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Forum: General Chat 11-03-2014, 12:48 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 719
Posted By Just'in
for rioe, LF32, straittohell, Headwaters1, baldclub

Ive been reading and reading and reading this site in the last couple of weeks. Posts by those aforementioned have provided me with a sense of calm. I wanted to say thanks for your contributions.
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Forum: Introductions 11-02-2014, 11:12 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,571
Posted By Just'in
Negotiating 'nicely' is different than...

Negotiating 'nicely' is different than negotiating REASONABLY.

What you can negotiate REASONABLY is division of property and SS but I don't think its good for the kids you are willing to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-02-2014, 10:51 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 714
Posted By Just'in
criminal or family? you can get a restraining...

criminal or family? you can get a restraining order either way i think. Might help to clarify.
Forum: Introductions 11-02-2014, 10:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,571
Posted By Just'in
your kids are teens so its not like your ex will...

your kids are teens so its not like your ex will be paying CS for a long time. While your ability to want to negotiate "nicely" is admirable, it's kinda stupid too IMO. CS is for the KIDS not you and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-02-2014, 10:20 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 841
Posted By Just'in
Relationship was going bad for a while. We...

Relationship was going bad for a while. We started talking about separating and what that would look like for the kids. She got really angry one night and called the police. I was arrested. She was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-02-2014, 09:24 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 841
Posted By Just'in
police, ocl, cas evidence in my favour. now what?

So my ex wife pulled a one-sided legal attack when I wanted out of the relationship. Police was involved. OCL did their investigation. CAS has come around a couple of times. The evidence I've...
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-02-2014, 09:09 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,493
Posted By Just'in
men vs women's claims of dv

Maybe I'm in the wrong section but something struck me just now while I was reading various posts on this site.

Is it just me or are men's claims of dv becoming "better tolerated" than those made...
Forum: General Chat 11-02-2014, 08:08 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,456
Posted By Just'in
Can I ask where you're at now? Kids? For me...

Can I ask where you're at now? Kids?

For me i've managed to debunk her accusations with support of police, ocl and cad. Even the court at some of our last sessions made recommendations in my...
Forum: General Chat 11-01-2014, 03:33 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,456
Posted By Just'in
Ya I like the x's and y's thing too. Helpful. ...

Ya I like the x's and y's thing too. Helpful.

Not trying to make a deal out of nothing. Just weird. My ex lost custody of her older kids so Im kinda uncomfortable of this turn of interest she has...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 11:54 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,456
Posted By Just'in
Trying to stay calm and indifferent. Her previous...

Trying to stay calm and indifferent. Her previous places (rather mine with the kids when we were together) continue to be in HER hood. Why she's in my community considering all that she's done...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 11:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 657
Posted By Just'in
I always did the trick-or-treat part. Took kids...

I always did the trick-or-treat part. Took kids out and shelled out the crafts upon return while she spent those hours on her BB. Hard to digest a night where I have become insignificant. Sigh....
Forum: Divorce Support 10-31-2014, 11:35 PM
Replies: 876
Views: 68,514
Posted By Just'in
I feel you grinning in your elation. Hearing her...

I feel you grinning in your elation. Hearing her say that she loves / misses you must have been the totality towards a heart exploding in sheer joy! Congrats dude! seems like your ex wasn't to be...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-31-2014, 10:46 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,373
Posted By Just'in
Okay. No kids. So it's for spousal support......

Okay. No kids. So it's for spousal support... Yawn. Get a grip, the law is the law. I'm a man too. Can't get out of it depending on the situation.

Did you indicate anywhere how long you were...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 10:31 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 5,041
Posted By Just'in
as a man with a default artist connected to...

as a man with a default artist connected to emotion (gasp!) I do applaud you. It seems like you are truly trying to figure out the best way forward with your ex. Something strikes me as your ex is...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 10:22 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 5,041
Posted By Just'in
Glad to read you are not making your ex out to be...

Glad to read you are not making your ex out to be a monster (seems quite common on this board). More could be done this way on this board but, hey, who am I to say. So glad to read that not all exes...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 10:15 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 5,041
Posted By Just'in
xxx Sorry, double post somehow.

xxx

Sorry, double post somehow.
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 10:00 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 2,516
Posted By Just'in
You can look at it that way. Getting older. I...

You can look at it that way. Getting older. I count my fray hairs as the years go by too. BUT you can also look at things more positively and learn to enjoy the PROCESS as time moves on.

no right...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 08:37 PM
Replies: 88
Views: 5,041
Posted By Just'in
Links17, unfortunately I find you SO pessimistic...

Links17, unfortunately I find you SO pessimistic in most of your posts (not all). What gives? what's your story? If I'm not mistaken, you could be perceived as a troll on this board (and I had to...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-31-2014, 07:57 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,373
Posted By Just'in
Are there kids involved? Can you separate...

Are there kids involved? Can you separate yourself from HER to know that there are kids that require ongoing care? Dunno your story. Haven't checked it out. But making decisions for THE KIDS (even if...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 07:45 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 657
Posted By Just'in
Flooding the board, sorry

So I'm here tonight when I should have been trick-or-treating with my kids. 1st ex was late to pick up kids that lead to tears (tragic, they missed the party plans). 2nd ex tells me kids are *sick*...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-31-2014, 07:38 PM
Replies: 876
Views: 68,514
Posted By Just'in
Dude, I've read up on your crap situation. Enjoy...

Dude, I've read up on your crap situation. Enjoy this weekend with D3 and do everything you can to connect with her. Trick-or-treating tonight, colouring, story time, BATH play time. If you are the...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 07:32 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,456
Posted By Just'in
That's insulting. If I felt there was a...

That's insulting. If I felt there was a conspiracy theory or if I was paranoid, I would've indicated / implied as much. All I've said is that I find it weird and uncomfortable given my history with...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 06:50 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,456
Posted By Just'in
Trying not to. I know I can't control what she...

Trying not to. I know I can't control what she does or where she goes. However the odd thing is she always criticized this area for its diversity. So I'm kinda uncomfortable about her newfound...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-31-2014, 05:52 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 14,695
Posted By Just'in
I get what you're saying here. My first wife was...

I get what you're saying here. My first wife was very disinterested in child-rearing. I have custody of our kids and she has access. For a long time she skip out on them but it's getting better. I am...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2014, 05:28 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,456
Posted By Just'in
Ex socializing in my neighbourhood with kids

Maybe this will look bad on my part but I think it's weird that recently my ex wife has decided to involve herself in my neighbourhood's children's facilities, parks and restaurants. There are more...
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