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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-18-2012, 01:47 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,079
Posted By Lautario
All easy answers: first we are Parents first and...

All easy answers: first we are Parents first and foremost - as well as father and mothers.

At bath time used a soft wash cloth and help your daughter clean herself. Always explain to her why it is...
Forum: Political Issues 10-18-2012, 01:40 PM
Replies: 389
Views: 52,231
Posted By Lautario
completely agree, the current system fails...

completely agree, the current system fails families terribly! Strangely, the various branches of the Canadian Bar Association agree that the system needs to be changed and have been working on it for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2012, 04:03 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,134
Posted By Lautario
Hi, In BC we have the lawline that will answer...

Hi, In BC we have the lawline that will answer basic questions and more. It is VERY helpful as long as you give them all the correct unbiased information.

As far as your financials, you must...
Forum: Political Issues 08-25-2011, 07:36 PM
Replies: 389
Views: 52,231
Posted By Lautario
ahhhh, thank you for all your personal attacks,...

ahhhh, thank you for all your personal attacks, the first and last refuge of people you cannot make rational arguments to defend their position..

Lets us recap my suggestion to help fix a broken...
Forum: Political Issues 08-25-2011, 05:48 PM
Replies: 389
Views: 52,231
Posted By Lautario
Actually it is you who reeks of bitterness and...

Actually it is you who reeks of bitterness and entitlement. Poor you, born a woman and had to bear the children - if you felt that way you could have adopted!

I never said a parent should not pay...
Forum: Political Issues 08-25-2011, 05:29 PM
Replies: 389
Views: 52,231
Posted By Lautario
RE; billm, "Assigning a monetary value to staying...

RE; billm, "Assigning a monetary value to staying at home that should be treated as an asset is BS, and if you don't know it, you're too jaded to see straight."

Maybe get your facts straight and...
Forum: Political Issues 08-25-2011, 04:24 PM
Replies: 389
Views: 52,231
Posted By Lautario
Apparently I have written very poorly. So let me...

Apparently I have written very poorly. So let me clarify;

My point was to address comments by Pursuinghappiness that she had to "give up" her career to raise children, so THAT IS why she is...
Forum: Political Issues 08-25-2011, 02:43 PM
Replies: 389
Views: 52,231
Posted By Lautario
Pursuinghappiness...

Pursuinghappiness (http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/members/pursuinghappiness/) wrote ..."I would agree that all things being equal. Ie, there is no disruption in career due childbirth/childcare,...
Forum: Political Issues 08-25-2011, 12:34 PM
Replies: 389
Views: 52,231
Posted By Lautario
need legislated per-nuptial

I am a dad, I have both my children, all assets were spit in the divorce, with the exception of debt, for which I had to choose between a long and expensive legal battle or accept all. I receive NO...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-04-2011, 12:02 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,019
Posted By Lautario
Photos are pretty easy to recover. One day your...

Photos are pretty easy to recover. One day your children will be 18 and can just get copies when visiting your ex. It is just a waste of time and energy to battle over pictures, time WILL solve the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-16-2011, 01:07 PM
Replies: 192
Views: 23,637
Posted By Lautario
child's view

Children can, and often do, make well informed intelligent decisions. Comparing a child not wanting to go to school to a child having a preference for which parent to live with is not a fair...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2011, 03:51 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,144
Posted By Lautario
Representing yourself is tough. I have had to rep...

Representing yourself is tough. I have had to rep myself in BC Supreme court to get a previous order enforced, Just heard a hour ago from the ex's lawyer that they will comply with the previous order...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2011, 12:41 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,405
Posted By Lautario
A judge will not want your child in the court,...

A judge will not want your child in the court, might I suggest that that YOU bring someone along with you to court and offer to have that person watch your child outside the court room until the...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-06-2011, 06:15 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,057
Posted By Lautario
IF you are considered Cl, then apply for a...

IF you are considered Cl, then apply for a separation agreement and get in court ASAP and have a Judge make a court order. Only one of you can get the place, but keep in mind, as CL you did not make...
Forum: Introductions 03-03-2011, 04:04 PM
Replies: 135
Views: 11,646
Posted By Lautario
Some Advice

Speaking from experience, and mine is very similar to your, here are some suggestions of what you need to do.

1. Call the Ministry of Children and families, get them involved. They will do a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2011, 02:00 PM
Replies: 192
Views: 23,637
Posted By Lautario
Visits with Mother

I am in a different situation than the typical man getting a divorce. My ex-wife has a severe mental illness (BPD)was very abusive and continues to be so.

My son has very strong vivid memories of...
Forum: Political Issues 03-03-2011, 12:07 PM
Replies: 389
Views: 52,231
Posted By Lautario
BC reality Men are treated differently..mothers...

BC reality
Men are treated differently..mothers tend to get preferential treatment.

the Justice Institute in BC says that in reality one parent always has the children 51% or more of the time,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2011, 11:55 AM
Replies: 192
Views: 23,637
Posted By Lautario
All children have a voice

All children have a right to speak on any issue that directly concerns them, however, the courts are under NO requirement to give any weight to a child's wishes.

That being said, my 11 year old...
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