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Forum: Financial Issues 10-20-2019, 02:33 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 181
Posted By Janus
Don't the libraries have computers?

Don't the libraries have computers?
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-18-2019, 01:42 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 538
Posted By Janus
Not really. It is actually a very apt...

Not really. It is actually a very apt comparison.

If your child refused to go to school, would you offer incentives? Offhand, that seems like a bad plan, because it makes it seem like school...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-14-2019, 09:06 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 289
Posted By Janus
1. Stop trying to convince her about anything. ...

1. Stop trying to convince her about anything. She has already decided that your arguments are worthless.

2. Keep everything in writing.

3. The way up is to be super friendly in writing. You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2019, 09:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 289
Posted By Janus
You can probably safely assume that he will not...

You can probably safely assume that he will not disclose. Start gathering your evidence for imputing income.
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2019, 09:01 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 562
Posted By Janus
Honestly, I am really curious as to how you...

Honestly, I am really curious as to how you figure you ended up with 20% of the assets. Make up some numbers if you must, but walk us through your calculations.

Currently, what you are saying...
Forum: Introductions 10-14-2019, 06:05 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 562
Posted By Janus
You'll have to explain the math on how you arrive...

You'll have to explain the math on how you arrive at an 80/20 split. 50% of everything sounds like 50%



A quirk of Canadian family law. The matrimonial home is split 50% no matter what. It...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2019, 06:01 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 289
Posted By Janus
This guy will owe 15 years of child support. It...

This guy will owe 15 years of child support. It is definitely worth taking it to trial to get an income imputed. Once that happens, you turn it over to FRO, and they will get the money......
Forum: Domestic Violence 10-12-2019, 12:07 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 436
Posted By Janus
That's normal. Don't let the lies rattle you. ...

That's normal. Don't let the lies rattle you. She would actually have to prove the stuff in court. Think of this as a bonus: she has let you know in advance how she is going to lie, which gives...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2019, 11:57 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 637
Posted By Janus
There are some conditions where CS will not be...

There are some conditions where CS will not be paid:

1.

Child is residing with parent, so this condition is not met.

2.

Child must be both over 18 and not in full time attendance. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2019, 11:53 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 899
Posted By Janus
I worked during the week and had custody of...

I worked during the week and had custody of preschool kids during that time. I did that for years. Working and custody are not mutually exclusive situations.

Things change. Maybe once mom...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2019, 11:04 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 637
Posted By Janus
Both conditions must be true for child support to...

Both conditions must be true for child support to end.

If child is in school full time, then child support does not end.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-11-2019, 11:00 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 899
Posted By Janus
I understood that. My point was that if you go...

I understood that. My point was that if you go to court, expect that parenting time to change to every other weekend.



If you go to court, assume that everything might be an issue. Just...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-10-2019, 10:20 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 899
Posted By Janus
I think I wasn't totally clear. I'll add a TLDR:...

I think I wasn't totally clear. I'll add a TLDR:

1) Is it fair for you to ask for Monday dropoff?

Yes.


2) Is it fair for you to have every weekend?

No.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-10-2019, 10:17 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 899
Posted By Janus
Bet you could have gotten a place for less than...

Bet you could have gotten a place for less than you are paying in child support now.



In most of the world, people share beds.




What does "fair" even mean in this context?
Forum: General Chat 10-09-2019, 09:16 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 658
Posted By Janus
I stopped eating dinner in my bathtub and...

I stopped eating dinner in my bathtub and starting going to some sex clubs, to watch freaky people getting it on.

Like rockscan said, every day is a celebration.

...but yeah, I did buy myself a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2019, 08:52 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,994
Posted By Janus
No, I think I gave you too much already. ...

No, I think I gave you too much already.


Unlike some people here, I'm not afflicted by judge worship. They can be easily fooled. If I tell you why you come off as unstable you can cover that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 02:59 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 648
Posted By Janus
This is more like one of those "Decisions...

This is more like one of those

"Decisions must be made jointly. In the event of a disagreement, the (specific parent)'s decision will prevail."

Maybe in theory it should be joint, but in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 02:53 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 723
Posted By Janus
You would be surprised at the number of parents...

You would be surprised at the number of parents that see vacations as being more important than school. My kids regularly tell me about classmates that have been gone for a month for a vacation...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 08:32 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 648
Posted By Janus
Generally, best interests of the children...

Generally, best interests of the children overrides any agreement. Every single judge will agree that it is in the best interests of a child to go to a school that is near to the location at which...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 08:27 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,994
Posted By Janus
Did you just seriously quote an entire inane post...

Did you just seriously quote an entire inane post to add two words, of which you misspelled half of them?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 08:25 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 4,994
Posted By Janus
We must be reading a different set of posts. I...

We must be reading a different set of posts. I will agree though that at least one of the parties in this dispute is clearly unstable.



I haven't had a security clearance either. I used to...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-06-2019, 08:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 241
Posted By Janus
He's probably lying, but that is irrelevent. ...

He's probably lying, but that is irrelevent.



The entire amount will appear as an asset for him during equalization. He will effectively owe you half of it.



Well, he could argue that he...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-06-2019, 07:37 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 648
Posted By Janus
Well, if that is true then he will not be getting...

Well, if that is true then he will not be getting meaningful answers to his questions. Garbage in garbage out.



Yeah, if he's an EOW dad, then the mom's choice of school should prevail.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-05-2019, 03:10 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 723
Posted By Janus
If I was your ex I wouldn't even give you the...

If I was your ex I wouldn't even give you the hotel booking information and I would hope you dragged me to court.

He gets his 7 days. If he wants to play video games with the kids at home for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-05-2019, 03:09 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 648
Posted By Janus
Annoying, but contempt is a quasi-criminal...

Annoying, but contempt is a quasi-criminal proceeding. Nobody is going to be held in contempt for being rude.

This is one of those "take the high road" moments. Take the high road.



You...
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