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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-01-2021, 05:25 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 634
Posted By StillPaying
If both parties are in agreement, even zero cs,...

If both parties are in agreement, even zero cs, then that's fine and no court is needed. The problem is whether you need it enforced or one side decides to change their mind. Then you're forced...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-01-2021, 05:16 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,740
Posted By StillPaying
What was the reason for supervised access and...

What was the reason for supervised access and when will it stop?
Whats happened with your access since summer 2020?
Do you still live out of province and are a stranger now?

It's a tough call....
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-01-2021, 03:40 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,740
Posted By StillPaying
Was this a trial for custody/access?

Was this a trial for custody/access?
Forum: Financial Issues 09-01-2021, 12:54 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 393
Posted By StillPaying
You went from only paying full table support, to...

You went from only paying full table support, to now receiving full table support as well as half CRA benefits. You saved lots while ex lost huge. Imputation could do even more.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-31-2021, 09:27 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 393
Posted By StillPaying
Lost it with your reasoning, but what if you...

Lost it with your reasoning, but what if you imputed your ex with a similar income as yours. Problem solved.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2021, 09:25 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 818
Posted By StillPaying
Don't panic. Re-read Tayken posts, the answers...

Don't panic. Re-read Tayken posts, the answers are there. Although since you're already before the court, I would file an urgent motion instead of emergency.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-31-2021, 02:39 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 393
Posted By StillPaying
There are some long ago posts on how it should...

There are some long ago posts on how it should really be "half-offset" I believe to make it fair, but offset is still a nice discount. The tool we have is to impute a reasonable income to make sure...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2021, 02:33 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 818
Posted By StillPaying
When my ex took off with the kids, an emergency...

When my ex took off with the kids, an emergency motion quickly brought the kids back. The system is wonderful when you use it. But you have some strong feelings towards something you've never...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2021, 01:30 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 634
Posted By StillPaying
Child support is the right of the child and must...

Child support is the right of the child and must be paid.
You tried to pay a lump sum and be done with it, but you found out that's not possible. Now you want to pay another lump sum and hope...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2021, 01:13 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 818
Posted By StillPaying
There's no order or agreement, but status quo is...

There's no order or agreement, but status quo is definitely against you. Your best bet immediately is to come to a new agreement with your ex. If it can't be done to your desire, then you need to...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2021, 05:25 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 489
Posted By StillPaying
I believe you're referring to an urgent motion. ...

I believe you're referring to an urgent motion. Like a regular motion, just booked sooner. That's different and costs should definitely be requested.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2021, 05:18 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By StillPaying
You obviously know what HCP look like in family...

You obviously know what HCP look like in family court.
A quick review of the threads started shows this user in conflict with everyone involved. Go into the essays written and it only gets worse....
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2021, 05:06 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 489
Posted By StillPaying
As they should be, if you lose an emergency...

As they should be, if you lose an emergency motion, to deter them from being brought inappropriately.

The flip side though... win an actual emergency motion for protective, exclusive possession,...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2021, 01:59 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 489
Posted By StillPaying
I'd be hesitant to ask for cost during an...

I'd be hesitant to ask for cost during an emergency/ex party motion.

It's a quick page or two you send to a judge for a quick temp order until both sides meet with the judge in a week or 2. You...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2021, 01:56 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By StillPaying
Everything you write is HC, blaming everyone else...

Everything you write is HC, blaming everyone else except yourself.

Numerous offers, mediation, lawyers, requests.... all irrelevant. If you wanted trial, you could have! You can't even keep track...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2021, 01:06 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By StillPaying
Calling the disabled certifiably looney tunes is...

Calling the disabled certifiably looney tunes is wrong. Although catastrophically injured, he still lives life fine, drives, access to kids, etc...

My situation is the exact same here. Except it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2021, 11:44 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 363
Posted By StillPaying
There's a lump sum equalization payment, and then...

There's a lump sum equalization payment, and then monthly child support and/or spousal support payments. Talk to your lawyer to find out what those amounts are. It could take up to 3 years to get...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2021, 11:39 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 363
Posted By StillPaying
IME, the best thing to do against a HCP or NAL is...

IME, the best thing to do against a HCP or NAL is continue to push for trial asap where their bs will stop. You may have to give authorization to access all your non-existent accounts, but that's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2021, 02:26 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 363
Posted By StillPaying
Ignoring child related emails is bad. Doing it...

Ignoring child related emails is bad. Doing it while already being seen as the "bad guy" is devastating to your case.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-27-2021, 02:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 578
Posted By StillPaying
If it's an industry common to bartering, then it...

If it's an industry common to bartering, then it shouldn't be hard to show it's being done. Similar to proving unemployment.

The onus is on ex to prove why it shouldn't be counted as income,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2021, 02:14 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 413
Posted By StillPaying
Disability doesn't mean zero income. Just like...

Disability doesn't mean zero income. Just like last time you went on LTD, you'll still receive most of your pay; not if you quit. As a parent, you have an obligation to support your kids.

A...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-27-2021, 01:58 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By StillPaying
Not questioning his disability; there's nothing...

Not questioning his disability; there's nothing wrong with that. Still a functioning member of society with the same rights. I wonder if his attitude would change not having to constantly deal with...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-27-2021, 12:31 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By StillPaying
Your situation is very insane, but it's not your...

Your situation is very insane, but it's not your ex. Unable to have a meaningful motion or trial in over 10 years is 100% on you. You're very bitter, offensive, insane tbd but definitely a tool.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 04:12 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,618
Posted By StillPaying
All true, except for the "...yet somehow she...

All true, except for the "...yet somehow she still hasn't" part.

The only reason for OP to move forward is the limitation period, which she's not concerned with.

If you were getting free...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2021, 04:08 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 508
Posted By StillPaying
You're doing well. I would try and get some...

You're doing well. I would try and get some school days/nights into an agreement before trial. May need a motion for this. It seems you're being set up as only capable of a weekend parent.
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