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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-09-2014, 02:43 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,199
Posted By Abeona
If you've recently moved in with your boyfriend...

If you've recently moved in with your boyfriend he shouldn't be considered your common law spouse automatically unless he's the father of one or more of your children.

According to Revenue Canada:...
Forum: General Chat 12-19-2013, 10:17 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,321
Posted By Abeona
We do a lot of celebrating in December (Yule,...

We do a lot of celebrating in December (Yule, Saturnalia) but don't do Christmas. I don't believe in the Christ mythology and don't care for the Santa tradition so we skip that holiday but do a lot...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-20-2013, 07:01 PM
Replies: 142
Views: 15,305
Posted By Abeona
My ex did the same thing. Even my lawyer ended up...

My ex did the same thing. Even my lawyer ended up commenting "If he has this girlfriend he's so proud of, why is he constantly harassing you?" :p

FB, did you initiate the divorce? I was the one...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-13-2013, 04:59 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,427
Posted By Abeona
So is the CAS approving access to the mother or...

So is the CAS approving access to the mother or not? I would get that in writing from them. If they're saying supervised access, but the only access hours are during school times, ask them if they...
Forum: General Chat 03-05-2013, 05:46 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,197
Posted By Abeona
Thank you so much for sharing! My daughter...

Thank you so much for sharing!

My daughter has always gravitated towards people with special needs and has been volunteering in the special education class at her school for over a year now. I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-08-2013, 10:40 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,883
Posted By Abeona
Can he ask for next weekend, with Sunday night...

Can he ask for next weekend, with Sunday night (Monday the 18th is a holiday) instead of this weekend?
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-01-2013, 12:32 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,255
Posted By Abeona
The other side of the family is being ridiculous....

The other side of the family is being ridiculous. If your six year old goes to school, they're going to pick up all kinds of things anyway.

I don't know of any constructive way of dealing with it,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-30-2013, 02:41 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,653
Posted By Abeona
Best thing to do is have 3rd party transfer of...

Best thing to do is have 3rd party transfer of the child and only communicate through email. At least that way you have a copy of what was said. If you have to see the mom, get a voice recorder if...
Forum: General Chat 01-23-2013, 07:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,402
Posted By Abeona
She had been in juvenile court 14 times before...

She had been in juvenile court 14 times before the crab apple incident (which is assault) and apparently had attempted to harm herself 150 times before she ended up killing herself.

She sounds...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-18-2013, 10:53 PM
Replies: 592
Views: 65,516
Posted By Abeona
Edited. I thought the mom lived in Chattam, not...

Edited. I thought the mom lived in Chattam, not Cottom. Looks like you may have to pay the cab fare there and back unless supervised access could be arranged at a centre in Windsor and the mom was...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-18-2013, 10:40 PM
Replies: 592
Views: 65,516
Posted By Abeona
And the temp order gives her custody and you...

And the temp order gives her custody and you supervised access weekly? It's the order you accidentally consented to, is it not?
I don't think access being "revisited" necessarily means changed. I'm...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-18-2013, 10:26 PM
Replies: 592
Views: 65,516
Posted By Abeona
I don't think it matters if the last order says...

I don't think it matters if the last order says access must be revisited. If you're revisiting it at a case conference, orders can only be made by mutual consent of the parties.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-18-2013, 10:17 PM
Replies: 592
Views: 65,516
Posted By Abeona
Nothing is going to be settled at the case...

Nothing is going to be settled at the case conference if your ex's lawyer already told you she doesn't want to settle. More than likely, you'll be dealing with the same access schedule afterwards,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-18-2013, 09:21 PM
Replies: 592
Views: 65,516
Posted By Abeona
Maybe if you offered her gas money she'd be more...

Maybe if you offered her gas money she'd be more likely to help you out? If I'm remembering your posts correctly, you're not paying child support currently. It seems unfair that she absorb the costs...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2013, 07:39 PM
Replies: 120
Views: 15,577
Posted By Abeona
Child therapists aren't always right. I cannot...

Child therapists aren't always right. I cannot believe that it would be harmful to a otherwise normal 5 year old to meet a woman that her dad had been seeing for 6+ months. Assuming the girlfriend...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2013, 02:19 PM
Replies: 120
Views: 15,577
Posted By Abeona
I'm also female and think you're not acting in...

I'm also female and think you're not acting in the best interest of your daughter. Quite a few of us here (male and female) have had to deal with legitimate abuse of ourselves and/or our children,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2013, 09:27 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 4,846
Posted By Abeona
We moved from a very white city to an extremely...

We moved from a very white city to an extremely multicultural one in 2011. I was worried my kids would make some inappropriate comments because they had never been exposed to this kind of diversity. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2013, 09:05 AM
Replies: 120
Views: 15,577
Posted By Abeona
If he had the every other weekend access schedule...

If he had the every other weekend access schedule you mentioned he wouldn't be around for over 3-5 days at a time. Even with 50-50, you each "wouldn't be around" for a week at a time. What access...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2013, 08:36 AM
Replies: 120
Views: 15,577
Posted By Abeona
If your ex isn't abusing your kid, or doing...

If your ex isn't abusing your kid, or doing something seriously wrong (drug addict, drinking and driving, pimping out hookers in front of her) you're going to have to chill out or you will get...
Forum: Divorce Support 12-21-2012, 11:07 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,339
Posted By Abeona
Last Christmas was my first Christmas without any...

Last Christmas was my first Christmas without any of my kids. We had our Christmas just the same as we would have, but on a day that wasn't the 25th. I treated the 24th-28th like it was just a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-05-2012, 10:39 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,758
Posted By Abeona
Are you going back to court? Your ex should be in...

Are you going back to court? Your ex should be in trouble for withholding access for ridiculous reasons like this.

I can't believe the balls on some people. I kept the kids home once in the last...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-05-2012, 10:19 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,758
Posted By Abeona
If it were me, I'd send the other parent an email...

If it were me, I'd send the other parent an email about getting the kid's haircut, and if she didn't do it, then I'd go ahead. It's not like you're giving the kid some insane haircut. I'd take before...
Forum: General Chat 11-27-2012, 07:43 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,696
Posted By Abeona
I think it's a wonderful gesture, but it isn't...

I think it's a wonderful gesture, but it isn't needed.

My first ex and I have one child, and I have two new children. We still alternate Christmas, depending on what leave he gets. My oldest...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-24-2012, 10:20 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,430
Posted By Abeona
I wouldn't mind getting the kids their own phone,...

I wouldn't mind getting the kids their own phone, but I doubt it would help any.

And yes, I did have the bond put in place. He was criminally charged with a few things but I didn't see how him...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-24-2012, 07:52 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,430
Posted By Abeona
Peace bonds and phone access, anyone?

Does anyone here have experience with having phone access with children while a peace bond is in place?

There is to be no contact with my ex and I, but I've spoke to the crown three times and...
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