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Forum: General Chat Today, 05:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 250
Posted By rockscan
I would tell the ex that your time ends at 6 pm...

I would tell the ex that your time ends at 6 pm (or whatever time it does) and you will either take her to the activities yourself or she can schedule them on her time and you will keep her with you....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 08:09 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 89
Posted By rockscan
What does the agreement say specifically about...

What does the agreement say specifically about ss?

Until her lawyer files a motion for the ss you can ignore them.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 12:07 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 89
Posted By rockscan
If the agreement CLEARLY states no extra ss or...

If the agreement CLEARLY states no extra ss or adjustment to ss based on income then ignore the letters. Actually, he can send a response that quotes the agreement and ends with ďI will not be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:17 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 71
Posted By rockscan
Did you get a date for the next conference? If...

Did you get a date for the next conference? If not then book a conference.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:16 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 166
Posted By rockscan
Do you have any order for support from a previous...

Do you have any order for support from a previous conference?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:39 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 198
Posted By rockscan
You agreed to less time which was your first...

You agreed to less time which was your first mistake. You will have costs to fight this. Are you prepared for these costs now?




Offer her full table cs in addition to more time and see what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:28 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 198
Posted By rockscan
There is a wealth of information on this forum...

There is a wealth of information on this forum about 50/50 time. You should definitely do a search and read through what many of the senior posters have said.

If your ex is refusing to budge then...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 08:08 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 153
Posted By rockscan
Shes fighting over a lot more. Her ex has cs...

Shes fighting over a lot more. Her ex has cs ordered based on an imputed income in an interim order. He hasnít responded to income disclosure orders or paid any cs (plus arrears). HE is fighting the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 08:05 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 166
Posted By rockscan
He can file his materials any time he wants. The...

He can file his materials any time he wants. The judge could be simply stating he is to book a motion and file the notice of motion by Dec 16 to prevent any delays.
Forum: Financial Issues 12-03-2019, 12:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 202
Posted By rockscan
If your name is on the title then you are owner...

If your name is on the title then you are owner of the house on paper. If your name and your daughters name are on the title then you are joint owners of the property.

It doesnít matter what the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-02-2019, 03:30 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 221
Posted By rockscan
If you are in contact with that family member,...

If you are in contact with that family member, set up a meeting between the four of you. Adversely you could put together your offer to settle, send it to your ex and let the family member know to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2019, 12:54 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 802
Posted By rockscan
Whoops, I mixed you up with another poster....

Whoops, I mixed you up with another poster. Ignore my get the kids back comment.

The process does take a while though.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2019, 12:24 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 802
Posted By rockscan
Because thatís how the courts work. Which is why...

Because thatís how the courts work. Which is why others have said get your motion filed. Get in front of a judge as soon as possible to get the kids with you equal time. Then you can battle out over...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-28-2019, 12:22 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 683
Posted By rockscan
It probably will never get to the judge. Keep it...

It probably will never get to the judge. Keep it as documentation that can be used in discussions with her or as proof to back up a claim. Its good documentation but may never go anywhere.

Leaving...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-28-2019, 09:31 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 683
Posted By rockscan
$1800 is nothing. Prepare yourself for more. If...

$1800 is nothing. Prepare yourself for more. If you make it to trial and you win you could try to argue for costs but thats a crapshoot. Start watching your money, donít call your lawyer for multiple...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-27-2019, 07:40 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 240
Posted By rockscan
He runs the risk of having his cs increased by...

He runs the risk of having his cs increased by order too!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-27-2019, 05:59 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 240
Posted By rockscan
What did he file about? The extra sport he wanted...

What did he file about? The extra sport he wanted or is there more?

Mediation aside, I wonder if you need a judge this time because he was so difficult after you mediated the first time and caved...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-27-2019, 10:36 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 683
Posted By rockscan
Donít engage the kids. RepeatóDO NOT ENGAGE THE...

Donít engage the kids. RepeatóDO NOT ENGAGE THE KIDS.

If your kids say anything about the situation your response is ďthis is between your mom and I and I donít want you to worry about itĒ. She...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2019, 10:08 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 240
Posted By rockscan
I have never heard of costs being awarded at an...

I have never heard of costs being awarded at an sc.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2019, 07:39 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 802
Posted By rockscan
If you do not have 50/50 offset you will pay cs...

If you do not have 50/50 offset you will pay cs based on your income.




It doesnít necessarily have to be. Tell her you will not accept anything but equal time with the children. Period. Donít...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2019, 04:18 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 802
Posted By rockscan
If she is unwilling to agree to 50/50 you will...

If she is unwilling to agree to 50/50 you will need to buckle up for a battle. This means protecting yourself from any incidents she can use against you. Donít let her engage, stay calm, count to ten...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2019, 08:09 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 215
Posted By rockscan
Not a material change. You knew he was adhd at...

Not a material change. You knew he was adhd at the trial. Getting him on meds is not material.



You just went through a costly trial and probably had job issues as a result. There are probably...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2019, 10:19 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 215
Posted By rockscan
Motion to change

You have to have a material change in circumstances. Considering that you were in trial the last time you updated, I canít believe you would meet the threshold of material change in such a short...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-25-2019, 01:02 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,279
Posted By rockscan
She will never let it go and all it will do is...

She will never let it go and all it will do is affect your daughter negatively. Therapy will help her cope as well as understand the fault is her mothers.

Staying with the grandparents will only...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-25-2019, 11:46 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,279
Posted By rockscan
I lived in that situation and had no grandparents...

I lived in that situation and had no grandparents or dad to run to. At some point we all ran away to get out of the toxic environment. Yes teenagers are a pain in the ass sometimes and yes they do...
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