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Forum: Parenting Issues 04-02-2013, 04:05 PM
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Posted By Chantilly4
dad2bandm how i would birng that up to a judge is...

dad2bandm how i would birng that up to a judge is .... ask for an order obligating her to sign so that your daughter can benefit from extra grant money and in the event that she doesn't do that come...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-04-2013, 11:37 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
mcdreamy what did you put in as text in your...

mcdreamy what did you put in as text in your search criteria? i can use two of those! thank you so much .. i didn't get much reading at lunch time so i hadn't found those yet.
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-04-2013, 12:09 PM
Replies: 72
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Posted By Chantilly4
no that is not my case .. in that case you read...

no that is not my case .. in that case you read they somehow got RESP money from FAmily members so they took that off the top being before the 1/3 and 2/3 split occured. which to me makes sense as...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-04-2013, 11:34 AM
Replies: 72
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Posted By Chantilly4
the bottom line is basically when you invest...

the bottom line is basically when you invest money for your kids in RESP ... its not considered your personal contribution .. if they take if off the top your ex benefits from your investments .. if...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-04-2013, 11:28 AM
Replies: 72
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Posted By Chantilly4
yah i've read a few cases now and scenario one...

yah i've read a few cases now and scenario one they take the RESP and take it off hte top then the kid pays 1/3 of what is left then the parents share in porportion to income and scenario 2 hte RESP...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-04-2013, 08:02 AM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
if any of you want to look for anything and i...

if any of you want to look for anything and i mean anything you go here

CanLII - Canadian Legal Information Institute (http://www.canlii.org/en/)

in the text box you punch in what you are...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-04-2013, 07:59 AM
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Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
i haven't found one of those yet i'm looking ......

i haven't found one of those yet i'm looking ... but like in my case ... we split in 2001 ... divorced 2005 ... i started the RESP in 2006 and she told me that money is my son's money and its being...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-03-2013, 10:03 PM
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Posted By Chantilly4
i'm just reading what was on my son's receipt .....

i'm just reading what was on my son's receipt .. cause i read that and it worried me cause of all the grants he is eligible for totalled way above 7200 ... that is when i called and that is what...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-03-2013, 09:56 PM
Replies: 24
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Posted By Chantilly4
I would go check it out if i were you just to see...

I would go check it out if i were you just to see what they have in case she runs out of RESP one year
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-03-2013, 09:53 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
Oink basically the money you invest in the RESP...

Oink basically the money you invest in the RESP is not your money once you withdraw it for education purposes. It is invested in your childs name and if you withdraw it for education it becomes...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-03-2013, 09:49 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
sorry for the late reply but i am just sitting...

sorry for the late reply but i am just sitting down now lol

the disclaimer at the bottom of the withdrawal receipt says

"NOTE: If you are a beneficiary under more then one RESP, the total...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-03-2013, 07:16 AM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
i will find the forms from the withdrawal i just...

i will find the forms from the withdrawal i just did for my son for school and on the bottom of it it say that in a lifetime you are only allowed to get just over 7 thousand in this Government Grant...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-03-2013, 12:15 AM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
yah lose out on the grant portion..had i been...

yah lose out on the grant portion..had i been told this i would have invested my money elsewhere for my kids because my ex refused to put money away for them.... we have a resp when married that he...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-02-2013, 09:28 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
Gilligan go read para 13 of this case, read the...

Gilligan go read para 13 of this case, read the whoel thing if you want but para 13 pretty much sums it up
CanLII - 2007 ONCJ 54 (CanLII)...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-02-2013, 08:38 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,799
Posted By Chantilly4
yup my son has the evalution and has an O/T one...

yup my son has the evalution and has an O/T one too i went as far as hired an educational advocate to represent him in 2008 cause the school and school board weren't supplying him with the help he...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-02-2013, 07:17 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
Gilligan yup in your case it will work out...

Gilligan yup in your case it will work out perfect ..good for you .... and if it goes any other way you let us know!!! i'm actually going to research some case law and see what i find ... settlement...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-02-2013, 07:13 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
i was in couirt just yesterday and the judge...

i was in couirt just yesterday and the judge clearly said to me the money i put away is my sons money and will be counted as his contribution to his education i wish i was wrong cause my intentions...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-01-2013, 10:47 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 7,898
Posted By Chantilly4
this RESP you are going to open you planning on...

this RESP you are going to open you planning on using that money as YOUR contribution when your child goes to post secondary ? if so dont do it! I was just in court today I opened an RESP for my kids...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-01-2013, 06:02 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,799
Posted By Chantilly4
well was in court today and like i suspected my...

well was in court today and like i suspected my ex is liaible for not ensuring our learning disabled child applied for all grants and bursaries he was entitled to. she was quite annoyed that my ex...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2013, 05:27 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,799
Posted By Chantilly4
@arabian .. the kid is smart he was avaluated at...

@arabian .. the kid is smart he was avaluated at being in the 87th percentile for intelligence but because of the LD it prevents him from fonctioniing at that level however if he would have used his...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2013, 05:12 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,799
Posted By Chantilly4
@rioe my initial response to my ex husband when i...

@rioe my initial response to my ex husband when i received the first email telling me how much university was going to cost and he realized our son should pay 1/3 but he only has 1000 .. my response...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2013, 11:27 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,799
Posted By Chantilly4
@ better faith - i've already paid my share lol...

@ better faith - i've already paid my share lol and even more then my share thats my issue lol he wants more out of me when i have already paid over my share lol the ex wants me to cover my sons...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2013, 11:20 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,799
Posted By Chantilly4
@teezy i went to college twice first time fresh...

@teezy i went to college twice first time fresh out of high school paid for it by working with the REserves, bartending in the mess and being head stewardess at mess dinners. In the summer i went to...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2013, 06:11 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,799
Posted By Chantilly4
my son also didn't come by very often when he...

my son also didn't come by very often when he went to live with his dad because at my house there is structure and discipline ... when the school called dad about his behaviour issues ie not...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2013, 06:01 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,799
Posted By Chantilly4
oh did i forget to mention in my rant in there...

oh did i forget to mention in my rant in there that back in May before he moved out west to Alberta from Ontario for the summer that i offered to help him fill out all the applications for the...
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