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Forum: Financial Issues 08-07-2022, 08:46 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,294
Posted By Brampton33
It really is all about the money. Especially...

It really is all about the money. Especially when your ex knows how to play the game. Stall and delay the court process while you pay Table CS. I figure my ex extracted an additional $20k in CS by...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-07-2022, 08:43 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
The only issue I see with morning exchanges, is...

The only issue I see with morning exchanges, is that if one (or both) of my kids are sick, I will notify my ex and either have to drop them off with her or with a family member at 9am. Then my ex...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-07-2022, 10:25 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 505
Posted By Brampton33
Right of First Refusal does not work in high...

Right of First Refusal does not work in high conflict cases. The other parent does not want you to spend additional time with kids. They won't even tell you about the opportunity, and simply get a...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-07-2022, 09:52 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,294
Posted By Brampton33
Agreed. During my unnecessarily elongated court...

Agreed. During my unnecessarily elongated court case (as my ex dragged feet on inevitable outcome), my ex cried that it was OK for kids to sleep at my place 5/14, but 6/14 was blasphemy. Luckily I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2022, 10:01 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
Just for clarification, we each have 2...

Just for clarification, we each have 2 non-consecutive weeks for vacation in summers. She gets 1st choice in odd-numbered years where she picks her 2 weeks on April 1, and then I choose my 2 weeks...
Forum: General Chat 08-06-2022, 09:49 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 89
Posted By Brampton33
Counseling is supposed to be therapeutic with a...

Counseling is supposed to be therapeutic with a goal of getting better. The idea is that one should be able to openly and freely speak whats on their mind, without fear of reprisal or getting bit in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2022, 08:21 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
This may make sense in most cases, and I...

This may make sense in most cases, and I contemplated this. However, my ex is extremely high conflict. Always her way or the highway. Makes cases that lack logic and then kicks/screams when she...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2022, 08:15 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
Week about has been recommended against by the...

Week about has been recommended against by the court and the OCL. This is due to my ex's vindictiveness and pettiness towards me, which was acknowledged and recognized by them. The court ordered...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-03-2022, 09:19 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
No problem. From what I gather, its best for 9am...

No problem. From what I gather, its best for 9am dropoffs. Unfortunately, my court order has "after school pickups". We currently do 2-2-3 because my ex resents me and the notion of our kids...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2022, 08:43 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 193
Posted By Brampton33
Interesting regarding submitting an Answer and...

Interesting regarding submitting an Answer and Reply. Canada is a no-fault divorce country. Meaning the threshold to meet to get a divorce is that you are separated for 1 year. This can be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2022, 07:17 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
@ Rockscan and Respondent: Please start your own...

@ Rockscan and Respondent: Please start your own thread and/or private message one another- your messages have completely hijacked my thread and delve into someone's else's matter. Thank you!
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Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2022, 09:07 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
For my case, there was strong inclinations at...

For my case, there was strong inclinations at alienation. My ex essentially wanted to remove me entirely from our kids' lives and go about her business as if I never existed. In that regard, the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-01-2022, 08:40 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
You clearly don't know my ex. She is the...

You clearly don't know my ex. She is the definition of high-conflict. It drives her insane that our kids are 1/2 time with me. To the point where she wants regular check-ins with me to ensure I am...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-29-2022, 10:00 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
I agree. However the 3pm exchange seems to work...

I agree. However the 3pm exchange seems to work during the school year. I just drop kids off at school and say "Mom will pick you up after school". It makes sense for 3pm (or simply "after...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-28-2022, 02:39 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
Agreed re: this summer. My ex never accepted...

Agreed re: this summer. My ex never accepted 50/50 and still thinks its best for kids to only see their dad haphazardly and when its convenient for her. I was thinking that IF we are going to make...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-28-2022, 02:22 PM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,016
Posted By Brampton33
Exchange time

Have joint custody and 50/50 parenting. Relationship with ex is not on solid ground following court proceedings...if anything they have gotten worse with passage of time. Court Order says exchanges...
Forum: General Chat 07-28-2022, 09:20 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 255
Posted By Brampton33
Thanks for the response. I would be looking...

Thanks for the response. I would be looking outside the GTA. It is nice to see "For Sale" signs not disappear after 2 days. But what needs to happen is for sellers to get out of the "hysteria"...
Forum: Political Issues 07-25-2022, 01:56 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 11,407
Posted By Brampton33
I am not angry at all and don't appreciate being...

I am not angry at all and don't appreciate being labeled as such. The thread is about FRO publicly shaming people who have not paid. The conversation included discussions about publicly shaming...
Forum: Political Issues 07-25-2022, 01:36 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 11,407
Posted By Brampton33
If a woman moves out of home and takes kids, and...

If a woman moves out of home and takes kids, and tells dad "if you want to see your kids, you'll have to fight me in court"....then dad has to fight in court. When the kids are at stake, and mom...
Forum: Political Issues 07-25-2022, 11:50 AM
Replies: 96
Views: 11,407
Posted By Brampton33
Fair enough...how about a listing publicly...

Fair enough...how about a listing publicly shaming mothers who can be considered the big baddies....who needlessly litigated and wasted court resources, as well as imploded financial resources that...
Forum: Political Issues 07-25-2022, 11:15 AM
Replies: 96
Views: 11,407
Posted By Brampton33
I know I will get some backlash from some members...

I know I will get some backlash from some members about "staying on topic" or "hijaking" the thread....but in the similar vein of "publicly shaming fathers", has there been any talk of publicly...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-23-2022, 08:53 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 157
Posted By Brampton33
Under Table Income

I am sure this thread already exists, but I had a hard time finding one similar using the search. We have joint custody and 50/50 parenting and court proceedings completed.

My ex, throughout...
Forum: General Chat 07-23-2022, 11:29 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 255
Posted By Brampton33
Co-signer on new mortgage?

Hi All....ex got the house in the divorce and I had to rebuild. After renting for a few years, I think I may be able to purchase a house again soon. However, its a little different with one...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2022, 04:48 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 188
Posted By Brampton33
This might be a tough find. My understanding in...

This might be a tough find. My understanding in doing taxes, is that child support is not tax deductible, whether its table or offset amount.

I would re-read what Line 22100 is meant to do, as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2022, 11:24 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 762
Posted By Brampton33
That money belongs to the child(ren). It should...

That money belongs to the child(ren). It should be paid and never waived. Do you think your ex would let you off the hook if the situation were reversed?

Tips from my end- who also went...
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