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Forum: Parenting Issues Today, 08:16 AM
Replies: 13
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Posted By rockscan
And this is why you will always have problems.

And this is why you will always have problems.
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 06:55 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 201
Posted By rockscan
This is your problem. You are forcing yourself on...

This is your problem. You are forcing yourself on her and Im with her on not liking it. You made it uncomfortable for her and that is the problem. YOU are pushing her boundaries. Your agreement says...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 05:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 271
Posted By rockscan
Welcome to family law. You have to pay your share...

Welcome to family law. You have to pay your share whether you agree or not.
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 01:33 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 201
Posted By rockscan
You really should talk to a therapist about...

You really should talk to a therapist about letting things go. All of your threads include a long winded post about your ďwinĒ. Its in the past. Move on. Stop doing things you know antagonize her....
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 09:41 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 201
Posted By rockscan
Purposely not bringing kids to activities

Heres the deal...your hatred for your ex and hers for you does nothing but impact the kids.

As a child of two people who hated each other I can say it is hell. My siblings and I were subjected to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-25-2020, 11:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 201
Posted By rockscan
So let her be vindictive. Trying to change her...

So let her be vindictive. Trying to change her wonít work. Be the bigger person.



You have a date for 50/50, stop pushing her buttons. You know what shes like, leave her to it and get over it....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-24-2020, 05:09 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 160
Posted By rockscan
You can serve an offer at any time but it is...

You can serve an offer at any time but it is included in the settlement conference brief.
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-24-2020, 04:23 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 70
Posted By rockscan
She may want to go to the local detachment and...

She may want to go to the local detachment and ask them in person. If its on her record she may have to apply for a pardon after a period of time. Did you check the RCMP website?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-24-2020, 10:17 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 125
Posted By rockscan
She more than likely wonít qualify for ODSP but...

She more than likely wonít qualify for ODSP but that is another issue.

There was a big case recently where a disabled child was awarded cs indefinitely BUT that child was in a wheelchair and the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2020, 03:07 PM
Replies: 35
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Views: 872
Posted By rockscan
I thought you had mentioned your daughter was 13....

I thought you had mentioned your daughter was 13.

In this case, as she has already started the process to collect money, you could schedule the next date (whether that is a case conference or a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2020, 02:26 PM
Replies: 35
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Views: 872
Posted By rockscan
If anything they would look at her refusal to...

If anything they would look at her refusal to allow for make up time. Her response could be that the kids want to do the activity and they get a say.

I donít understand what the issue with the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2020, 11:22 AM
Replies: 35
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Views: 872
Posted By rockscan
You seem to be unhappy about a lot of things...

You seem to be unhappy about a lot of things while still failing to realize that you contributed to this problem. You also fail to realize that this isnít a case of mom trying to hurt you, itís kid...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2020, 11:10 PM
Replies: 35
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Views: 872
Posted By rockscan
Getting consecutive weekends is unrealistic. No...

Getting consecutive weekends is unrealistic. No mother will agree to that and a judge wonít allow a mom to go without seeing the kids.

Donít be an atm then. She doesnít have to agree to what you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2020, 10:29 PM
Replies: 35
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Views: 872
Posted By rockscan
But if you are at work, what is the problem? You...

But if you are at work, what is the problem? You arenít there to spend time with the kids.

Your kid is in an activity they enjoy and you want them to stop going so they can be with you.

Almost...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2020, 09:47 PM
Replies: 35
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Views: 872
Posted By rockscan
The other clauses are moot. If you are working...

The other clauses are moot. If you are working then the kid stays with mom. Period. You agreed to it and its not like you are there sitting alone. Plus your child is a teen/preteen? Not going to get...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2020, 09:09 PM
Replies: 35
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Views: 872
Posted By rockscan
Are you working during that time? Is this new...

Are you working during that time? Is this new since the agreement?

If you are working then she has the right as stated in the order.

If this is new and you have availability on other days then...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2020, 06:30 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 105
Posted By rockscan
If you have a previous agreement/order, file a...

If you have a previous agreement/order, file a motion to change (15a) and all the relevant documents. Serve him not his lawyer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2020, 05:32 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 126
Posted By rockscan
You could call and ask. Also ask about how they...

You could call and ask. Also ask about how they notify customs. Not sure how the passport comes up as suspended.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2020, 02:16 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 126
Posted By rockscan
Normally its $3000-4000 and they suspend.

Normally its $3000-4000 and they suspend.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 03:23 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 240
Posted By rockscan
Im sure she will say differently. If you truly...

Im sure she will say differently. If you truly believed this why did you agree? Why didnít you push for trial? Why did you let her win?



She has costs to care for the kids. Last time I checked...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 02:02 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 240
Posted By rockscan
Beat me to most of my point. You agreed to...

Beat me to most of my point.

You agreed to minutes of settlement. Property was settled. As far as the court is concerned property is settled. A judge will turn around and say why are you opening...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 11:02 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 240
Posted By rockscan
Weíve told you before you have no control over...

Weíve told you before you have no control over what she does with the cs payments.

Is there an agreement or order that she owes you that money? Why was it not dealt with in minutes of settlement?...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2020, 10:07 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 290
Posted By rockscan
Yes my husband said absolutely not. Kid filed an...

Yes my husband said absolutely not. Kid filed an affidavit for a previous court date and the judge cautioned the ex on it pointing out how he would have handled it. She hasnít indicated she would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2020, 08:09 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 290
Posted By rockscan
I donít want to be called as a witness. The...

I donít want to be called as a witness. The lawyer simply asked us to think of witnesses and then suggested husbands kids. I was asking here because I was worried we were missing something. Its a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2020, 01:40 PM
Replies: 35
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Views: 872
Posted By rockscan
A couple of hours stuck in a car with dad...

A couple of hours stuck in a car with dad actually IS quality time. With a teen you are competing with phones, friends, video games, bedrooms and sleep. In the car you have them all to yourself and...
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