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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2020, 06:36 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 283
Posted By Berner_Faith
Itís not really that hard of math... the costs...

Itís not really that hard of math... the costs are split AFTER insurance deductions... not before. NET costs are split... not gross.

If an appointment in $300 and insurance pays 1/3, then itís...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-06-2020, 04:27 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 154
Posted By Berner_Faith
What is ďlasts long enoughĒ... I doubt she wants...

What is ďlasts long enoughĒ... I doubt she wants to take this to court as theyíve never been but at what point does a change in CS happen? I hear all the time the CS should follow the children. By...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2020, 10:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 154
Posted By Berner_Faith
Re-Calculating CS

Asking for my neighbour...

Divorced three years, separated five.

Mom has had majorly custody
Dad EOW
They only live 15 minutes apart, but separate towns

Before Covid Dad paid full CS,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-14-2020, 01:35 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 4,107
Posted By Berner_Faith
Thatís how lawyers should work... I have a friend...

Thatís how lawyers should work... I have a friend going through divorce... heís already spent $10k and basically got no where... heís scrapping by while paying for the mat home his ex is living in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-13-2020, 02:32 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 4,107
Posted By Berner_Faith
At home child care is still allowed for those who...

At home child care is still allowed for those who care for under 6 children... going to their grandparents for child care would be no different than going to a home daycare provider. Yes thousands...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2020, 03:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 558
Posted By Berner_Faith
My husband was paying full CS... he lost his job...

My husband was paying full CS... he lost his job and the kids have been coming to us on a week about basis. What him and his ex agreed on was that he would pay CS offset based on their 2019 tax...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2020, 11:36 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 650
Posted By Berner_Faith
Why not just ignore? Every time you contact the...

Why not just ignore? Every time you contact the police he knows heís getting a reaction out of you... it doesnít seem there are any real threats, heís just being a huge jerk. Let him email and simply...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2020, 04:12 PM
Replies: 56
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Views: 2,941
Posted By Berner_Faith
Sorry to say but Rockscan is right... you signed...

Sorry to say but Rockscan is right... you signed away your rights as an equal parent when you agreed to only 15% parenting time. My husband is in the same situation. Driving your kids to activities...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-04-2020, 12:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 240
Posted By Berner_Faith
If one spouse played no active role in the...

If one spouse played no active role in the business and didnít give up their career for said business I donít see anything happening other than the value being split. If the unskilled spouse gave up...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2020, 07:10 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 351
Posted By Berner_Faith
Iíd say respondent... when a judge is reading...

Iíd say respondent... when a judge is reading they wonít want to be reading ďIĒ


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Forum: General Chat 01-30-2020, 12:03 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,143
Posted By Berner_Faith
Good to know, and you always round up ...

Good to know, and you always round up


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Forum: General Chat 01-30-2020, 10:02 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,143
Posted By Berner_Faith
Most lawyers bill in 10-15 min intervals... stop...

Most lawyers bill in 10-15 min intervals... stop sending emails if they arenít absolutely necessary. Usually when people complain about over billing itís because they are sending a dozen emails and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 10:30 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 498
Posted By Berner_Faith
Thanks Janus... Iíve passed this along. I agree...

Thanks Janus... Iíve passed this along. I agree he should be able to move back in because she doesnít have exclusive possession but with being out 5 months... how would a judge see this?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 09:27 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 498
Posted By Berner_Faith
His lawyer stated because they have been living...

His lawyer stated because they have been living separate and apart for 5 months he canít move back in. They both own the house yes, but he moved out and took up residence elsewhere for the past 5...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 06:57 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 498
Posted By Berner_Faith
Well his lawyer got back to him this morning and...

Well his lawyer got back to him this morning and told him no he canít move back in as heís been out for 4-5 months... thatís actually what I figured. Just because itís the mat home doesnít give him...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2020, 08:39 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 346
Posted By Berner_Faith
What would you do if your ex wasnít around? As a...

What would you do if your ex wasnít around? As a sole custody parent you are responsible for the child. Sometimes that means changing jobs, taking a pay cut and arranging your life around your child....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2020, 08:28 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 498
Posted By Berner_Faith
Moving back into house?

Asking for a friend of a friend... and pretty sure I know the answer but...

Husband moved out of house in September as wife wanted some time to think about separating... itís been decided the...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2020, 08:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 770
Posted By Berner_Faith
It is the law and neither parent is able to sign...

It is the law and neither parent is able to sign away CS... so if this is a way to get an agreement signed and thatís the only way they will sign... well sign it with that clause and when it comes...
Forum: General Chat 01-28-2020, 07:59 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,004
Posted By Berner_Faith
If youíre making $1000 a day Iím sure you can...

If youíre making $1000 a day Iím sure you can afford to miss a day or two in order to get what you need. Iíd start with a motion for her to either sign the applications or an order stating you donít...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-27-2020, 08:31 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,654
Posted By Berner_Faith
I agree with Rockscan... you are the one creating...

I agree with Rockscan... you are the one creating the problem for your children. You go to the games knowing if you go she wonít bring them, so because of your pride your children miss out. You are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-23-2020, 09:09 PM
Replies: 56
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Views: 2,941
Posted By Berner_Faith
I donít understand why you think your ex should...

I donít understand why you think your ex should have to bend to your work schedule? You have an order that spells out what happens if youíre working afternoons. If it didnít specify make up time,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-21-2020, 09:07 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 503
Posted By Berner_Faith
It sucks I know... my step daughter is in a sport...

It sucks I know... my step daughter is in a sport that happens every Sunday and most Saturdays... on the weekends she is with us we take her as often as we can... itís a sport she does with her mom,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-21-2020, 07:05 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 503
Posted By Berner_Faith
Well seeing as nothing has been signed you really...

Well seeing as nothing has been signed you really donít have an agreement to follow but you 100% are going to piss off your kids... regardless of why dad has done this, you will be the bad one. It is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2020, 06:59 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 398
Posted By Berner_Faith
Only difference it may make is if you received...

Only difference it may make is if you received benefits based on the others income or if you filed as still married and not separated. If changing your marital status means you received money you...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 03:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 533
Posted By Berner_Faith
Again... either work out with your ex or court......

Again... either work out with your ex or court... CS and equalization are different and usually are not mixed


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