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Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2019, 09:01 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 407
Posted By HammerDad
Contempt is generally reserved for egregious...

Contempt is generally reserved for egregious matters. Failing to disclose wouldn't fall into that category....yet. First step is a written request for the NoA. Second step is a letter from the lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 08:58 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 199
Posted By HammerDad
I believe the argument has been made in various...

I believe the argument has been made in various cases and summarily dismissed.
Forum: Divorce Support 10-16-2019, 09:20 AM
Replies: 67
Views: 9,812
Posted By HammerDad
IMO, you are doing fine. With the strides your...

IMO, you are doing fine. With the strides your husband has made in the years, I would say it has been working out.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-16-2019, 09:17 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 357
Posted By HammerDad
Makes sense. I would say she has certain...

Makes sense. I would say she has certain narcissistic traits, which I assume egotists would likely share.

I am going to give it a bit. This was one instance where it was said out of impulse due to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-15-2019, 02:04 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 357
Posted By HammerDad
I do feel there is more to it. My ex puts a lot...

I do feel there is more to it. My ex puts a lot on the kid, stuff the kid even says she doesn't need (ie. "I am only 13, I'm not supposed to be involved in sort of stuff", in regards to my ex's...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-15-2019, 12:11 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 357
Posted By HammerDad
I very much agree with that. This isn't a...

I very much agree with that. This isn't a revolving door to go to whomever's house she feels is going to be easiest.

I doubt it would be a smooth transition. First, my ex would fight it tooth and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-15-2019, 10:33 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 357
Posted By HammerDad
She is a bright, good kid. It is easy to feel the...

She is a bright, good kid. It is easy to feel the differences in homes just being around her. When I pick her up, for the first 5-10 minutes, I have to break through the barriers she seems to put up...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-15-2019, 09:56 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 289
Posted By HammerDad
Be clear with the ex that, unless it is an...

Be clear with the ex that, unless it is an emergency, all communication should be via email going forward (if not already). That you will respond to child related concerns as soon as reasonably...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-15-2019, 09:45 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 357
Posted By HammerDad
So she said it....

I was driving my D14 home yesterday and during the ride her mother and her got into a spat (texting back and forth). My D14 just had a great weekend with me and my family for thanksgiving and was...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-09-2019, 12:30 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 402
Posted By HammerDad
Leaving them something shows you considered them,...

Leaving them something shows you considered them, and means they would have a real tough time fighting it (ie. leaving $1.00 per child). Just make sure that he doesn't put in reasoning that would be...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-09-2019, 11:09 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 402
Posted By HammerDad
Good point. Marriage invalidates prior wills....

Good point. Marriage invalidates prior wills. Becoming common law does not.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-09-2019, 11:07 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 402
Posted By HammerDad
A quick comment to the above, if you are planning...

A quick comment to the above, if you are planning to cut someone out (like a child) you have to be careful that you specify why, and the reason why cannot be unconscionable (ie. the child gets...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-08-2019, 09:31 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 402
Posted By HammerDad
Marriage invalidates all prior Wills. That is the...

Marriage invalidates all prior Wills. That is the law. If you marry and don't get a new will, you are deemed to have died intestate and your assets are distributed as set out in the legislation. So...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2019, 09:24 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 723
Posted By HammerDad
My in-laws just took their kids to Hawaii for 10...

My in-laws just took their kids to Hawaii for 10 days, returning last week. Sometimes that is just when the schedule/budget/etc. works.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 04:58 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 648
Posted By HammerDad
I agree, it may be. But "may be" is speculation,...

I agree, it may be. But "may be" is speculation, and what the OP says is they have joint. In most instances where parents share joint custody it is "decisions must be made jointly. In the event of a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 09:31 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 648
Posted By HammerDad
EOW is irrelevant. If they have joint custody,...

EOW is irrelevant. If they have joint custody, decisions like moving schools must be made jointly. It may be more convenient or whatever, but that is not the point. Convenience of a parent is not...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-27-2019, 09:14 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 534
Posted By HammerDad
One more point to my comment. If the ex...

One more point to my comment.

If the ex wants full c/s and accepts that they will pay for all travel costs for you to exercise your parenting time, that they cannot in the future claim they cannot...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-26-2019, 04:18 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 534
Posted By HammerDad
The only argument to be made here is that the ex...

The only argument to be made here is that the ex agreed to the lower amount of c/s in consideration for him allowing her to move with the child 10 hours away.

There is no need for an undue...
Forum: General Chat 09-19-2019, 12:42 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,578
Posted By HammerDad
She had her moments for sure! The nerdy, cute,...

She had her moments for sure! The nerdy, cute, innocent one. Then that time at band camp happened, and all that innocence was lost..lol
Forum: General Chat 09-18-2019, 02:58 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,578
Posted By HammerDad
That one would tempt me as well! Her in Buffy was...

That one would tempt me as well! Her in Buffy was like the hotness...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2019, 02:50 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,220
Posted By HammerDad
lol, been a while since I listen to Rage. Funny...

lol, been a while since I listen to Rage. Funny thing is I have spotify running right now, and Bulls on Parade just played. Too bad I didn't have it going yesterday.
Forum: General Chat 09-17-2019, 12:48 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,578
Posted By HammerDad
My wife knew from the beginning about my...

My wife knew from the beginning about my daughter, so she was knew about the ex. It took a while for her to realize how difficult she was/is, and how she impacted my life. I figure it really became...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2019, 12:29 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,220
Posted By HammerDad
It appears that family law makes one want to Rage...

It appears that family law makes one want to Rage Against the Machine (Bulls on Parade).
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2019, 09:51 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 710
Posted By HammerDad
I would argue it would be "unjust enrichment" for...

I would argue it would be "unjust enrichment" for the ex to get half of the matrimonial home. If you can show any evidence of monies being paid by your family for the home, it likely would help that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2019, 10:17 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 710
Posted By HammerDad
He is only entitled to 1/2 of the value since the...

He is only entitled to 1/2 of the value since the date of marriage. He can argue for more, but your argument against is simply they aren't entitled to it.


It is a simple matter of determining...
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