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Forum: Introductions Yesterday, 09:15 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 85
Posted By arabian
Now you are wiser though... you know you have to...

Now you are wiser though... you know you have to get everything in writing and witnessed right?
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 09:14 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 64
Posted By arabian
Lame sentence for the horrific crimes committed. ...

Lame sentence for the horrific crimes committed.

This is a wake-up call to those who have loved ones with a cell phone/internet.

Hope this guy meets justice in 'general population' in prison...
Forum: Political Issues 04-17-2018, 06:39 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 157
Posted By arabian
I think it will come down to on-reserve vs....

I think it will come down to on-reserve vs. off-reserve status.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-15-2018, 04:48 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 882
Posted By arabian
You can make any offer you wish. However, it...

You can make any offer you wish. However, it makes sense to me (for SS) to do the stepped-down approach over the course of the 4-year degree program. You can put in caveats that she must be in...
Forum: Domestic Violence 04-15-2018, 02:28 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 682
Posted By arabian
Well this certainly has led to lively debate (a...

Well this certainly has led to lively debate (a good thing)! We're certainly not going to agree on everything.

Hope things work out for everyone, particularly the children.

I am heartened...
Forum: Domestic Violence 04-15-2018, 01:37 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 682
Posted By arabian
LF32's situation was different. Notably, I did...

LF32's situation was different. Notably, I did not believe that LF32 was an abuser. His ex was an accuser with no evidence and his ex admitted her accusations were false. Neither LF32 nor his ex...
Forum: Domestic Violence 04-15-2018, 11:34 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 682
Posted By arabian
Ah not so fast you guys.... Just because a...

Ah not so fast you guys....

Just because a person wasn't charged in criminal court doesn't mean they didn't do the crime. I know this first-hand when, after a lengthy 6-month investigation by the...
Forum: Domestic Violence 04-14-2018, 05:14 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 682
Posted By arabian
I believe there are three (3) things to consider:...

I believe there are three (3) things to consider:

1. I believe it is significant that your ex took so long to start legal action.
2. It is also significant that he, an officer of the court,...
Forum: Domestic Violence 04-14-2018, 09:09 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 682
Posted By arabian
I am sorry for what you and your children had to...

I am sorry for what you and your children had to go through to find normalcy and peace. Unfortunately, the family courts frown upon self-help remedies when it comes to custody and often people are...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-09-2018, 10:49 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 254
Posted By arabian
sorry - wrong thread

sorry - wrong thread
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-09-2018, 09:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 254
Posted By arabian
wife/ex's employment is limited with only having...

wife/ex's employment is limited with only having a 4-month conversational English program under her belt. At the very most, I'd impute her with minimum wage at Timmies (15.00/hr). What does that...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-09-2018, 03:37 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 882
Posted By arabian
yeah something is off about this

yeah something is off about this
Forum: Financial Issues 04-09-2018, 08:58 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 882
Posted By arabian
Absolutely - very good point. My comment was...

Absolutely - very good point. My comment was inappropriate.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2018, 09:40 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 882
Posted By arabian
What I'm puzzled about is this poster makes more...

What I'm puzzled about is this poster makes more money than I do yet he has no qualms about me (taxpayer) supporting his ex/wife.

I think there is more to this. Married a few years prior to...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2018, 08:48 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 882
Posted By arabian
I would advise you to come to some sort of...

I would advise you to come to some sort of resolution, albeit temporary, as soon as possible. If you delay you may find yourself at the mercy of FRO (Family Responsibility Office). Collection...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2018, 08:25 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 882
Posted By arabian
Well you seem to gloss over your ex's current...

Well you seem to gloss over your ex's current situation/barriers to employment.

A bachelor's degree is worthless unless it is from an accredited university. Even that guarantees nothing. BAs are...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2018, 06:32 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 882
Posted By arabian
So you bring/sponsor someone and have a child...

So you bring/sponsor someone and have a child with the person and now you think your obligation should be minimal and that the taxpayers should support your ex.

The way I interpret things - you...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2018, 06:09 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 125
Posted By arabian
1. so they are garnishing your CPP/OHS. ...

1. so they are garnishing your CPP/OHS. Typically they take 50% if you don't make an arrangement. Talk to your FRO worker about a VAPS.

2. Your new wife, and her circumstances, are only...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-06-2018, 06:03 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 181
Posted By arabian
Yes a very lengthy read. I am relieved about...

Yes a very lengthy read.

I am relieved about the judge's comments w.r.t. to the psychiatrist. Hopefully this person will retire soon? Seeing a patient for 25+years has eliminated any clinical...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-06-2018, 04:16 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 181
Posted By arabian
Shhhhh..... my adult son (who has the 'failure to...

Shhhhh..... my adult son (who has the 'failure to launch' gene might try to come after me (we don't live in Alberta anymore). I'll have to tell him that I can go after him to support me if his...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2018, 04:03 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 125
Posted By arabian
A few questions: 1. How much in arrears do...

A few questions:

1. How much in arrears do you owe and have you been paying the arrears?
2. How can your ex collect CPP if she hasn't worked? Or is it a very small amount from when she worked...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-05-2018, 10:12 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 781
Posted By arabian
Thanks Sad and Tired. Very interesting. Quite...

Thanks Sad and Tired. Very interesting. Quite affordable in Niagara region. Curious that it is underutilized.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2018, 08:32 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 204
Posted By arabian
Well.... it could be bad for you (hate to say). ...

Well.... it could be bad for you (hate to say). My mother's best friend, who was quite wealthy, had to deal with court-appointed trustee for her husband who had Alzheimer disease. She had to go to...
Forum: General Chat 04-03-2018, 08:28 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,540
Posted By arabian
My ex doesn't have a personality disorder.... he...

My ex doesn't have a personality disorder.... he is simply a dollop of excrement who believes his own lies. My ex's g/f is a malinger-manipulator who is with the man of her dreams. I need say no...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-30-2018, 09:00 PM
Replies: 44
Views: 1,161
Posted By arabian
SS is 100% taxable to your ex (and 100%...

SS is 100% taxable to your ex (and 100% deductible to you).

"...If I had control over the money I earned....those kids would be sitting pretty....best of everything...."

Really? I glean from...
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