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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 05:23 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 212
Posted By Janus
Sex clubs are different than strip clubs. In sex...

Sex clubs are different than strip clubs. In sex clubs consenting adults get together and have sexual fun. Everybody is paying to be there. They are completely legal.

While not necessary, sex...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 03:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 76
Posted By Janus
Not adultery. However, some judges are old...

Not adultery.

However, some judges are old conservative men who might not take kindly to such activities. Maybe for the next year have sex the old fashioned way, through Tinder?
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 11:19 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 97
Posted By Janus
1. It is very unlikely that any substantive...

1. It is very unlikely that any substantive orders will be made at a settlement conference unless you agree to them. Don't sign anything that you don't want. A good general rule is not to sign...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 11:12 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 116
Posted By Janus
The way your girlfriend describes her ex might...

The way your girlfriend describes her ex might one day be the way she describes you.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 11:06 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 59
Posted By Janus
How is school time allotted when determining 40% threshold

We often discuss in the forum what counts as "time" with regards to the 40% threshold. I recently read a very complete look at the subject:
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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 10:20 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 204
Posted By Janus
At my kid's school the yard is teeming with...

At my kid's school the yard is teeming with children at 8:40, and supervision doesn't start until 8:50. A 10 year old kid is in grade 4, which means that they are allowed to walk home alone, and be...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 10:13 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 212
Posted By Janus
What is your case? What are you trying to get?

What is your case? What are you trying to get?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:09 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 160
Posted By Janus
No, backinthesaddle does not sound like somebody...

No, backinthesaddle does not sound like somebody dealing with a cluster B personality disorder problem at all. I think you just like posting that link everywhere.


As a bonus, the link is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:50 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 160
Posted By Janus
Do you get a referral fee every time you post...

Do you get a referral fee every time you post that link? I think there are still a couple of threads left for you to use it on. If you run out of current threads just start necro'ing some old...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 09:48 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 212
Posted By Janus
Can I guess? Divorceakai is a...

Can I guess?


Divorceakai is a non-custodial parent. Mom wants to use a daycare of her choice during her parenting time. Dad would rather his parents do the kid minding, not the least because...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:38 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 160
Posted By Janus
When you cannot negotiate, you go to court. That...

When you cannot negotiate, you go to court. That is the entire point of court.


The good news is that, as others have pointed out, the process of going to court often results in you not having...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 09:36 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 116
Posted By Janus
Seems like you are still willing to take his...

Seems like you are still willing to take his money though.


It's always heartwarming when parasites insult their hosts.


FRO will get him eventually.


If you are sure he is unemployed,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2019, 09:55 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 204
Posted By Janus
How do you know?

How do you know?
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2019, 12:37 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 346
Posted By Janus
Yes, my error. If she picks up the kids...

Yes, my error.

If she picks up the kids during his time, he can react at that point. He has subsequently indicated that he is more worried that she might change the agreement, which as rockscan...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 09:12 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 346
Posted By Janus
How would she do that? On your days you pick up...

How would she do that? On your days you pick up the kids. If she picks up the kids when it is not your time, you send a demand in writing, and go to her house to get them. If she continues to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 04:26 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 346
Posted By Janus
What on earth does "consider" mean? In...

What on earth does "consider" mean?

In family law, "consider" is code for "no fucking way".

Does your agreement say 50-50 or not? "Consider 50-50" is not 50-50
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 01:33 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 346
Posted By Janus
Does your agreement give a 50-50 schedule? Are...

Does your agreement give a 50-50 schedule? Are there specific dates?

If yes, then I don't see the concern, you either have 50% or you will be getting 50%.

If no, then you don't have 50%, and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 01:31 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 266
Posted By Janus
If the agreement is silent, then on the next...

If the agreement is silent, then on the next exchange when it is her turn to pick up the kids, send her a message once you have the children that she can pick them up at your place.

When she tells...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 03:29 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 380
Posted By Janus
What kind of schedule do you want? Would...

What kind of schedule do you want?


Would you be ok with your ex having every other weekend with the kids? Do you have an end goal in mind beyond "minimum time possible"?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 03:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 380
Posted By Janus
So, for example, would you be willing to spend...

So, for example, would you be willing to spend $90,000 on this court case? That is not even the upper limit of course, but if your opponent is truly an intractable adversary who is completely high...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 11:58 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 380
Posted By Janus
How much are you planning on investing in this...

How much are you planning on investing in this court case? What is the upper range of what you are willing to spend?

What kind of assets are we fighting over? Do you guys own a multi-million...
Forum: Introductions 10-31-2019, 09:24 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,997
Posted By Janus
Fair might be half of the current value, given...

Fair might be half of the current value, given that you have only been paying for half of the HELOC. Who has paid for repairs and maintenance during this time? Who has paid the property tax?


...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-29-2019, 09:08 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 320
Posted By Janus
I agree with the above, he has 2 options: 1)...

I agree with the above, he has 2 options:

1) A true 50/50, and he works out how he is going to take care of the kids during his time.

2) EOW nonsense and table CS.


He wants you to have...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-28-2019, 04:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 219
Posted By Janus
Normally I would say that you just learned a 12k...

Normally I would say that you just learned a 12k lesson, better luck next time...



The only hope is that she took it and was dumb enough to put it in her bank account. I might consider waiting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-24-2019, 11:19 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 274
Posted By Janus
That doesn't sound like a glitch, sounds like a...

That doesn't sound like a glitch, sounds like a good clause that any sane parent would want in the agreement.



If my kid is in competitive gymnastics, should I avoid watching her competitions...
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