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Forum: Reference 05-26-2021, 02:24 PM
Replies: 40
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Posted By LovingDad1234
Thanks for sharing this info

Thanks for sharing this info
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2021, 09:19 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,518
Posted By LovingDad1234
Couldn't agree more. My ex was being...

Couldn't agree more. My ex was being unreasonable for both parenting time of kids, as well as, equalization. Rather than drag things out for years and flush money down the toilet in ongoing legal...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-30-2021, 07:08 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,425
Posted By LovingDad1234
Another one for me is when ex “pretends” that...

Another one for me is when ex “pretends” that they did not receive text or email.

I was married to my ex, and know that she is “glued” to her phone, so pretending that she never received or saw...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-29-2021, 03:32 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,425
Posted By LovingDad1234
This is a no-brainer as petty behaviour and...

This is a no-brainer as petty behaviour and likely involved in 90% of breakups, but I would say for me it is:

1- The inevitable competition for best birthday and Christmas gifts.
2- Criticizing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-05-2021, 04:59 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 542
Posted By LovingDad1234
Opposing counsel is correct to advise to remove...

Opposing counsel is correct to advise to remove "Without Prejudice" conversations from affidavit. The purpose of without prejudice conversations is to try to negotiate on a "without prejudice basis"...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-01-2021, 01:03 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,396
Posted By LovingDad1234
Yes, speaking with a lawyer will help. But...

Yes, speaking with a lawyer will help.

But it is strongly recommended for 350Mag to speak with a therapist or separation coach as soon as possible to avoid going on tangents with lawyers about...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2021, 11:26 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,396
Posted By LovingDad1234
It has nothing to do with compromise. Workplaces...

It has nothing to do with compromise. Workplaces have hiring practices and there needs to be a vacancy or position to fill. Your ex is welcome to apply to any job hiring postings out there, if she...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2021, 08:45 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,396
Posted By LovingDad1234
You want your ex to contact her old boss from 18...

You want your ex to contact her old boss from 18 years ago? Your ex's job likely got filled 18 years ago. Workplaces hire based on filling a vacancy, not to help resolve a conflict in figuring out...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2021, 09:32 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,709
Posted By LovingDad1234
Because in 2020, if you received $2,000 for CCB...

Because in 2020, if you received $2,000 for CCB when the reality is that you should have received $1,250 and you ex receive $750, the CRA will ask that you give back $750 so that they can rightfully...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-11-2020, 09:37 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 4,913
Posted By LovingDad1234
She has already said that she would not get...

She has already said that she would not get approved for a mortgage on her own. Her ex wants his name off of the title of the house so that he can move on with his life, get a new mortgage for a new...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-10-2020, 03:57 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 4,913
Posted By LovingDad1234
100% with everything Rockscan said. The...

100% with everything Rockscan said.

The house.....its either you buy him out and get yourself approved for a mortgage without his name on it, or you move. Based on what I read, you will need to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-06-2020, 11:23 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,456
Posted By LovingDad1234
Best approach is to find a solution in working...

Best approach is to find a solution in working with your ex with as little of conflict as possible.

Going to court over something as trivial as a Wednesday drop-off is ridiculous. The courts are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2020, 11:08 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 620
Posted By LovingDad1234
Some parents are hellbent about "winning"...

Some parents are hellbent about "winning" regardless of the cost or process. Many on here will tell you stories about how they went through a court battle for years to only land on what they...
Forum: Political Issues 10-30-2020, 09:20 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,551
Posted By LovingDad1234
20 years ago, if someone wanted to get divorced,...

20 years ago, if someone wanted to get divorced, they would go see a divorce lawyer. The lawyer would have an office with all sorts of law books, case law, and textbooks, etc. The lawyer was...
Forum: Political Issues 10-19-2020, 09:33 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 575
Posted By LovingDad1234
You won your motions and yet you still want to...

You won your motions and yet you still want to take shots at the judge? Take the "wins" and walk away. Moreover, if you have been in court before, there is possibilities you will be in court again....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2020, 01:06 PM
Replies: 77
Views: 6,607
Posted By LovingDad1234
Acting for you for free can mean very little if...

Acting for you for free can mean very little if all it consists of is representing you to receive correspondence and send correspondence out. Incoming and outgoing correspondence pads the bill.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2020, 10:06 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,783
Posted By LovingDad1234
If you have a court order that says you are to...

If you have a court order that says you are to exchange documents by certain date, you do it regardless of whether or not your ex can reciprocate. Why not take the high road and ensure to look good...
Forum: General Chat 10-12-2020, 08:52 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,688
Posted By LovingDad1234
Further to this, I would hate for any suggestion...

Further to this, I would hate for any suggestion on my part for joint counselling to be misconstrued and twisted by her. Despite the fact that judges are well-aware that former couples have some...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2020, 11:48 AM
Replies: 77
Views: 6,607
Posted By LovingDad1234
I am sorry to hear of your troubles. Seems that...

I am sorry to hear of your troubles. Seems that the Opposing side is just playing around and you are having difficulties with your lawyer.

Here in Toronto, an experienced family lawyer can be...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-08-2020, 09:27 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,418
Posted By LovingDad1234
Thanks for the response, excellent answer! I...

Thanks for the response, excellent answer! I will simply continue to pay the Table amount as I normally do, and when the time comes for offset, I will continue with the Table amount and indicate...
Forum: General Chat 10-07-2020, 08:45 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,688
Posted By LovingDad1234
I contemplated joint counseling after the...

I contemplated joint counseling after the completion of the court process as we are quite icy with one another when we need not be. I too thought the waters would calm after its all said and done,...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-06-2020, 03:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,418
Posted By LovingDad1234
I realize this thread is a few years old, but I...

I realize this thread is a few years old, but I did my best to search the topic before starting new thread.

When the CS is supposed to be offset, do BOTH parents pay eachother the amount of CS...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-06-2020, 02:25 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 696
Posted By LovingDad1234
Often the OCL worker will have the written report...

Often the OCL worker will have the written report with them at the meeting. They will go over their findings and recommendations. There is an opportunity to ask questions. The disclosure meeting...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2020, 11:10 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 7,511
Posted By LovingDad1234
You have strong chances and argument. She chose...

You have strong chances and argument. She chose to pick up and move, not you. If anything, she can have EOW.

I especially like how she lawyered up and tried to strong-arm you in hopes you...
Forum: Political Issues 09-30-2020, 10:47 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,329
Posted By LovingDad1234
False accusations used to try to gain a tactical...

False accusations used to try to gain a tactical advantage in Family Court usually get flushed out in court. If they are indeed false, its a huge red mark on one who made the false allegations.
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