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Forum: General Chat 08-22-2019, 10:35 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 124
Posted By Berner_Faith
Youíre going to be hard pressed to find positive...

Youíre going to be hard pressed to find positive stories around divorce...

There isnít really a way to discuss this that wonít cause hard feelings if your spouse isnít looking for a divorce. Best...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-22-2019, 10:29 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 244
Posted By Berner_Faith
Many, many people live on that or less......

Many, many people live on that or less... especially apprentices as they usually start off making 40% of the regular wage (my brother just finished his apprenticeship last year and when he was first...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-22-2019, 09:14 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 244
Posted By Berner_Faith
I think there is a cost for the in school...

I think there is a cost for the in school portion, although I donít know much about it. Dadís totally okay with helping out with that but paying full CS when the son is making $17 an hour seems a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 07:30 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 336
Posted By Berner_Faith
Thatís great it worked for you but sheís already...

Thatís great it worked for you but sheís already stated sheís working with a lawyer and was advised not to do so. Unfortunately for her itís his house just as much as it is hers as they are married....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 04:18 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 259
Posted By Berner_Faith
It appears Mom is trying to motion for more...

It appears Mom is trying to motion for more access or possibly back to 50/50... having CAS on your side will prove that moms house is a suitable environment. Regardless of how much or how little she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 01:08 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 336
Posted By Berner_Faith
For CRA they will most likely make you prove...

For CRA they will most likely make you prove youíre living separate lives... go ahead and change your status, you donít actually say youíre still living together. But usually they want proof to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 01:05 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 336
Posted By Berner_Faith
Thatís not very good advice... just because she...

Thatís not very good advice... just because she removes him belongings and gets a security code doesnít mean heís moved out. Youíre advising her to attempt to lock him out ďchange the codeĒ... which...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-21-2019, 08:48 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 244
Posted By Berner_Faith
The child will be making $17 an hour as a...

The child will be making $17 an hour as a pre-apprentice, every term that is completed a raise is granted... basically there is no time between start of apprentice and end of apprentice the child...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-21-2019, 08:33 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 244
Posted By Berner_Faith
Apprenticeship and CS

I know the standard is usually CS is reduced when a child is away from home for post secondary and such, but what happens if a child takes an apprenticeship? Most are a few years long and only...
Forum: General Chat 08-21-2019, 08:12 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 493
Posted By Berner_Faith
For what itís worth... when my brother was 1 he...

For what itís worth... when my brother was 1 he had a high fever that broke and sent him into a seizure... my dad was at work... my mom called 911 and it never even crossed her mind to call my Dad as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 08:04 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 336
Posted By Berner_Faith
Can she really remove all his belongings and lock...

Can she really remove all his belongings and lock him out without exclusive possession? To me doing so without that order allowing her to do so could actually hurt her case. Iíd speak to a lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-17-2019, 10:14 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 441
Posted By Berner_Faith
Whatís so special about 2022? Is she starting...

Whatís so special about 2022? Is she starting school? Do you both live close?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 07:53 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 231
Posted By Berner_Faith
I donít think friend has to worry about that......

I donít think friend has to worry about that... friend needs to push for full disclosure... thatís a huge difference in income and writing off of expenses... as stated just because they are allowed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 09:22 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 231
Posted By Berner_Faith
Just for clarification purposes... the ex makes...

Just for clarification purposes... the ex makes $90-120k but is claiming income of $25k according to CRA reports and your friend makes $50k?

It was agreed that post secondary would be split 50-50...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 07:20 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 918
Posted By Berner_Faith
Lost cause rockscan... heís only interested in...

Lost cause rockscan... heís only interested in ranting about how Dads are getting screwed and how all is women just suck them dry


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Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 07:12 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 918
Posted By Berner_Faith
I didnít even read more than a few lines of your...

I didnít even read more than a few lines of your rant but just so youíre aware, I donít receive CS... my husband pays a good amount of it though to his ex, the two kids we have together donít get...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 08:06 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 918
Posted By Berner_Faith
Pretty sure at his income level he isnít living...

Pretty sure at his income level he isnít living in a couch... if he is, he has bigger issues than the Cs he is paying.


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Forum: Financial Issues 08-12-2019, 10:07 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 918
Posted By Berner_Faith
My thoughts are you donít have a strong case to...

My thoughts are you donít have a strong case to reduce support... her new partner has little to do with it. My husband forks over $1000 a month in CS and his income is no where near yours...

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Forum: General Chat 08-09-2019, 07:52 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 755
Posted By Berner_Faith
Iím not sure it would be fraudulent if they are...

Iím not sure it would be fraudulent if they are only being reimbursed for their share... like if the appointment was $300 and they paid $150 and only got reimbursed $150 from insurance itís not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-09-2019, 07:26 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 324
Posted By Berner_Faith
Tell her to take a hike. Let her go to her lawyer...

Tell her to take a hike. Let her go to her lawyer because no good lawyer will write that letter... if her lawyer does then you know heís only in this for billable hours. If thatís the case play...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 09:08 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 415
Posted By Berner_Faith
So youíre going to court every year to update CS...

So youíre going to court every year to update CS is what youíre saying? If he provides his NOA and his income increases and he agrees to pay more are you going to court to get a new order? What if...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 08:56 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 415
Posted By Berner_Faith
My husband has changed child support for the past...

My husband has changed child support for the past ten years without going to. Why would you have to go to court to change it? You do realize even without these clauses, if any of those clauses do...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 05:43 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 415
Posted By Berner_Faith
I wouldnít really say itís garbage... all itís...

I wouldnít really say itís garbage... all itís doing is outlining what may constitute a material change that would effect CS... other than the extraordinary clause because those are separate from CS,...
Forum: General Chat 08-07-2019, 10:50 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 755
Posted By Berner_Faith
According to her last post itís covered under his...

According to her last post itís covered under his benefits and it looks like a request for coverage was sent in... but I guess the problem would be getting him to give that money back to her

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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-07-2019, 02:00 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 248
Posted By Berner_Faith
Slightly disagree... the agreement allowed for a...

Slightly disagree... the agreement allowed for a 100km radius move which the OP abided by. The ex is free to move wherever she wishes, itís really only the children who were required to stay within a...
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