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Forum: General Chat 07-10-2020, 10:20 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 634
Posted By iona6656
Oh- well, when you put it that way, she should...

Oh- well, when you put it that way, she should DEFINITELY wait until you sort out your attorney situation. Do you have a vacation coming up? Maybe she'd be so kind as to wait until after that....
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 04:34 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 130
Posted By iona6656
I'm not sure how you think FRO complicates...

I'm not sure how you think FRO complicates things? I mean- if I have to go back and do this every year to update the order- sure, I will. But otherwise- he pays FRO, FRO pays me.

As to "work it...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 03:25 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 130
Posted By iona6656
Yeah- I confirmed your answer with FRO. Thanks...

Yeah- I confirmed your answer with FRO. Thanks for that.

They will need a new order to enforce. Which means back to court. I'm giving him to the end of this month, then I will just start a new...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-10-2020, 09:15 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 93
Posted By iona6656
It took a couple of months for me. My ex filed...

It took a couple of months for me. My ex filed all the paper work in February. We received our divorce order in early April.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 09:04 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 130
Posted By iona6656
oh fun. more court.

oh fun. more court.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2020, 08:53 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 130
Posted By iona6656
Will FRO force payor to do taxes and update CS accordingly?

Shockingly the ex does not want to file his taxes. He sent me a text and told me his new line 150...which is 25% higher than when we signed our agreement in 2019 (he was still using his 2017 income--...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-30-2020, 10:29 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 473
Posted By iona6656
OP- my daughter is the same age as your son. And...

OP- my daughter is the same age as your son. And her dad and I have been split as long as you have...so I understand the challenges of co-parenting from baby --> toddler.

3.5yr olds are hard. if...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-10-2020, 11:56 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 235
Posted By iona6656
You have to be clear on what you want. Do you...

You have to be clear on what you want. Do you want a co-parent counselor to work with both parents to deal with access time, etc etc

Or do you want a family mediator/arbitrator.

They are...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-08-2020, 10:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 201
Posted By iona6656
lol. that sounds kinda vindictive. you're...

lol. that sounds kinda vindictive. you're planning your revenge vacation a year in advance? c'mon.


this is just my interpretation but in most other areas of contract law- the more specific term...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-08-2020, 10:35 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 208
Posted By iona6656
My family lawyer said that OCL reports tend to...

My family lawyer said that OCL reports tend to stale date faster (e.g. 1 year) the younger the child(ren).
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-08-2020, 10:28 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 257
Posted By iona6656
lol. I was waiting for someone to call me out on...

lol. I was waiting for someone to call me out on that. Yes- essentially that IS what it does- makes us both jump through more hoops. And I have final say at the end of the day anyways.

The thing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-05-2020, 11:15 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 209
Posted By iona6656
This is a great way to go imo. OP- are you...

This is a great way to go imo.

OP- are you on amicable terms with your ex?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-03-2020, 12:11 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 325
Posted By iona6656
in my experience with CAS - I was involved with...

in my experience with CAS - I was involved with two different cities. They do take some time to get the ball rolling. Like 2-3 weeks each time. So if there is an immediate need to change access- I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-03-2020, 12:06 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 257
Posted By iona6656
in my SA we spelled out what major medical...

in my SA we spelled out what major medical decisions were- including introduction to qualified medical specialist aside from D3's pediatrician, allergist and dermatologist. Taking her to a new...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 07:54 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 703
Posted By iona6656
lol. y'all are catching some feelings over...

lol. y'all are catching some feelings over chocolate bars.

LD- your ex is STILL controlling you. have you had some counseling to deal with this?

my therapist taught me to do something that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-04-2020, 06:01 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 536
Posted By iona6656
So far- we've managed to stay civil. Her dad is a...

So far- we've managed to stay civil. Her dad is a bit short and angry with me sometimes. Cool. Fine. She doesn't really notice as exchanges are short- and we discuss only stuff related to her.

I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-04-2020, 05:57 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 536
Posted By iona6656
thanks for the perspective everyone. She's a...

thanks for the perspective everyone. She's a happy go-lucky kid. She takes a bit of time to adjust to new routines- like most toddlers. I've been saying in a matter of fact way that she's going to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-30-2020, 01:45 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 536
Posted By iona6656
Do you guys say "good night" to your kids when at other parent's home?

Simple question:

When your kid(s) is at the other parent's home, do you always call to say good night? Never? Sometimes?

D3.5 is going to start overnights soon. She does't really want to- but...
Forum: Political Issues 04-28-2020, 01:11 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 851
Posted By iona6656
My lawyer- (is he still my lawyer? hopefully I'm...

My lawyer- (is he still my lawyer? hopefully I'm done iwth him for now...anyways)- when I was researching all his cases for a consultation, I read one where he, personally, got hit with costs because...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2020, 04:51 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,690
Posted By iona6656
Here's the thing- "verbal abusive" and abusive...

Here's the thing- "verbal abusive" and abusive language happens when you're in a position to be abused. If you're no longer in a relationship with the other person and sharing the same household-...
Forum: General Chat 04-23-2020, 04:09 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 497
Posted By iona6656
nah- i think she's saying that we have to start...

nah- i think she's saying that we have to start taking people who perpetrate violence against an intimate partner- or former intimate partner - as being potential lethal nutjobs. which this dude...
Forum: Political Issues 04-23-2020, 03:57 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 574
Posted By iona6656
Here's something both of you are missing- did you...

Here's something both of you are missing- did you hit your spouse? were you abusive? was there a power imbalance? y'all keep throwing around the word "allegation". well- if the allegation has merit...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-23-2020, 09:18 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 426
Posted By iona6656
if there are 5 or less kids- in home daycares are...

if there are 5 or less kids- in home daycares are still running. is there someone you trust who you can send your son to? call them an in-home daycare.
Forum: Political Issues 04-23-2020, 09:11 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,102
Posted By iona6656
I'm not quite sure if you're an abusive dick or...

I'm not quite sure if you're an abusive dick or not. Some of your posts have suggested you are...but maybe not.

We all make mistakes during the divorce process. It's a given. Sometimes it's a ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-19-2020, 11:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 268
Posted By iona6656
chucking snacks at her in-between her ipad...

chucking snacks at her in-between her ipad sessions.

but actually crafts 24-7. I'm working more than ever. 12-13hr days. online at home. I wouldn't be surviving if I wasn't quarantining with my...
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