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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-03-2008, 09:43 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,303
Posted By jlalex
If you are both agreeable to the divorce and...

If you are both agreeable to the divorce and since you already have a seperation agreement there isn't any reason you both can't fill out the forms and file them yourselves. You can pick up a Divorce...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-22-2008, 12:52 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 3,647
Posted By jlalex
Good lawyer/bad lawyer...

I wanted to get some opinions, my husband and I are having misgivings about our lawyer. But to be honest I'm not a lawyer so I don't know whats 'normal' or whats unreasonable.

We always have to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-22-2008, 12:36 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 2,076
Posted By jlalex
We went though this when my now present husband...

We went though this when my now present husband divorced his ex. Both parties agreed to divorce. We had to wait for an order from the judge saying he gave persmission etc and then filed for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-04-2008, 08:41 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,751
Posted By jlalex
The ex has very uncontrolled diabetes, not that...

The ex has very uncontrolled diabetes, not that she can't control it but chooses not to. The one medical report we did receive from one of her many doctors was not very inspiring. That doctor said...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2008, 11:11 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,751
Posted By jlalex
I thought perhaps I'd do a quick rundown of...

I thought perhaps I'd do a quick rundown of pending events to help but my earlier statment in perspective.

The outstand issues are:
Custody...the parents seperated when the child was 3, lived...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2008, 10:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,751
Posted By jlalex
Settlement conference and other issues....

Well we seem to be making some progress..sort of..

We have spoken with the OCL, though there seems to be a big misunderstanding..from what the childrens lawyer said, there is nothing in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2008, 06:04 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,338
Posted By jlalex
My understanding is that there isn't much...

My understanding is that there isn't much difference. Getting a divorce simply allows you to re-marry.

When we finalized our divorce it referenced the seperation agreement we already had in place....
Forum: General Chat 03-28-2008, 06:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,833
Posted By jlalex
Some great advice already given. The only...

Some great advice already given.

The only thing I can say is that with time the anger and pain fades. I remember the first year we were seperated I woke up every day hating him and I fell asleep...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-20-2008, 08:15 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,622
Posted By jlalex
Right now since he is in school we usually try to...

Right now since he is in school we usually try to visit once a month (all of us together),and we would like it to be more be often but that doesn't always happen. As well my husband travels for work...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2008, 07:00 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,572
Posted By jlalex
What kind of evidence is permitted..

We have a couple of emails left by my husbands ex, and frankly its like the 3 faces of Eve...complete wacko. In one she is sobbing saying that their son should come live with us and that she can't...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-18-2008, 06:54 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,779
Posted By jlalex
I think I would register the agreement with FRO,...

I think I would register the agreement with FRO, as flawed as they are at least you would have a record of arrears and possibly they might enforce the order with garnishments.

You could take it...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-18-2008, 06:51 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,622
Posted By jlalex
My husband and I are in the same boat, we live in...

My husband and I are in the same boat, we live in the Toronto area and his ex and son live in Ottawa.

The ex tried to refuse visitation unless it occured in the Ottawa are only, saying the driving...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2008, 01:47 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,294
Posted By jlalex
Is it better to wait?

Our lawyer contacted us for a settlement conference date. My husband told her that he would like to wait until the OCL has done their investigation and submitted their report..we just received notice...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-16-2007, 12:23 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,247
Posted By jlalex
Help ! Where to go from here...

I'll try to give a quick rundown of where we stand now. My husbands ex no longer has a lawyer. A date for a settlement conference was supposed to be set by end of September, but ex's lawyer booked a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-29-2007, 05:41 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,699
Posted By jlalex
FL...its nice to know we're not alone in this...

FL...its nice to know we're not alone in this mess. It is so very frustrating to go through this process, not only do you get jerked around in every which way but they take their sweet time doing it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2007, 10:06 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,699
Posted By jlalex
Currently there is no custody order in place. Up...

Currently there is no custody order in place. Up until he served her with divorce papers she was more or less co-operative, at least compared with the way she has acted lately.

We've tried to get...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2007, 06:05 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,699
Posted By jlalex
Hey lawyer dropped her....

So things are moving along at a snails pace..and we've found out that my husbands ex wife has been dropped by her lawyer, apparently for non-payment ( she's getting legal aid ).

We're still...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2007, 07:36 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,386
Posted By jlalex
What can we do...maybe call CAS?

A question...

Can a child be removed from a home on grounds of them not going to school on a regular basis? My husbands son has missed almost 3 weeks of school so far this year, and of course he's...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-06-2007, 07:14 AM
Replies: 9
Fro
Views: 2,101
Posted By jlalex
I've had problems with FRO from the get go..even...

I've had problems with FRO from the get go..even when my ex was laid off, we knew ahead of time and I called FRO 3 months *before* it happened and they said they would send the government a...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-22-2007, 07:43 PM
Replies: 9
Fro
Views: 2,101
Posted By jlalex
Thanks, I know FRO is a giant pain, and I have...

Thanks, I know FRO is a giant pain, and I have yet to meet anyone whose had a good exeperience with them.

We will definitly have to get to the bottom of this arrears thing....

Let the fun...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-21-2007, 06:39 PM
Replies: 9
Fro
Views: 2,101
Posted By jlalex
Fro

I have a couple of questions regarding FRO...

We recieved paperwork from FRO regarding a garnishment of my common law husbands wages. We didn't sign anything and we certainly didn't agree with...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2007, 11:43 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,934
Posted By jlalex
In regards to the CS & retirement, I think it is...

In regards to the CS & retirement, I think it is likely an income would be imputed to the payor.

Although there are seniors rights etc that are to be considered, I would think that financial...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-24-2007, 11:34 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,781
Posted By jlalex
Very well said Today. As for the initial...

Very well said Today.

As for the initial question of should the info be included or excluded I believe it absolutely should be included.

I like a lot of other people have an ex that does the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2007, 11:20 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,514
Posted By jlalex
Child care falls under the Section 7 expenses...

Child care falls under the Section 7 expenses also referred to as extrodinary expenses..and is paid on a proportional basis.

I don't think you would be responsible to pay for babysitting if she...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-15-2007, 05:40 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,710
Posted By jlalex
Sorry...I should have clarified, the ex is...

Sorry...I should have clarified, the ex is receiving disability..and has been on disibility for about 15 years now....might have worked 6 months her entire life.

Child support has always been paid...
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