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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-17-2019, 03:15 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 190
Posted By tilt
1. Yes, she can serve a motion (called a cross...

1. Yes, she can serve a motion (called a cross motion). I believe it is considered the Response as well. You can file a Response (14a) to her motion .

2. No.

3. A motion on a different topic...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 11:39 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 135
Posted By tilt
Ya, if you havenít gone to court in the past...

Ya, if you havenít gone to court in the past month or two you will find the changes significant they have much less staff now and see very few people.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 08:25 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 135
Posted By tilt
I believe the change is due to the massive Legal...

I believe the change is due to the massive Legal Aide cuts. They are not providing any help at FLIC or Duty Counsel unless you meet the criteria (the actual numbers are on the Legal Aide website but...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 08:15 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 211
Posted By tilt
If you look at case law, time and time again...

If you look at case law, time and time again Judges point out that self-declared income from self-employment is completely made up and never accepted at face value. Judges Order that the Corporations...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 10:13 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 227
Posted By tilt
I would ask what the specific cost of each of...

I would ask what the specific cost of each of them drafting the agreement and providing ILA would be. It might be a small amount that isnít that much more than paying for the ILA alone. If you tell...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-13-2019, 09:45 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 203
Posted By tilt
I agree a lawyer-drafted will is ideal, however...

I agree a lawyer-drafted will is ideal, however if money and time is tight, a holographic will is better than the status quo and gives interim direction to the Judge if necessary. If the will is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-13-2019, 08:46 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 203
Posted By tilt
Yes change your status with CRA immediately (can...

Yes change your status with CRA immediately (can be done online):

https://www.canada.ca/en/revenue-agency/services/child-family-benefits/update-your-marital-status-canada-revenue-agency.html
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-06-2019, 04:36 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 499
Posted By tilt
You also want to include ďany other Order the...

You also want to include ďany other Order the Court seems just and fairĒ so the judge can order something you may not be aware of. Also, an Order for Costs. An order for pre-judgement and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-05-2019, 08:20 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 234
Posted By tilt
Yes. You have to fill out 13 completely and...

Yes. You have to fill out 13 completely and truthfully, and serve/file 13A at the same time with your last three tax returns/NOAs. If you donít want to disclose the info, then donít pursue the...
Forum: Political Issues 08-04-2019, 08:59 AM
Replies: 87
Views: 20,229
Posted By tilt
You donít have to file a motion to have CS...

You donít have to file a motion to have CS enforced by FRO. If you have an Order or an Agreement filed with the court all one party has to do is file the paperwork with FRO and pay the $50...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-03-2019, 03:18 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 211
Posted By tilt
If you have a credit card then pay for a lawyer...

If you have a credit card then pay for a lawyer for an hour. The $300 will give you some idea of what to do next, legally. That will tide you over till you can use Legal Aide, as will using FLIC...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2019, 02:33 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 900
Posted By tilt
Traffic man. Totally sucks. 40k in Toronto and...

Traffic man. Totally sucks. 40k in Toronto and its suburbs are brutal; 40k at my cottage is a nice Sunday drive. (Am I mathing wrong or is driving 20 km in 10 mins saying that you are driving 120km...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2019, 02:03 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 900
Posted By tilt
I would offer to meet his designated third party...

I would offer to meet his designated third party at the Tim Hortons, or allow his designated third party to pick the kids up/drop them back to your house - but no way would I drive 40 km twice a day...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2019, 01:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 184
Posted By tilt
Nope, no benefit to pursuing adultery. It isn't...

Nope, no benefit to pursuing adultery. It isn't relevant to the Courts unless you are looking got get a divorce without waiting the mandatory year.

Congrats on getting rid of the ex and move on...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-01-2019, 09:25 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 282
Posted By tilt
Lol thanks. That makes WAY more sense. Iíve never...

Lol thanks. That makes WAY more sense. Iíve never heard of anyone expressing CS as an annual amount before.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-31-2019, 11:26 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 282
Posted By tilt
If your *offset* CS amount at separation was over...

If your *offset* CS amount at separation was over $3,000 for two kids you must have been making $300,000+ a year. For the offset to now be $7,000 a month you are earning over $500,000 each. If you...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-30-2019, 07:58 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 434
Posted By tilt
Can your mom afford to help and pay for a visit...

Can your mom afford to help and pay for a visit with a real estate lawyer and family law lawyer? Otherwise, you can get a free consult, and some lawyers will work for a lien against the value of the...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-25-2019, 04:05 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 476
Posted By tilt
There is no use trying to argue with logic...

There is no use trying to argue with logic against someone that didnít use logic to decide their position. When someone is so emotional like your ex it is a waste of time to negotiate. Tell them what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-24-2019, 03:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 800
Posted By tilt
In my case (any many others) each step has...

In my case (any many others) each step has multiple adjournments for various reasons (other side didnít show, was unprepared, suddenly changed lawyers, was late filing and so need more time to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2019, 06:31 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 206
Posted By tilt
First, ask her/her lawyer. It was probably a...

First, ask her/her lawyer. It was probably a simple mistake. When she sends the Draft Order to you I believe you have 30 day to contest it before it can be filed. Has it been filed? If she/her lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2019, 12:12 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 800
Posted By tilt
I guess case confences depend on courthouse? 18...

I guess case confences depend on courthouse? 18 months since I have filed my application and I have had one initial conference, two case conferences, two settlement confences, two trial scheduling...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2019, 12:04 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,037
Posted By tilt
I agree with Kinsoís other points. I had to...

I agree with Kinsoís other points. I had to attend a mandatory education workshop that was useless. It should have been a mandatory informal mediation meeting with a social worker and financial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2019, 11:54 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,037
Posted By tilt
Judges and court staff make a salary, so they are...

Judges and court staff make a salary, so they are not incentivized by dragging matters out. Settling the matter of the day allows everyone to go home (for that day), so that's nice for them.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-21-2019, 06:39 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,037
Posted By tilt
There is nothing more expensive than a cheap...

There is nothing more expensive than a cheap lawyer.

Paralegals are cheap if you look at their hourly rate, they donít have the training to deal with emotional clients/descalation/high conflict...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2019, 03:45 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 302
Posted By tilt
It is a short duration marriage, and it sounds...

It is a short duration marriage, and it sounds like you did not intermingle finances. You earn the same so spousal support is probably off the table. Your worry is that the assets (pension, house,?)...
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