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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-26-2020, 06:04 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 449
Posted By LovingDad1234
You are suggesting that a son of 2 parents not...

You are suggesting that a son of 2 parents not spend equal time with the father compared to the mother. There are many posters on here who would strongly disagree with this, including myself, unless...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-26-2020, 09:30 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 549
Posted By LovingDad1234
During Settlement Conference: Judge to Dad: ...

During Settlement Conference:

Judge to Dad: "She says you haven't been giving baths, when you have your child can you ensure to give baths as appropriate, even in a shared parenting regime?"
...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-25-2020, 01:43 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 549
Posted By LovingDad1234
Yes, correct. If there is abuse in the text,...

Yes, correct. If there is abuse in the text, then it would be admissable. However, it must be legitimate abuse and not "Look he texts me much more often than I do him". That is a texting...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-24-2020, 02:50 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 549
Posted By LovingDad1234
Judges don't read texts, so no format at all. ...

Judges don't read texts, so no format at all. Sorry to say but you are likely wasting your time and effort. People watch way too much TV and think they can walk into court with a box of text...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-23-2020, 10:07 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 549
Posted By LovingDad1234
Judges don't go reading through reams of text...

Judges don't go reading through reams of text messages. My ex thinks so which is annoying. So know that you are not alone.

My ex treats me like her dancing monkey too. She doesn't respond to...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-19-2020, 03:10 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 392
Posted By LovingDad1234
Makes sense, thank you. I will do searches of...

Makes sense, thank you. I will do searches of the forum to see if I can clear up the contradicting information provided in this thread regarding equally splitting CCB when its equal parenting.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-19-2020, 02:12 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 392
Posted By LovingDad1234
Or conversely someone can respond to the...

Or conversely someone can respond to the questions posted directly in this thread. Janus seemed to contradict himself so perhaps he can clarify?
Forum: Financial Issues 06-19-2020, 01:23 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 392
Posted By LovingDad1234
There appears to be mixed messages on the CCB...

There appears to be mixed messages on the CCB topic. In one post (Janus on June 11) states that "with shared custody you will get half the child benefits." However in subsequent posts, it is...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2020, 08:29 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 392
Posted By LovingDad1234
So yes, you need to advise CRA, but be aware that...

So yes, you need to advise CRA, but be aware that they might reject it.[/QUOTE]

So write a random handwritten to letter to CRA? No forms to fill out? No specific department or direct email? Just...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-13-2020, 10:13 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 392
Posted By LovingDad1234
40% is when the courts will consider offsetting...

40% is when the courts will consider offsetting child support payments as you are deemed to have a sufficient amount of parenting time possibly warranting an offset. Most separation agreements will...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2020, 10:57 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 392
Posted By LovingDad1234
If you do not currently have shared custody but...

If you do not currently have shared custody but eventually will, do you need to do anything to start receiving your portion of the child-related benefits, such as advise CRA of when shared custody is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-12-2020, 08:40 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 281
Posted By LovingDad1234
Back to the note....would it help for the Doctor...

Back to the note....would it help for the Doctor to write a signed letter outlining that the Doctor's Note is a forgery? In Family Court, you need proper written evidence, not hearsay or the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-11-2020, 03:46 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 281
Posted By LovingDad1234
Fake notes. Lies in court briefs. ...

Fake notes. Lies in court briefs. Over-exagerations in court documents. Half-truths. Not telling the full story or only 1 side of it. Passing personal opinions on character off as though they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2020, 02:16 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,353
Posted By LovingDad1234
I came across this decision on Canlii during my...

I came across this decision on Canlii during my litigation which I will keep in my back pocket. Blanchard v. Walker, 2012 ONCJ 799 (CanLII).

Paragraph 45 is quite satisfying and re-assuring for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-08-2020, 10:51 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 197
Posted By LovingDad1234
Court Order spells out rotating statutory...

Court Order spells out rotating statutory holidays, and that we each get 2 uninterrupted weeks with the kids in the summer. I am thinking that the holidays prevail as they are to be "uninterrupted".
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-05-2020, 10:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 197
Posted By LovingDad1234
Conflict in Vacation Days

Hi Everyone,

General question here. Separation agreement divided statutory holidays, and we are both offered a few uninterrupted weeks of vacation with kiddos. Perhaps oversight but agreement is...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-17-2020, 10:36 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 177
Posted By LovingDad1234
It is based on your total income outlined in your...

It is based on your total income outlined in your Notice of Assessment
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-13-2020, 08:54 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 396
Posted By LovingDad1234
For the OP, courts hate recordings, and often it...

For the OP, courts hate recordings, and often it is inadmissable as evidence. I also demonstrates that you are using trickery to try to discredit the other parent, and not having open and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 07:58 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 854
Posted By LovingDad1234
Can judges order high conflict parents to...

Can judges order high conflict parents to participate in co-parenting counseling, where the parents hopefully learn to get along and respect one another? I fully understand that the unreasonable...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 04:16 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 854
Posted By LovingDad1234
Add: "Treat all written correspondence...

Add: "Treat all written correspondence (email/text) as though it will be read by a judge, because it eventually will"
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 02:43 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 854
Posted By LovingDad1234
What is the resolution you hope to gain in court...

What is the resolution you hope to gain in court by filing for contempt when it deals with non-financial matters that cannot be enforced by a judge? Unless it deals with finances (such as ex not...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 09:45 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 697
Posted By LovingDad1234
My post is about how to deal with my ex who is...

My post is about how to deal with my ex who is controlling, conflict-driven, and vindictive. I had hoped for smoother waters and hate conflict, and came to this forum for guidance on how to deal...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2020, 07:20 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 697
Posted By LovingDad1234
I have dealt with years of nonsense, illogical...

I have dealt with years of nonsense, illogical and unreasonable bs. Me asking my ex to not communicate verbally but rather in writing/email would be interpreted by her as ammo to suggest we cannot...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2020, 10:19 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 697
Posted By LovingDad1234
Double Standards in Parenting

Hi All,

It is sad how divorce brings out the worst in people where people show their true colours,. where we would have never married these people in the first place. I know that in acrimonious...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-06-2020, 04:31 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 361
Posted By LovingDad1234
Support Payments on Moonlighting jobs?

Hypothetical question: If one were to "roll up their sleeves" and burn the candle by moonlighting at McDonald's to help dig themselves out of the hole that their ex left them in (ie: pay legal bills...
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