry you are going through all this. This is not pleasant for anyone, trust me. All I can say (and I'm sure others will say the same thing) is be patient. Think of them as being hostages. It...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 01:26 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 2,130
Posted By Tired_Dad
No worries! I know all too well about trying and...

No worries! I know all too well about trying and getting nowhere. Proof to the mountain tops and brought our youngest to therapy for over 2 years! Tried my very best! I'm on the other side, so my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 01:09 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 2,130
Posted By Tired_Dad
If you have proof or trying to include him in the...

If you have proof or trying to include him in the children's lives, don't worry about it. The courts will see that you made every attempt reasonable, in your circumstances, and clear your name in...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2019, 11:33 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 908
Posted By Tired_Dad
From my experience, FRO deducts 50% every other...

From my experience, FRO deducts 50% every other week during a 2 pay week month. When there is a 3 pay week month, they deduct nothing. You get your full pay on those weeks (usually there are 2 in a...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-07-2019, 12:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 984
Posted By Tired_Dad
I understand about the entitlement factor. I'm...

I understand about the entitlement factor. I'm not 100% clear as to how they figure this out. My ex did stay home with the children, but then decided to stay home and relax for a number of years...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2019, 06:58 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 984
Posted By Tired_Dad
My children are older and almost done high...

My children are older and almost done high school, so this may be why the judge didnít push anything more. At the time, my relationship with my kids were starting to turn around. Now that Iím...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2019, 04:31 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 984
Posted By Tired_Dad
I believe it is and you are correct. Because she...

I believe it is and you are correct. Because she was found in default, didn't file a response, didn't respond to anything, she wasn't given spousal support at the uncontested hearing. She's now...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2019, 12:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 984
Posted By Tired_Dad
Income question

I received my divorce via an uncontested trial (ex wouldn't acknowledge anything) and now she's coming after me for spousal support. My question is this... would all the money I've given her via...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-29-2019, 11:30 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,460
Posted By Tired_Dad
Thank you again for your feedback. To clarify,...

Thank you again for your feedback. To clarify, I've done my best to keep their mother out of our conversations. I've even tried to promote their mother to them.. it respectful ways. I've just tried...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-29-2019, 10:20 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,460
Posted By Tired_Dad
Thank you all for your feedback! I'll continue...

Thank you all for your feedback! I'll continue down my path in hopes this all gets cleared up soon. I can only pray this doesn't take years. Good luck to everyone out there.
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