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Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 03:12 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 138
Posted By Berner_Faith
Unless itís a special program that needs a...

Unless itís a special program that needs a special laptop a $500 one will do... I bought my own for college but my parents werenít separated so they werenít forced to pay for things


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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-18-2019, 01:08 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 435
Posted By Berner_Faith
I feel like a child that young really doesnít...

I feel like a child that young really doesnít have a choice... I mean if we have to leave a store and my 2 year old is having a fit, well I pick her up, carry her to the vehicle, strap her in her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 03:46 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 812
Posted By Berner_Faith
Depends... a lot depends on circumstances, what...

Depends... a lot depends on circumstances, what created status quo? What change has occurred to upset status quo? What does your agreement state as far as reviews go?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 03:45 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 812
Posted By Berner_Faith
Youíre reasons will most likely not hold up in...

Youíre reasons will most likely not hold up in court. Is CAS involved? Has mom been charged with anything making her a threat to the children? Do the children have any special requirements that only...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 03:27 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 812
Posted By Berner_Faith
So youíre order states youíre to move towards...

So youíre order states youíre to move towards shared parenting? Your only issue you have with shared parenting is youíd have to pay her CS. Youíd be okay with 60-40 but not 50-50. You havenít...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:24 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 879
Posted By Berner_Faith
My sister has shared custody and every year she...

My sister has shared custody and every year she has to provide proof of this, her ex doesnít oppose anything, he doesnít claim anything for the kids and for the past 4 years sheís had to provide her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 10:19 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 812
Posted By Berner_Faith
No thatís not a good suggestion... you can agree...

No thatís not a good suggestion... you can agree to whatever CS you want, she can say sheíll still pay you but once access is determined CS follows the children and she can easily motion for table CS...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2019, 03:31 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 812
Posted By Berner_Faith
The cut off for shared custody is 40%... so if...

The cut off for shared custody is 40%... so if she gets 40% yes youíll be paying CS... this isnít a good argument to make. If this is the only reason you donít support shared parenting you most...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2019, 03:08 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 812
Posted By Berner_Faith
Is 50 / 50 joint physical custody preferred by courts?

Great that youíre happy with 60/40 because thatís shared parenting, the same as 50/50 is and youíd still owe her CS... so the question now is... if youíre okay with 60/40, why not 50/50? The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2019, 02:27 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 812
Posted By Berner_Faith
I think the biggest thing you have on your side...

I think the biggest thing you have on your side is status quo... what change in circumstances have occurred to warrant a change in access? That should be the biggest question.

Another question to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-15-2019, 12:05 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 348
Posted By Berner_Faith
My step son has wanted to move in for a couple...

My step son has wanted to move in for a couple years... he turned 14 in June... he told his mother he wanted to move in and she flipped... told him he was selfish, he had to think of how it made her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2019, 08:52 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 281
Posted By Berner_Faith
Heís not going to disclose income... just direct...

Heís not going to disclose income... just direct your lawyer to proceed with imputing income... if you have proof he stated or wrote down $100,000 as his income then go in asking that...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2019, 10:05 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 626
Posted By Berner_Faith
Thatís what it reads word for word? If so, thatís...

Thatís what it reads word for word? If so, thatís very poorly worded... when was your agreement written that it states the child is 18 years of age? and if the child was 18 and not in school when you...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2019, 04:06 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 626
Posted By Berner_Faith
You just said the same thing as your first post....

You just said the same thing as your first post. You need to file a motion to change to end support. Do that ASAP... FRO can only enforce orders and so if your order states you pay until 21, then you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-10-2019, 09:33 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 879
Posted By Berner_Faith
You pay below guideline, Mom has no weekend...

You pay below guideline, Mom has no weekend access and you moved away. You stated youíre moving into a bigger place, is this closer to the child? You have to offer mom something if you want her to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-09-2019, 09:46 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 231
Posted By Berner_Faith
Well if thatís the case I guess my step kids...

Well if thatís the case I guess my step kids better come live full time with their dad and I...

My step kids are 14 and 11, my two kids are almost 2 & 1... itís extremely hard on my kiddos when...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2019, 03:00 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,905
Posted By Berner_Faith
Agreed... and seeing as the oldest is 14, if she...

Agreed... and seeing as the oldest is 14, if she is close to her step mom Iíd totally expect to see this teenager leave her mother as soon as possible (next year or two?) and go back to the step...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2019, 01:45 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 715
Posted By Berner_Faith
What exactly would the wording be if you took...

What exactly would the wording be if you took this to court? I understand your definition of vacation may mean out of town but some people prefer staycations. Iím curious to know how youíd rephrase...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 03:35 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 644
Posted By Berner_Faith
Especially when the new school (according to...

Especially when the new school (according to Google Maps!) is only four minutes away... if the primary parent is out of the school zone and the previous school offers no special programs, I bet the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 03:33 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,905
Posted By Berner_Faith
Meh... I wouldnít focus on a background check......

Meh... I wouldnít focus on a background check... unless sheís legally adopting them there is nothing saying they need a background check. When you send children to sleep overs do you request...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 10:58 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 644
Posted By Berner_Faith
Iím with you... the poster poses all their posts...

Iím with you... the poster poses all their posts with half info to try and make their position the right one. This poster doesnít have 50-50 custody... they have joint custody and EOW access......
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 08:00 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 644
Posted By Berner_Faith
Back in August you stated ďParent A and...

Back in August you stated

ďParent A and Parent B, joint 50/50 custody, child elementary school age resides with one parent, another parent has typical every other weekend accessĒ

So regardless...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 07:54 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 715
Posted By Berner_Faith
My understanding is the ex is entitled to 7 days...

My understanding is the ex is entitled to 7 days vacation with his kids, seems like his 7 days is coming up, but it doesnít fall when the kids have vacation from school. Heís going away for a couple...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 10:29 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 715
Posted By Berner_Faith
I agree with your ex... he can use vacation as he...

I agree with your ex... he can use vacation as he chooses... he doesnít have to leave town... he can do day trips etc... you donít get to dictate how he spends his vacation. Unless your agreement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 06:50 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,905
Posted By Berner_Faith
Just remember this is temporary... I canít...

Just remember this is temporary... I canít comment on the legalities of it all, but Iím assuming the Judge didnít want to uproot the girls any further until they have a chance to see the evidence...
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