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Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 04:54 PM
Replies: 3
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Posted By StillPaying
They would. But they may also be on the hook for...

They would. But they may also be on the hook for occupational rent (and bills) incurred since the split.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2021, 06:26 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 307
Posted By StillPaying
1. Ex would have most likely received it by...

1. Ex would have most likely received it by motion anyways, so don't feel bad. Let them pay for a copy to find out it's irrelevant. If there were any concerns, your dr would have already reported...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2021, 08:15 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 307
Posted By StillPaying
Although sometimes it's combined, as you know the...

Although sometimes it's combined, as you know the TSC is different from a TMC.


It'll be a simple process to complete your TSEF and get the judge to approve your trial. This should be much...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-10-2021, 04:27 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,122
Posted By StillPaying
Ignore the rants. The daily hypocrisy should be...

Ignore the rants. The daily hypocrisy should be views simply as entertainment. This user is the forum's Dunning-Kruger; just smile and nod.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-05-2021, 09:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 132
Posted By StillPaying
🤦 Amending your application is a simple...

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Amending your application is a simple process which you can ask for at your next conference. Dismissal/discharge is usually done at trial; there's no rush.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2021, 02:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 214
Posted By StillPaying
Given that it's a smaller amount and supposed to...

Given that it's a smaller amount and supposed to be shared, enforcement agencies won't do anything about it so withholding this should work assuming requests were denied or go unanswered. By the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2021, 11:16 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 175
Posted By StillPaying
Thank you Kinso for your wisdom. Between orders,...

Thank you Kinso for your wisdom. Between orders, leave, stay, appeals..., there are options no matter how unlikely. Experience speaks volumes.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2021, 11:08 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 214
Posted By StillPaying
This is a different scenario. My order is clear...

This is a different scenario. My order is clear that we share benefits and we do. However this covid relief is only provided to 1 parent, first come first serve, and we are supposed to work it out...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-16-2021, 04:49 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 366
Posted By StillPaying
It may be perceived as something more by the...

It may be perceived as something more by the other side, but form 20 and a simple request for info would be treated the same at trial. You would have to show why the request was ignored.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-16-2021, 03:01 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,025
Posted By StillPaying
It's in OP's best interest to file, not ex. He...

It's in OP's best interest to file, not ex. He may simply be waiting a few more months for the equalization limitation period to expire. They're both stalling, but it'll benefit ex in the end.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2021, 12:54 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 412
Posted By StillPaying
Lots of factors to consider, but if entitled then...

Lots of factors to consider, but if entitled then negotiations is your best bet. Why is $10k being imputed? It should hopefully be minimum wage (30k) at least.

The problem with court is they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-07-2021, 10:58 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 597
Posted By StillPaying
True, depending if he's thinking emotionally or...

True, depending if he's thinking emotionally or financially.

After the appraisal, it should be known what the house is worth. If ex can't pay that amount, put it up for sale and let ex make an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-07-2021, 07:56 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 597
Posted By StillPaying
A realtor may price aggressive or low for more...

A realtor may price aggressive or low for more offers, but they know the approx end game based on comparables. Courts deal with proper home appraisal reports though, not realtors, for an accurate...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2021, 03:41 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 184
Posted By StillPaying
At the TMC the judge will try again to see if an...

At the TMC the judge will try again to see if an agreement can be made, by way of offering opinions or scare tactics, then move forward towards trial. If it's obvious and reasonable, an interim...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2021, 07:49 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 250
Posted By StillPaying
You're overthinking this. It's still a...

You're overthinking this. It's still a conference so don't stress.

You need a lawyer to know whether witnesses and/or experts are needed. The judge is trying to get an idea of how long a trial...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2021, 06:00 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 448
Posted By StillPaying
This. If you've been living there alone for...

This. If you've been living there alone for years though and ex starts causing issues, then you may have a good case for an exclusive order.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2021, 02:28 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,292
Posted By StillPaying
Not everyone goes through trial, not everyone...

Not everyone goes through trial, not everyone gets imputed, but if you have no experience and are speaking in tongue, for the benefit of future observers, it is wrong. It's OK to step back a bit and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2021, 01:09 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,292
Posted By StillPaying
Ex lost a disclosure request. Nothing to do with...

Ex lost a disclosure request. Nothing to do with imputation. You didn't have trial, witnesses, cross examination, etc. Linking your experience to imputation doesn't mesh.
Sorry, but I would have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 11:08 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 413
Posted By StillPaying
"In affidavit form" to me suggests you would...

"In affidavit form" to me suggests you would swear your answers to be true, and 3rd parties would get their letters sworn as well before providing them to your ex. Just because something is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 10:57 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,292
Posted By StillPaying
This was a motion for disclosure, not trial to...

This was a motion for disclosure, not trial to impute. Ex failed to show the disclosure was necessary or that your husband was underemployed. Disclosure and imputing are really two separate issues....
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2021, 09:18 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,518
Posted By StillPaying
OCL will simply read their recommendations. Work...

OCL will simply read their recommendations. Work with your ex right away at the end of the meeting to reinstate your access. If they're delaying, and assuming it's in your favour, book a motion...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 08:57 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,292
Posted By StillPaying
Requesting disclosure is helping the other side...

Requesting disclosure is helping the other side prove their case. The onus is on them to show evidence of efforts. Available jobs, their resume, etc are a part of your own research, used for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 08:43 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 413
Posted By StillPaying
You swearing someone else is telling the truth...

You swearing someone else is telling the truth has no value.
3rd Parties swearing their own affidavit would have little value.
Calling 3rd Parties as witness to be cross examined, high value (if...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 03:47 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,292
Posted By StillPaying
Obviously this was not at trial. It's a much...

Obviously this was not at trial. It's a much different beast.
But you're definitely mixed up.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2021, 03:42 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 1,292
Posted By StillPaying
You ask them straight up, as well as for their...

You ask them straight up, as well as for their Financials.

They're either not working (unemployed), or not making the full time income you believe they should(underemployed). Underemployed may...
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