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Forum: Parenting Issues 09-17-2021, 09:33 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 238
Posted By cleanSlate
If only there was some way to track these things.

If only there was some way to track these things.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-17-2021, 07:22 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 238
Posted By cleanSlate
Ex won't return kids items

Face it, if both parties in a marriage were reasonable then you probably wouldn't be here.

My ex is trying to prevent my children from taking their toys with them between homes.
When toys go over...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-17-2021, 07:12 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,200
Posted By cleanSlate
Really, it is Iona's thread and she is not having...

Really, it is Iona's thread and she is not having difficulty exchanging items here.

Her concern is about good routine and habits for the kids, transitioning the kids routine, a 4 year old.

...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-17-2021, 11:29 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,200
Posted By cleanSlate
I am confused. Iona didn't bring up those...

I am confused.
Iona didn't bring up those items.
that stuff is a whole new thread.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2021, 12:54 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 166
Posted By cleanSlate
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Forum: Parenting Issues 09-14-2021, 06:40 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,200
Posted By cleanSlate
OK. I have read a bit about your ex. Might...

OK. I have read a bit about your ex.
Might they say that you sending the books is you trying to control them?

I am being serious here, high-conflict people suck.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-14-2021, 06:11 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,200
Posted By cleanSlate
4? I don't want to sound mean but this is...

4? I don't want to sound mean but this is parenting 101.
Iona is the parent and her child is doing what children do, push boundaries.

4 is an easy age at least for me.

1) Stand close to them...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2021, 05:53 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 855
Posted By cleanSlate
Your plan of overpayment is not sound, it raises...

Your plan of overpayment is not sound, it raises suspicion.

You can send your ex a cash gift afterwards if you want as a birthday present; you won't get credit for that. I guess they could call...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-13-2021, 09:46 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 242
Posted By cleanSlate
It sounds like you ex lacks principals so expect...

It sounds like you ex lacks principals so expect some B.S. to come your way. You let her make the decision for school she bought that right....then took back the money she gave you for it....please...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 05:35 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 855
Posted By cleanSlate
For that I would let your lawyer handle it, I...

For that I would let your lawyer handle it, I don't see how you could do better.
If there is a mistake the other lawyer is ethically bound to tell yours, maybe they won't.

My agreement had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 05:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 387
Posted By cleanSlate
Your ex is responsible for her lawyer. So if the...

Your ex is responsible for her lawyer. So if the lawyer says it then it is your ex saying it.

Know this and it will help
Your ex is not crazy and the lawyer not mistakenly accusing you.
The...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-13-2021, 04:29 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,200
Posted By cleanSlate
On thing teenagers hate is a hypocrite. I like...

On thing teenagers hate is a hypocrite. I like the strategy of applying the rule to yourself as well.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 04:22 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 534
Posted By cleanSlate
thanks Brampton33....it is always hard to tell...

thanks Brampton33....it is always hard to tell what a judge will say....even for lawyers....last time I heard a lawyer say that they were certain, they were wrong.
I am simply looking for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 04:05 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 534
Posted By cleanSlate
Rockscan, I have asked you before and am asking...

Rockscan,
I have asked you before and am asking you again.
If you are going to be belligerent don't post in threads I start.
You are definitely the most hostile and condescending person on this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 03:49 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 855
Posted By cleanSlate
Lawyers can be a tremendous and needless...

Lawyers can be a tremendous and needless financial burden.
In addition to that, in my experience, many are not competent (not exaggerating here).

You can ask your lawyer if you can be on a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 09:07 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 855
Posted By cleanSlate
The other lawyer is not allowed to engage you in...

The other lawyer is not allowed to engage you in communications while you are represented.

Your lawyer may find it hard to dump you. Apparently it isn't easy but they may try to convince you they...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-12-2021, 03:30 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 114
Posted By cleanSlate
Why is Section 30 the only option? A judge does...

Why is Section 30 the only option?
A judge does not require a Section 30, they may order one though.

What about a parenting coordinator....eventually they can testify.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2021, 03:14 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 272
Posted By cleanSlate
If there is nothing then you can simply take the...

If there is nothing then you can simply take the kids and depending on what court system you are in there is nothing the ex can do about this.
Not even an emergency motion (unless they lie and say...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-12-2021, 02:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 211
Posted By cleanSlate
The landmark Ontario case was for an adult child...

The landmark Ontario case was for an adult child with autism and was maybe 4 years ago?
The child support kept going.

so what else qualifies as severe disability?
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-12-2021, 02:41 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 114
Posted By cleanSlate
Avoid a Section 30, for the most part it is a...

Avoid a Section 30, for the most part it is a racket with unqualified people giving opinion based on their own bias.
You may be 100% right on the therapy thing but all your ex has to say is "see...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2021, 03:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 272
Posted By cleanSlate
What hearings and endorsements do you have...

What hearings and endorsements do you have already?
Forum: Political Issues 09-10-2021, 05:13 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 3,063
Posted By cleanSlate
I see him as generalizing for the sake of...

I see him as generalizing for the sake of simplicity.
Maybe it isn't catchy but what is the female counterpart to "deadbeat dad"?



LOL who is being sexist now?

I am a guy and care for my...
Forum: Political Issues 09-10-2021, 01:35 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 3,063
Posted By cleanSlate
He isn't wrong. It pays very little more to...

He isn't wrong.
It pays very little more to actually work in many cases. Here is a nice one.

-legal aid for those that don't work but get 1/2 of the assets and child support while the working...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-10-2021, 01:10 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,782
Posted By cleanSlate
People get access to their kids after they give...

People get access to their kids after they give them up for adoption. Just saying. Sounds like you need a lawyer but with what they cost it sounds like you definitely don't need a lawyer to fix...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2021, 12:33 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 534
Posted By cleanSlate
Brampton33, you stated: You are not in a...

Brampton33, you stated:
You are not in a position to start making assumptions about your ex's employer's viewpoints on work/life balance or their flexibility.

But now that it is known that I do...
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