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Forum: General Chat 11-28-2005, 10:55 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,308
Posted By lammie
I agree with abigail. You just need to find a...

I agree with abigail. You just need to find a focus for your energy and angst. Be it your job, your children, your hobbies or best of all a combination of all of the above. Focus on living life...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2005, 10:51 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,855
Posted By lammie
I agree with IPStrong. Be strong. Some...

I agree with IPStrong. Be strong. Some people/men just like to use tried and true tactics to manipulate people because they can. Don't allow yourself to be manipulated. Take control of your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2005, 10:49 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,502
Posted By lammie
I thought they said they were in Connecticut? ...

I thought they said they were in Connecticut?

When you say where they reside do you mean citzenship?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2005, 10:47 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,994
Posted By lammie
As suggested in the other thread, Grace and...

As suggested in the other thread, Grace and Logical Velocity gave you good advice. It will be much harder to change the status quo later on. If you want more custody than your ex is offering, then...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2005, 10:45 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,735
Posted By lammie
Get moving. You have a few days right now. You...

Get moving. You have a few days right now. You need to consult with an attorney today or tomorrow and have them advise you on what you should do in that short period of time.

You can not waste...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2005, 10:43 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,306
Posted By lammie
What do you mean you thought divorce was not...

What do you mean you thought divorce was not necessary unless marriage was on the agenda?

You mean with someone else?

I guess I just don't understand why you would get seperated for such a long...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2005, 10:41 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,696
Posted By lammie
Melania, Sorry to hear about your...

Melania,

Sorry to hear about your predicament. One thing I would be wary of is that children can be very crafty, and will often try and play one parent against the other in order to make the best...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2005, 09:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 2,306
Posted By lammie
I would love to hear the response to this as...

I would love to hear the response to this as well. Just out of curiosity, why did you all seperate for 22 years but never get divorced? Are these joint accounts she had access to or are they your...
Forum: Divorce Support 11-22-2005, 08:57 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,600
Posted By lammie
Not knowing the nature of your relationship, if...

Not knowing the nature of your relationship, if she is intimidated by you or feels like she has a hard time standing up for herself when you two discuss things, she might feel more comfortable...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2005, 08:55 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,370
Posted By lammie
If she is being reasonable, and it seems she is,...

If she is being reasonable, and it seems she is, let her know you are working on yourself so you can be a better father for the long term interest of your son. Let her know you want to be able to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2005, 08:52 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,721
Posted By lammie
Sounds like you are in a pretty good situation...

Sounds like you are in a pretty good situation then. Ideally it would be good if your ex took responsibility and treated your children properly. If he is not going to take them to activities that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2005, 08:45 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,966
Posted By lammie
I totally understand your frustration. It is...

I totally understand your frustration. It is unfortunate that your ex put you in this position. You just have to remember he is being irresonsible and you have to be adult enough for both of you to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2005, 08:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,635
Posted By lammie
From this story, I don't get the impression that...

From this story, I don't get the impression that your wife coached him or said anything to get him to turn against you. Seems like she was genuinely baffled along with you. Not knowing your wife nor...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2005, 08:37 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,343
Posted By lammie
That is an interesting question. I have never...

That is an interesting question. I have never heard what happens in cases where parents don't utilize their visitation rights. If you are the custodial parent, I would think that you would probably...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2005, 08:31 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,502
Posted By lammie
Hmm... That is complicated. You say she is...

Hmm... That is complicated. You say she is having an affair but you just moved to Conneticut for her job. Did her boss move as well or are they now seperated at least by distance?

I don't know...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-21-2005, 09:06 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,370
Posted By lammie
By your own admission you agree you have issues. ...

By your own admission you agree you have issues. You also agree that your wife/ex-wife is a good mother to your children. It sounds like she is trying to do what is best for the children. That is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2005, 09:02 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,992
Posted By lammie
Not to sway too far off-topic here, and no intent...

Not to sway too far off-topic here, and no intent to disparage anyone, but this is the second thread I have seen today where someone is interested in mapping out another marriage while the present...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2005, 09:00 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,892
Posted By lammie
It is unfortunate that the system creates so much...

It is unfortunate that the system creates so much added undue stress and strain on an already stressed and strained situation.

Unfortunately lawyers are people too and most of them have flaws like...
Forum: Introductions 11-20-2005, 09:49 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,373
Posted By lammie
Hello BarbaraS! I bet your daughter is a...

Hello BarbaraS! I bet your daughter is a cutie-pie! Good to see you here. I read your other post and I am sorry to hear about your situation. Hope all is well.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2005, 09:46 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,199
Posted By lammie
Melissa, sorry to hear about your situation but...

Melissa, sorry to hear about your situation but live and learn. LogicalVelocity gave you excellent advice (as he always seems to do!). There are some things that could potentially compel an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2005, 09:42 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,855
Posted By lammie
Barbara be strong! Remember your child always...

Barbara be strong! Remember your child always comes first and don't let your spouse try and bully you. You need to do what you can to take care of your child and yourself.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2005, 09:31 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,504
Posted By lammie
Not being a lawyer nor experienced this first...

Not being a lawyer nor experienced this first hand I am not sure on the laws, but I would think there are abandonment issues that allow you to file and obtain an uncontested divorce. I would imagine...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2005, 09:29 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 3,342
Posted By lammie
Ontario law must apply in Family Arbitrations

http://www.940news.com/nouvelles.php?cat=23&id=111525
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2005, 09:26 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 1,561
Posted By lammie
Canadian Divorce Law Information

Here is some Divorce Law Questions and Answers from the Canadian Department of Justice:

http://canada.justice.gc.ca/en/dept/pub/divorce/
Forum: Financial Issues 11-18-2005, 05:17 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,509
Posted By lammie
I agree with Logicalvelocity. Just because she...

I agree with Logicalvelocity. Just because she paid for the house with money she got from an injury settlement does not make it hers and hers alone. If she had owned the house or gotten it before...
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