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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2021, 03:17 PM
Replies: 1
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Posted By rockscan
I would think that once they turn 18 they get to...

I would think that once they turn 18 they get to decide if they want to see him. They would also get to dictate how that plays out to him. For instance they could tell him they will only see him with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2021, 10:04 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 73
Posted By rockscan
If you have a signed court order then that one is...

If you have a signed court order then that one is then one that outlines the current status. For instance if it updates to say section 7 is now 50/50 then you cant go back to a previous order where...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-24-2021, 06:18 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 436
Posted By rockscan
If the loan was incurred during the marriage then...

If the loan was incurred during the marriage then yes you are responsible for a portion. Just like you are entitled to a share of his acquisition of assets from his employment (like pensions etc.)
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Forum: Financial Issues 02-24-2021, 11:04 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 436
Posted By rockscan
Well technically you are being unreasonable....

Well technically you are being unreasonable. Mostly for the reasons in your other threads but now because he has no access to credit because a) you are refusing to sell his asset and b) he has no...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2021, 06:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 408
Posted By rockscan
He could also quit his job or work for cash and...

He could also quit his job or work for cash and you get nothing. Neither situation is right. Some money is better than no money. There was a poster on here who had an ex with an attitude of too bad...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2021, 04:12 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 436
Posted By rockscan
What would be a reasonable argument? In my...

What would be a reasonable argument? In my husbands case the judge said loans or how he paid for things had no bearing on his income and he could use credit to pay for his lifestyle choices as long...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2021, 01:12 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 436
Posted By rockscan
I dont think he has to divulge details. Just...

I dont think he has to divulge details. Just that its a loan. You could request additional disclosure but you would need to outline that you cannot fo forward with your case without it. That would...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2021, 09:48 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 436
Posted By rockscan
He can borrow money after separation. He just...

He can borrow money after separation. He just cant make you pay for it.


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Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2021, 09:50 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 408
Posted By rockscan
Technically his obligation is to his first kid...

Technically his obligation is to his first kid first. But there have been cases where a reduced amount of support is paid due to hardship. Remember he doesnt get government benefits or subsidies and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-22-2021, 09:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 143
Posted By rockscan
Jesus ten years? Yes she can get her own shit and...

Jesus ten years? Yes she can get her own shit and her lawyer can fire her lol


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-22-2021, 08:22 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 143
Posted By rockscan
You could tell them how much it will cost to send...

You could tell them how much it will cost to send it and that your lawyer wants the payment up front. Otherwise no you will not be providing anything for free.

Technically your ex should have...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2021, 08:04 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 990
Posted By rockscan
The school has nothing to do with it and he cant...

The school has nothing to do with it and he cant arbitrarily make them accommodate him.

The agreement is between the two of you not you and the school.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2021, 06:21 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 990
Posted By rockscan
Then you can respond and say the order outlines...

Then you can respond and say the order outlines the times and you will consider his request in the best interest of SON. Should he disagree with that, you will follow the agreement to the letter.

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Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2021, 05:39 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 990
Posted By rockscan
Is it an order or an agreement? One has different...

Is it an order or an agreement? One has different ways of stating over the other. When was this all signed? Has dad sent you a request or this is just the school schedule?

I ask because a response...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-19-2021, 08:20 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 990
Posted By rockscan
I doubt your ex would be successful arguing to...

I doubt your ex would be successful arguing to change custody at this point. The only way to do it would be to convince kid and from the sounds of it he has a pretty set life where you are.

This...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2021, 11:50 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 107
Posted By rockscan
TMC with uncooperative respondent

Asking for a friend who is non-custodial parent paying support. Both parties are self repped.

My friend filed a motion to change several years ago related to child support and school expenses. The...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-18-2021, 01:46 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 990
Posted By rockscan
In a perfect world parties would follow orders...

In a perfect world parties would follow orders but they dont. More than likely the grandparents got huffy about your decision on time with grandson and dad took it upon himself to flex. Im not...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-18-2021, 11:05 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 990
Posted By rockscan
Most non custodial parents who dont have any...

Most non custodial parents who dont have any contact for months and then suddenly show up have a trigger factor involved. It could be a desire to reduce child support, a refusal of parenting time,...
Forum: General Chat 02-18-2021, 11:00 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 176
Posted By rockscan
A former poster had to pay support and for set up...

A former poster had to pay support and for set up costs and his kid failed three straight years.

Add it to the list for his next appearance.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 02-17-2021, 10:06 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 990
Posted By rockscan
Your son is 14. At this age he can decide to live...

Your son is 14. At this age he can decide to live with his father if he wanted.

There may be more to this though. Has there been an event that has happened recently? Refusal for dad or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 02:48 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 567
Posted By rockscan
Your kids need some counseling. Call your local...

Your kids need some counseling. Call your local family service about free sessions.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 11:31 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 567
Posted By rockscan
Kkc what happened with the CAS investigation? Do...

Kkc what happened with the CAS investigation? Do you have a new court date for your ongoing matter? Have you spoken with a psychologist or therapist?

Cranberry, at 12 they wont have a say and a...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2021, 08:34 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
No. Sell the property if its that bad. ...

No.

Sell the property if its that bad.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-16-2021, 01:16 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 136
Posted By rockscan
My mom went through this years ago and it...

My mom went through this years ago and it involved you and your lawyer and him and his lawyer sitting down and asking questions. They will try to ask irrelevant questions but your lawyer will say no....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-15-2021, 07:02 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 511
Posted By rockscan
It doesnt mean much other than delays. A judge...

It doesnt mean much other than delays. A judge only cares what is in the docket. Sure they may see new counsel and ask about making sure they are up to speed but in the grand scheme of things you...
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