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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-15-2016, 09:36 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 598
Posted By FightingForFamily
In a word, yes. Most social services, CAS,...

In a word, yes. Most social services, CAS, custody evaluators are starting with a bias against men.

In some cases as serious as assuming their involvement with the family is due to child or sexual...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-02-2016, 01:00 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 872
Posted By FightingForFamily
OCL has a reputation for being very traditional...

OCL has a reputation for being very traditional and recommending full custody to the mother a vast majority of the time. They will listen patiently, say wonderful things about the father, but always...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-02-2016, 11:51 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 341
Posted By FightingForFamily
You probably don't need to go to court or get a...

You probably don't need to go to court or get a new order to adjust your CS. I've never used one.

Every year I prepare a short letter stating my income and my new CS amount beginning on date XYZ....
Forum: General Chat 10-21-2016, 04:40 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 4,675
Posted By FightingForFamily
I follow MGTOW channels and news. They are pretty...

I follow MGTOW channels and news. They are pretty extreme but there is some sense in what they are expressing.

In my post divorce life I will never have a joint bank account, we split all costs...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-20-2016, 04:32 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 492
Posted By FightingForFamily
If they declare bankruptcy you become another...

If they declare bankruptcy you become another creditor in the pool as far equalization goes. However child support (mostly) and spousal support (pretty sure) cannot be discharged through bankruptcy,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-18-2016, 12:22 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 296
Posted By FightingForFamily
You would use the gross income from all sources...

You would use the gross income from all sources (line 150) which presumably includes the salary of your full time job plus the salary you paid yourself from your other business.

It's very likely...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2016, 04:57 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,712
Posted By FightingForFamily
I think statistically it's about 97% of payors...

I think statistically it's about 97% of payors are men and 3% of payors are women. Very rare to find them, though they do exist.

Apparently the 3% of women who are supposed to pay are often in...
Forum: Common Law Issues 10-11-2016, 12:19 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 5,947
Posted By FightingForFamily
Because you are common law and not married, there...

Because you are common law and not married, there is a chance that she would not be entitled to 50% of the value of the house.

By default she is entitled to half because you put her on the title....
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-02-2016, 05:47 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 2,134
Posted By FightingForFamily
I'm a huge advocate for shared custody for...

I'm a huge advocate for shared custody for everyone I advise. However, I don't have shared custody and I don't think I ever had a chance of getting it. Too many underhanded tactics and not enough...
Forum: Political Issues 08-30-2016, 02:18 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,188
Posted By FightingForFamily
In divorce, kids = money. You get the kids, you...

In divorce, kids = money. You get the kids, you get the money. No questions asked, no strings attached, no qualification needed.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2016, 12:35 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 568
Posted By FightingForFamily
My ex's parents are being enablers and financiers...

My ex's parents are being enablers and financiers of her bad behaviour but sometimes she manages on her own.

When her spousal support was going to end, she tried to start charging me the cost of...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-23-2016, 04:26 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,674
Posted By FightingForFamily
Well, she's right. If she received thousands of...

Well, she's right. If she received thousands of dollars of government benefits to which she was not entitled because the children were in a shared custody arrangement, she WILL have to repay all of...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-23-2016, 02:33 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,674
Posted By FightingForFamily
CRA makes a killing on this technicality. But it...

CRA makes a killing on this technicality. But it could be worse, these rules, even though very troublesome and error prone didn't even exist until 2011.

Prior to that, CRA did not recognize shared...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2016, 10:49 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 421
Posted By FightingForFamily
I'm just hoping he has been paying offset support...

I'm just hoping he has been paying offset support since they each have custody of one child. The amount of 475 per month sounds like offset when the OP also said they make significantly more than...
Forum: Introductions 08-23-2016, 10:46 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,755
Posted By FightingForFamily
Welcome. Sorry you had to join our sorry brigade!

Welcome. Sorry you had to join our sorry brigade!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-22-2016, 05:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 421
Posted By FightingForFamily
In a word, yes. Even if her income is lower...

In a word, yes.

Even if her income is lower she is still obligated to support her child according to whatever her income is. She has been obligated to do so all along.

Your child support amount...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-22-2016, 03:41 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,331
Posted By FightingForFamily
Your research and reasoning are sound. If you...

Your research and reasoning are sound. If you don't need the child support, take it and put it into an RESP for their future.

The judge wants to make sure that both parents are fulfilling their...
Forum: Political Issues 08-15-2016, 02:21 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,516
Posted By FightingForFamily
Being an NCP is not free. He should still have...

Being an NCP is not free. He should still have his own space in my home and some of his own things. The CSG does not allow any room in the NCP's budget for a single dollar to be spent on the child,...
Forum: Political Issues 08-12-2016, 02:16 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,516
Posted By FightingForFamily
I mentioned earlier I finished paying my spousal...

I mentioned earlier I finished paying my spousal support a few years ago, so imputing income at this point wouldn't change anything. I don't have shared custody - which was my choice at the time.
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Forum: Political Issues 08-12-2016, 10:43 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,516
Posted By FightingForFamily
Hilariously my new partner is also a support...

Hilariously my new partner is also a support PAYOR.

So as a couple despite having multiple children we get zero benefits in terms of subsidies, tax breaks, support, etc. All we do is pay and pay...
Forum: Political Issues 08-11-2016, 05:32 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,516
Posted By FightingForFamily
More amusingly, your ex was not financially...

More amusingly, your ex was not financially responsible. At least you had the freedom to leave. Were you ordered to keep paying his bills so he could continue his irresponsible spending after you...
Forum: Political Issues 08-11-2016, 05:24 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,516
Posted By FightingForFamily
When you pay a special assessment on a condo, you...

When you pay a special assessment on a condo, you still get the condo. In fact you benefit directly from the money being put into upgrading or fixing the building. It's an investment (of a sort, even...
Forum: Political Issues 08-11-2016, 12:30 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,516
Posted By FightingForFamily
Arabian: My former spouse was out of the...

Arabian: My former spouse was out of the workforce for only 2 years total, for maternity leave and stress leave. I paid full SS and CS for half the length of the marriage, which corresponded with...
Forum: Political Issues 08-10-2016, 02:29 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,516
Posted By FightingForFamily
I married someone with two university degrees who...

I married someone with two university degrees who was working for the school board and on her way to a great career as a teacher. Her salary was the same as mine or higher... until shortly before she...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2016, 12:45 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 2,476
Posted By FightingForFamily
I try to warn all my younger mid-20s coworkers...

I try to warn all my younger mid-20s coworkers about their future but no one ever listens until it's too late. Even horror stories about CAS, they don't understand that they have no protection and...
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