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Forum: Financial Issues 04-30-2020, 07:40 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 203
Posted By backinthesaddle
Yes, itís teachers college so she has finished...

Yes, itís teachers college so she has finished her undergrad. That is his argument but the parenting agreement is vague and just says ďpost secondaryĒ. He hasnít paid any support of any kind due to...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-29-2020, 09:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 203
Posted By backinthesaddle
Post secondary obligations.

Just asking for a friend. Child of relationship. Parenting agreement from 16 years ago states very vaguely that each will contribute to their childís post secondary education. He was contributing and...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2020, 11:22 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 369
Posted By backinthesaddle
Separation Agreement

Is this separation agreement completed by lawyers and signed? Most agreements are over 25 pages long. Lots of legal jargon on paper but you must address finances, properties, support, custody and the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2020, 05:56 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 369
Posted By backinthesaddle
The income would be minimal. Each owner claims...

The income would be minimal. Each owner claims 50% on their taxes. I have a rental and annually my costs are a little less than my gains. By the time I add up taxes, interest, insurance and write...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2020, 05:49 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 639
Posted By backinthesaddle
If they are going on rowing merits they are...

If they are going on rowing merits they are getting a scholarship. If they are going to an Ivy league school and its Division 1 and they have good grades they are getting most of their schooling paid...
Forum: Divorce Support 03-07-2020, 03:51 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,293
Posted By backinthesaddle
Revocable???

You can always revoke your permission. Just because you allowed her to live with you again and she has a peace bond doesn't mean you have to suffer through this any longer. I would reach out to your...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-07-2020, 09:25 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,416
Posted By backinthesaddle
I have worked closely with CAS for over 20 years...

I have worked closely with CAS for over 20 years so can give some honest advice about how they would deal with this. They will not do anything about the he said/she said that is being relayed by...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-07-2020, 08:58 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 830
Posted By backinthesaddle
With the exception of the adult child I would...

With the exception of the adult child I would take this offer and run if I was him. If the adult child is so incapacitated they can apply for ODSP and get paid monthly by the government. His ex would...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 09:01 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 381
Posted By backinthesaddle
You are charged with domestic violence. Rightly...

You are charged with domestic violence. Rightly or wrongly she is viewed as the victim right now. I would just lay low and do what you can to make it to trial date. Even though there is a trial set...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 11:17 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 283
Posted By backinthesaddle
He pays the current child support but the 7 year...

He pays the current child support but the 7 year old agreement states he must submit Tax info and this was never done. What forms. There are so many. She is only asking that the original court order...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 09:02 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 283
Posted By backinthesaddle
Child Support outdated

Asking for a friend....

Brief 5 year marriage and 2 children. Mom has custody with dad having kids 5 nights a month. 2013 superior court awarded mom child support based on 2013 income. Custody...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2020, 08:48 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 381
Posted By backinthesaddle
Custody and possession of home

Does she have interim possession of the matrimonial home or is your release condition on the charges that you simply cannot go to the home? Depending on the facts in issue....was your ex injured,...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2020, 01:08 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,085
Posted By backinthesaddle
Yes you can most definitely. You just canít claim...

Yes you can most definitely. You just canít claim the same child. Odd/even refers to a situation whereby there is only one child to claim between the parents. You alternate who claims the child.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2020, 11:25 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,085
Posted By backinthesaddle
Sa

You can only claim one as eligible dependent so you or your ex canít claim more than one child. I would make it easier and say the younger two that are twins and that way there is never any...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-16-2020, 07:33 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 922
Posted By backinthesaddle
Moving forward

Your mom needs support. I admire you for stepping up as painful as this is because it is your family. I am not sure if you are in Ottawa or not but if so you can go to the police (specifically their...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2020, 07:01 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,085
Posted By backinthesaddle
Alternating years

For those wondering how to outline it in a SA. Presently I claim one child and ex claims another. You can only claim one dependent anyway. In 2023 one will be 18 and my agreement states in that year...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2020, 09:53 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 214
Posted By backinthesaddle
Business joint ownership

Just wondering what happens in a situation whereby there is joint ownership of a business? One spouse is the skilled worker (trades) and the other really has no role and only owner on paper. Is the...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-04-2020, 09:37 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 334
Posted By backinthesaddle
Ex and I just signed our separation agreement....

Ex and I just signed our separation agreement. NFP was a wash as we couldn't agree on the numbers we each put forward but we did agree on the final amount we each are entitled to. We each put forward...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 11:09 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 943
Posted By backinthesaddle
Criminal court and specifically domestic abuse is...

Criminal court and specifically domestic abuse is part of my job so I can give you some insight on what could happen. Family Court...I don't know much and only what many confide in me and my...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-01-2020, 11:18 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 621
Posted By backinthesaddle
It depends how the RESP was handled in your...

It depends how the RESP was handled in your agreement and how schooling is to be paid for. Is it your responsibility to pay for her entire post secondary education? Was it agreed that you contribute...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-31-2019, 12:46 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 226
Posted By backinthesaddle
I think what it implies that any gift of monetary...

I think what it implies that any gift of monetary value cannot be included as spouse"income" when the annual adjustment is calculated for child and spousal support. It also implies that neither...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-24-2019, 08:17 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 706
Posted By backinthesaddle
Can you remortgage the home? Pay off debt and...

Can you remortgage the home? Pay off debt and start the ball rolling for equalization and legal separation with documented financials. If he doesn't have proof of income you may be out of luck with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2019, 08:13 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 573
Posted By backinthesaddle
Take it from someone who has been there. Leave...

Take it from someone who has been there. Leave now. Don't put yourself, your spouse and your kids through this. I waited and it has been a financial nightmare. Had I left years ago the kids would be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2019, 08:05 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 795
Posted By backinthesaddle
Our divorce and matrimonial laws in a divorce can...

Our divorce and matrimonial laws in a divorce can override the title decision. The matrimonial home is the one special asset and doesn't matter whose name is on title. Joint tenants and tenants in...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-23-2019, 08:41 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 238
Posted By backinthesaddle
Post Changing title on title etc.

Ex and I just signed separation documents. He gets the rental house and I get the matrimonial home. I got my signed copy and then applied for a mortgage on my own. I had a lot of documents to...
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