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Forum: Divorce Support 02-10-2014, 05:11 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 8,363
Posted By Sax
It's very hard. All I can say is that I hope you...

It's very hard. All I can say is that I hope you meet someone who you have a good feeling about and just open your heart a little at a time. When you do that and you feel the walls come down and...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-10-2014, 05:05 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 5,775
Posted By Sax
I got my divorce on October 5. I was already in...

I got my divorce on October 5. I was already in a committed relationship and my ex and I had been getting along. He also has a partner. Oct 5 was a Saturday - I barely gave it a thought. He...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-09-2013, 02:13 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,790
Posted By Sax
Wow, I really feel like I got off easy .... we...

Wow, I really feel like I got off easy .... we settled after 2 mediation appointments. He took all property and debts and paid me a settlement plus I keep my income (no spouse payments) and all of...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-09-2013, 02:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,716
Posted By Sax
Thanks Everyone! All good points.

Thanks Everyone! All good points.
Forum: Divorce Support 08-28-2013, 03:23 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,716
Posted By Sax
Tired of hearing about my ex and his crap!

So I still am hearing about my ex and all of his indiscretions. Turns out he had more affairs and was more inappropriate with women than I even imagined. Apparently everyone knew but me..... so...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-28-2013, 03:15 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 6,036
Posted By Sax
Smile oh my .....

So, I split with my ex in 2011 .... we tried to reconcile because I had the "what if" scenario .... counselling didn't work AGAIN .... so we split AGAIN, this time for good. My adult kids were angry...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-25-2013, 03:30 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,656
Posted By Sax
I have never spoken to my kids about what...

I have never spoken to my kids about what happened between us - he did - only what he wanted them to know - again painting me as an ugly bitch. I have pleaded with the kids to stay neutral. My...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-25-2013, 03:12 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 4,296
Posted By Sax
I agree ....

Just when I think everything is going well, either my ex or my boyfriends ex stirs up shit with the kids ..... Why are they so self centred and selfish that they can't see what they are doing with...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-25-2013, 03:03 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,656
Posted By Sax
Validation for Leaving but confused and upset

So I've been separated a while and have moved on in a great relationship! My new guy is amazing - both our ex's cheated and we are really committed!

My ex was a cheater .... 4 or 5 short flings...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-22-2012, 11:36 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,565
Posted By Sax
Hahahaha!!! :p

Hahahaha!!! :p
Forum: Divorce Support 08-22-2012, 05:57 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,565
Posted By Sax
My counsellor says "kim, take the high road". It...

My counsellor says "kim, take the high road". It does make me feel better!!!
Forum: Divorce Support 08-22-2012, 03:33 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,705
Posted By Sax
last night i rode my motorcycle with a group of...

last night i rode my motorcycle with a group of new friends!

Tonight I have a date with a great guy - going to see a movie!
Forum: Divorce Support 08-22-2012, 03:31 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,565
Posted By Sax
When I separated my ex was very abusive verbally....

When I separated my ex was very abusive verbally. Everytime he would call he would insult me and yell and it was very stressful. My good friend who practiced family law years ago said that I didn't...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-21-2012, 12:08 PM
Replies: 162
Views: 23,454
Posted By Sax
Normal ....

Your post doesn't sound rude at all. i can sense your frustration.

Just look after yourself and the kids!!!

All you can control is yourself - you cannot control anything she does or says.
Forum: Divorce Support 08-20-2012, 01:19 PM
Replies: 162
Views: 23,454
Posted By Sax
wow

Wow, so sorry you are going through this. How exasperating. Must be incredibly difficult to live your life in an even somewhat normal way.
Forum: Divorce Support 08-15-2012, 09:00 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 7,041
Posted By Sax
I was married almost 30 years. I was the major...

I was married almost 30 years. I was the major breadwinner. I don't give him any money. I did for about 3 months then when he took a vacation to Florida for 9 days I cut it off. Haven't given him...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-15-2012, 08:57 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,705
Posted By Sax
I golfed last night with some ladies .... had a...

I golfed last night with some ladies .... had a lot of fun. I'm golfing today in a tournament for a women's networking group I belong to. I'm golfing tomorrow after work with a friend at work .......
Forum: Divorce Support 08-13-2012, 02:54 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 11,389
Posted By Sax
My kids .... and their acceptance

Well, my kids are adults - in their 20's .... when I left (the first time) they were both angry at me! I couldn't imagine how they could be so angry at me and so supportive of their dad when he was...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-13-2012, 02:51 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,705
Posted By Sax
My girlfriend and her family came to visit me. ...

My girlfriend and her family came to visit me. We had a tourist day! We laughed at everything! Soooo much fun! It feels good to laugh, I mean, really laugh and have a great time!
Forum: Divorce Support 08-08-2012, 01:11 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 11,389
Posted By Sax
Hi, I don't feel guilt or regret but I do worry...

Hi, I don't feel guilt or regret but I do worry about the kids and what they think of me. That's my big worry. I need to hear them say "Mom, it's alright, you did what you needed to do and I'm ok...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-08-2012, 01:11 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,705
Posted By Sax
Basking in the glow....

Basking in the glow....
Forum: Divorce Support 08-07-2012, 10:38 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,705
Posted By Sax
Thumbs up "like" button

So many great posts. I wish there was a "like" button!!
Forum: Divorce Support 08-07-2012, 07:04 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,705
Posted By Sax
Good for you making the best out of a shitty...

Good for you making the best out of a shitty deal! My therapist says "always take the high road"!!! Drama done. You have moved on!! Awesome!!!
Forum: Divorce Support 08-07-2012, 06:59 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,705
Posted By Sax
Kudos

Kudos to everyone for sharing all their happy moments!

I hope it helps us all realize there is "life after divorce"!!

This weekend I was with my gf, her hubby and son and we got caught in a...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-07-2012, 05:51 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 5,705
Posted By Sax
Haha

Tomorrow I'm hosting a wine tasting at my house. Never Woukd have done that before! Today I'm planning everything. Relaxing. Doing what I want! Glorious!!
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