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Forum: Financial Issues 07-13-2022, 01:01 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 418
Posted By helenj
Who cares if it was 150k? It was CAPPED at 60k,...

Who cares if it was 150k? It was CAPPED at 60k, which means that should be starting point. Is that not an important consideration? Even if she won, she should get half of 60k, not 150k?
Forum: Financial Issues 07-13-2022, 12:59 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 418
Posted By helenj
But my offer to settle was giving her sole...

But my offer to settle was giving her sole custody without need to consult me. In the end she got sole custody WITH consultation with me.
In judge I asked for joint. So technically I won?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2022, 06:48 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 762
Posted By helenj
You only won because your ex spared you. I got...

You only won because your ex spared you. I got falsely accused of rape without any proof from her which resulted in 2 years of criminal litigation and her denying me access to my kids for over a...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2022, 06:38 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 418
Posted By helenj
Can I appeal this cost order? Judge says 'mixed success' but awards her full costs

So, even though the Judge claims both parties had mixed success, she goes on to award my ex her entire court costs.

Both of us agreed to cap our court fees to $70k, but the Judge goes on to state:...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-30-2022, 11:42 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 265
Posted By helenj
I did not know selling it could be a flag. So if...

I did not know selling it could be a flag. So if that's the case, I should wait a while before selling it? And you're saying if I sell too soon, I could still be imputed income despite not having...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-30-2022, 09:42 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 265
Posted By helenj
Investment Property and Imputed Income

Hi all,

I have an investment property where I am breaking even on. In fact, due to COVID, I have started losing money.

However, my ex was able to convince the Judge that I am making as much...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-30-2022, 09:32 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 457
Posted By helenj
Thank you for all your replies. I will take both...

Thank you for all your replies. I will take both of your suggestions. The problem is, I just see this turning into an issue where my ex is questioning the kids if a supervisor was home, and getting...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-27-2022, 10:30 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 457
Posted By helenj
Final Order Does not Make Sense

Hi all,

So I got a final order for every other weekend with a twist:

the only time that visits do not have to be supervised is during the day outside the home. That is to say, that if I am...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-25-2022, 04:18 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,497
Posted By helenj
Ha! What a load of croc! I don't know which plant...

Ha! What a load of croc! I don't know which plant you're living on, but 90% of Father's get screwed in every way imaginable.

The ones who do get "lucky" is because their ex-wives are kind of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2022, 08:58 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 399
Posted By helenj
Thank you - seems like a fair answer.

Thank you - seems like a fair answer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2022, 08:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 399
Posted By helenj
I tried VERY hard to settle but they just don't...

I tried VERY hard to settle but they just don't want to. On the other side, she admitted today that her concerns regarding my mental health was more around "irritability" more than anything.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2022, 07:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 399
Posted By helenj
How bad is this?

So i'm in the middle of trial.

We provide some texts to the other party but then my lawyer finds out that there are some texts missing and believes it's intentional.

Anyways, she's upset enough...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2022, 03:54 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,107
Posted By helenj
Hi, thanks for your response. To answer your...

Hi, thanks for your response. To answer your questions.

1. If I consent to no overnights, I will need to wait for a "material change of circumstance" to get overnights. Or wait 3-4 years until...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-10-2022, 10:55 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,107
Posted By helenj
Guys, There is 2 weeks left before we go...

Guys,

There is 2 weeks left before we go into trial and still ex is refusing overnights.

I really need input from ANYONE if my case is likely to succeed on getting overnights or not, otherwise...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2022, 06:08 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 317
Posted By helenj
CanLii Filter between Motions and Trials

Hi all,

I'm trying to filter between motions and/or endorsements and trial for family law cases.

Is there a search query or filter that can help with this? At the moment I'm going through them...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2022, 02:56 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,107
Posted By helenj
That's a great point I will ask my lawyer. I...

That's a great point I will ask my lawyer.

I don't think I can delay nor do I want to as it's been 3 years in legal battle.

What are your thoughts if I go to trial as everything stands right...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2022, 02:53 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,107
Posted By helenj
Can you elaborate on your response? Would love to...

Can you elaborate on your response? Would love to get your thoughts as I've seen your previous posts where you have a good knowledge base.

Thanks
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2022, 10:26 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,107
Posted By helenj
I proposed a gradual build up to every other...

I proposed a gradual build up to every other weekend and a mid-week visit on Tuesdays and Thursdays over the course of 4 months. I live 5 minutes away from her.

What parenting plan should I offer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2022, 06:41 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,107
Posted By helenj
You're right. My lawyer has said same thing...

You're right. My lawyer has said same thing actually lol.

How can I settle if she's not settling? I already gave her sole custody and am only asking for overnights, which she's refusing. She's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2022, 05:22 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,107
Posted By helenj
No Overnights? Trial upcoming.

Hi all,

I've given an offer to settle to my ex so she can have sole custody and I can have every other weekend with overnights. For the past 2 years I've been seeing the kids supervised and no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2022, 07:26 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 332
Posted By helenj
Material change to Child Support

Hi all,

I want to include the below in my offer, but my lawyer doesn't think it's necessary.

Would love your thoughts!

70. A material change in the condition, means, needs or other...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2021, 02:46 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 690
Posted By helenj
Before making any final decision in their area of...

Before making any final decision in their area of decision-making each party shall inform the other of their intended decision. They shall consult with one another in regards to any and all major...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-09-2021, 04:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 650
Posted By helenj
What I usually do is put names in quotes, like...

What I usually do is put names in quotes, like this

"John doe" or "Alex baldwin"

It will force the search engine to match the exact phrase in the quotations.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2021, 02:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 995
Posted By helenj
Yes, this forum is quite amazing. I am a member...

Yes, this forum is quite amazing. I am a member of several other websites, and there is nothing as unique as this site, in-part thanks to members like yourself.

I will get started on this case...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2021, 10:42 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 995
Posted By helenj
Thank you for citing the case! I'm going to look...

Thank you for citing the case! I'm going to look it up and send her the case. I've had some trust issues with this lawyer on several things and am considering a change of counsel, although my trial...
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