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Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2020, 02:21 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,128
Posted By cranberry
I had to go through a private parenting...

I had to go through a private parenting assessment. I guess during one of his appointments he was bitching about what I feed our kids, i.e nothing but junk food and I have made them obese. The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2020, 02:03 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,187
Posted By cranberry
As soon as the urgent motion papers hit my ex's...

As soon as the urgent motion papers hit my ex's lawyer's office, my kids were home within hours. This lawyer allowed his client to play his game, almost felt like he was encouraging it. But as soon...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-05-2020, 01:15 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,924
Posted By cranberry
Abba435 --- you have triplets?? Omgoodness, I...

Abba435 --- you have triplets?? Omgoodness, I thought twins were a handful! Lol!
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2020, 01:13 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
Thank you for your support, Abba435. I have been...

Thank you for your support, Abba435. I have been dealing with this person for 12 years now. I thought I had built that thick skin one needs when dealing with these people. But this week, I just did...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2020, 12:53 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 686
Posted By cranberry
My ex kept my kids from me for 2 1/2 weeks. They...

My ex kept my kids from me for 2 1/2 weeks. They were returned only when the urgent motion documents were filed. In that time he convinced our kids that I am not following protocols, that my house...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-04-2020, 06:24 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
Just coming here to vent; its been a week from...

Just coming here to vent; its been a week from hell. Things mommy cannot do because daddy says so:

Go to the grocery store
If I do go, nothing comes in the house unless switched to a new...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2020, 06:34 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,240
Posted By cranberry
You do what I did. You start an urgent motion....

You do what I did. You start an urgent motion. The ex cannot do what she is attempting to do. Mine kept my kids from me for two weeks. Thankfully, during that time a landmark decision came down that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-01-2020, 12:59 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
He forced us into a private parenting assessment....

He forced us into a private parenting assessment. Paid fully by him with the exoectation the boys were going to be remived from my care. The assessor found issues in both homes and recommended joint...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-01-2020, 11:55 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
You have hit the nail on the head. I avoid using...

You have hit the nail on the head. I avoid using the term on here due to negative reception. I keep myself in counseling, fought hard to get the boys into counseling, and have a kick ass, no...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-31-2020, 02:08 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
I wish! But we all know the can of worms that...

I wish! But we all know the can of worms that would open!
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-31-2020, 12:37 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
The crazy thing is, we just switched from sole to...

The crazy thing is, we just switched from sole to joint! We have no court order because he won't sign off/approve the MOS. I had just started steps to get the damn thing made into an Order when all...
Forum: General Chat 03-30-2020, 04:30 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,026
Posted By cranberry
I am here to say escalate it. My ex kept my kids...

I am here to say escalate it. My ex kept my kids from me, refused to follow our court order and agreement, and filled their heafs with nit only how unsafe my home is, but me in general. Do not lie...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-30-2020, 03:16 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
Are those trick questions? Lol! I am not going to...

Are those trick questions? Lol! I am not going to respond, period. I haven't even really read them. Opened the messages, saw his usual rambling paragraphs and closed them. We use Our Family Wizard,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-30-2020, 01:37 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
We are doing pretty so far today. We all sleot...

We are doing pretty so far today. We all sleot until 9 and for the first while I ley them be and adjust. We've just had lunch and are cuddling on the couch.

He brought them home because his...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-30-2020, 10:08 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
Tayken - 11 yr old twins.

Tayken - 11 yr old twins.
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-29-2020, 10:43 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,360
Posted By cranberry
My kids are home

My kids were brought home at 6 pm this evening. They walked in white as sheets, reluctantly gave me a hug. They then said I couldn't be trusted and I am nothing but a lier. They went upstairs and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-27-2020, 11:40 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 7,604
Posted By cranberry
I can't help you procedurally but I can...

I can't help you procedurally but I can empathize.

My ex has unilaterally decided to keep our boys safe in his home only. I showed up at March break switch over and was denied. I have spent the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-27-2020, 11:47 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 4,365
Posted By cranberry
Yes, costs on a substantial indemnity basis have...

Yes, costs on a substantial indemnity basis have been requested.

Pretty much, I dropped our boys at school on the Friday morning headibg into March Break and I haven't seen them since; we do talk...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-27-2020, 11:06 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 4,365
Posted By cranberry
My emergency motion will be filed today.Fingers...

My emergency motion will be filed today.Fingers crossed it is deemed urgent 🤞
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2020, 10:23 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,187
Posted By cranberry
I am a bit confused about this. My case is he...

I am a bit confused about this. My case is he just cut me off; he is not following our parenting time schedule. I haven't seen my kids in 12 days. I can call and face time is being set up. Yes, all...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2020, 12:08 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 4,365
Posted By cranberry
Does this help? Click on Moving Party, it has the...

Does this help? Click on Moving Party, it has the forms listed.


https://familycourt.cleo.on.ca/en/applicant/bring-urgent-motion-without-notice
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2020, 12:02 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 4,365
Posted By cranberry
I feel your pain and anger. My ex is still...

I feel your pain and anger. My ex is still refusing to bring our boys home. In his infinite wisdom he's sent me emails patting himself on the back for being such a stellar parent during this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2020, 04:17 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 4,365
Posted By cranberry
We could be in limbo right now, I am not sure. ...

We could be in limbo right now, I am not sure.

We changed custody from sole (me) to parallel parenting at the end of September. This arrangement is sitting in Minutes of Settlement limbo because...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2020, 03:39 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 4,365
Posted By cranberry
Lottery ticket - lol you made me giggle! Needed...

Lottery ticket - lol you made me giggle! Needed that.

Our boys are 11, twins. We parallel parent, with school and health inder my care. The schedule is with me Monday - Friday; every weekend for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2020, 02:58 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 4,365
Posted By cranberry
I just asked for face time, which he agreed to....

I just asked for face time, which he agreed to. He then went on and on that everyone is healthy, going outside for walks/bike riding/playing at the school. He and his wife have quaratined themselves...
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