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Forum: Parenting Issues 10-21-2019, 01:47 PM
Replies: 14
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Posted By iona6656
She didn't want to go on friday or saturday this...

She didn't want to go on friday or saturday this week- obviously I still took her. Gave her a quick kiss and left. She's going through a bit of separation anxiety of late.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-21-2019, 01:45 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 541
Posted By iona6656
this made me laugh- but also cringe...it's kinda...

this made me laugh- but also cringe...it's kinda graphic? lol. I see what you're saying though.

If I was there- I would've strapped her in the car- even if she was crying. But according to my mom...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-18-2019, 11:26 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 541
Posted By iona6656
Yes, I know that. lol. What I was looking...

Yes, I know that. lol.

What I was looking for is actual techniques- e.g. offer incentives, wait 30 minutes and try again? Leave and let the other parent try? (e.g. remove myself from the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-18-2019, 11:14 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 597
Posted By iona6656
Is it not the case that good mediators always ask...

Is it not the case that good mediators always ask for briefs? I've never gone to a mediation without one.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 04:57 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 906
Posted By iona6656
If she had sole custody before- why would you she...

If she had sole custody before- why would you she ask? I didn't ask my ex if I could claim it. It was for 2018- D3 lived with me full time.

If your daughter lived with your ex full time for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 04:50 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 597
Posted By iona6656
I went with what my lawyer told me. He said he...

I went with what my lawyer told me. He said he never gives blanket recommendations of mediation or arbitration. It's case specific. When he first told me this- I thought "sure sure, you just don't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:44 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 906
Posted By iona6656
If your ex is doing the same thing. CRA will hold...

If your ex is doing the same thing. CRA will hold both your returns until you guys figure something out. My ex did the same thing, changed his return to try to claim the credit. Held up my return and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-16-2019, 03:11 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 541
Posted By iona6656
My situation: D3 generally likes going to...

My situation:

D3 generally likes going to her dad's place. Never has been an issue getting her to go...until today.

Today is just a bad day for her. Meltdown after meltdown. I don't think it...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-16-2019, 03:10 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 541
Posted By iona6656
What do you guys do when the child refuses to go to the other parent's home?

What do you guys do when your kid(s) is (are) having a bad day and refuses to go to the other parent's home?

I'm talking strategies to make them go.

I'm not asking about how to get them out...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 02:57 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 861
Posted By iona6656
You don't know that. You don't know her...

You don't know that. You don't know her motivations. What you know is the OPs side of the story.

Funny how you pick and choose this principle based on whether it's a dad wanting 50/50 or a mom...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-16-2019, 02:52 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,420
Posted By iona6656
what's the harm to the kids? what is he doing?

what's the harm to the kids? what is he doing?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 01:08 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 154
Posted By iona6656
Did you actually help with the downpayment on the...

Did you actually help with the downpayment on the house?

If you gave your ex $600 (I'm going to assume it's per month)- that's REALLY cheap rent.

Why are you trying to lay claim to a house you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 11:08 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 861
Posted By iona6656
You may want to consider getting some counselling...

You may want to consider getting some counselling or therapy for your anger at your ex for the abandonment issues with the kids. This is how you feel towards her- and has nothing to do with your...
Forum: General Chat 10-15-2019, 10:39 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 661
Posted By iona6656
Forum: Divorce Support 10-15-2019, 10:32 PM
Replies: 67
Views: 9,813
Posted By iona6656
I wonder if part of the tension is that your...

I wonder if part of the tension is that your partner feels and knows that you don’t like his kids. And even parents who know their kids are being idiots don’t want their children to be disliked. I...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2019, 05:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 143
Posted By iona6656
Undervalued Assets on Financial Statement

It worked for me. I took a 40k hit to get the parenting arrangement I wanted. My ex felt like he “won” when it came to money. Cause he did. But custody was the only thing that mattered to me.

And...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2019, 12:59 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 861
Posted By iona6656
Do the kids have any special need that only YOU...

Do the kids have any special need that only YOU can take care of? Was she involved in their care before?

I tried to play the "disruption to the schedule card"- and our parenting coach told me...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-15-2019, 12:55 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 358
Posted By iona6656
This feels tough. Because I remember 14. I really...

This feels tough. Because I remember 14. I really did not like my mom. We were very very different. We still are. I always joke with her that if we were the same age and in highschool- we would NOT...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-14-2019, 10:31 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 289
Posted By iona6656
Our Family Wizard. Everything goes through there.

Our Family Wizard. Everything goes through there.
Forum: General Chat 10-13-2019, 01:24 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 661
Posted By iona6656
Family law and employment law are the biggest...

Family law and employment law are the biggest mental mind game practices in law.

I think I would like it. I don’t mind the hard stuff. The problem would be your clients. I can’t imagine any other...
Forum: General Chat 10-13-2019, 01:20 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 661
Posted By iona6656
That is really cool. Would your kids know about...

That is really cool. Would your kids know about it? It’s the one thing that stops me from being more open about what I went through. I worry about my daughter ever coming across it.


I joke...
Forum: General Chat 10-09-2019, 02:45 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 661
Posted By iona6656
that reference is....weird. Since my lawyer...

that reference is....weird.

Since my lawyer isn't getting my money anymore- I decided I like him so much that I'm sending my best friend's $$$$$$$$$$$$ his way (the # of '$' is to indicate how...
Forum: General Chat 10-08-2019, 04:43 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 661
Posted By iona6656
I need a house or just a place to live for me and...

I need a house or just a place to live for me and D3. And all the other fun stuff of raising a kid.

For now- I celebrated by taking my immediate family out for a nice brunch as a thank you. And...
Forum: General Chat 10-08-2019, 04:36 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 661
Posted By iona6656
What did you do to celebrate? (once you stopped the bleeding)

I just finished paying off my last legal bill (ooff).

My lawyer is now on a limited scope retainer- and doesn't require an actual retainer.

Bleeding (re: legal cost) is officially done.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2019, 10:56 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 723
Posted By iona6656
I pull my daughter out of pre-school 1/2 days...

I pull my daughter out of pre-school 1/2 days every Wednesday for her dad's time. She actually hates it- and misses her group music lesson (and her nap. so fml). But I figure the time with her dad is...
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