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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:52 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 928
Posted By rockscan
See if your city has a family service. They offer...

See if your city has a family service. They offer a number of different counseling type of programs and could possibly offer parenting ones as well.

If you are looking for mediation, that will...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-05-2020, 02:09 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 158
Posted By rockscan
You donít have to agree to everything. But if...

You donít have to agree to everything. But if your ex goes to work then you do pay for daycare. The good part is they are earning income and pay a portion as well.

The ex will have to get...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-05-2020, 01:54 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 158
Posted By rockscan
Day care for either of you to work is s7. ...

Day care for either of you to work is s7.

Other activities are grey. If your child was in activities before separation they may be allowed. Camp during the summer can be considered day care and...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-04-2020, 01:36 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 171
Posted By rockscan
I am sure every family doctor gives advice on...

I am sure every family doctor gives advice on additional things to do to stay healthy.

As the judge in my husbands case saidóhis doctor recommends he eat more fish and vegetables and not sit so...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-04-2020, 07:58 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 171
Posted By rockscan
Thats what child support is for. If it was...

Thats what child support is for. If it was covered by insurance then it would be reimbursed but it is not. Therefore your child support covers it.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-03-2020, 10:14 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 171
Posted By rockscan
No. Most over the counter meds are not section 7.

No. Most over the counter meds are not section 7.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-02-2020, 09:04 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 98
Posted By rockscan
Child Support / Section 7 Expenses Questions

FRO does not update income. They enforce agreements. If his income has gone up and cs needs to be updated you will need a new order. Either he agrees to a motion to change on consent or you have to...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-01-2020, 08:47 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 140
Posted By rockscan
This has been discussed in another thread and I...

This has been discussed in another thread and I believe it was Tayken who said if a judge rules against a public school they effectively say publicly funded schools are bad and that bites the hand...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-29-2020, 02:10 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 300
Posted By rockscan
He pays his lawyer to be aggressive. Remember...

He pays his lawyer to be aggressive. Remember that.

In your first sentence you said you are trying to secure counsel which the lawyer would prefer to deal with because judges donít like when self...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-29-2020, 01:41 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
Child support reduction

Thank god someone else gets it.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-29-2020, 01:39 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
Its actually in the child support guidelines....

Its actually in the child support guidelines. Your most up to date income or your line 150.


Paying support doesnít make you a good payor nor does it mean you are right. He is deciding...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-29-2020, 12:11 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
No it wasnít. And before you argue with me this...

No it wasnít. And before you argue with me this is from a judge in Ontario superior court and the guidelines. Either you use line 150 for all years or you update based on actual income. He wants to...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-29-2020, 07:47 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
You should email him and advise if he wants to...

You should email him and advise if he wants to follow his actual income he has provided then he will need to pay you the arrears owing from his actual income in 2019. Calculate that amount and show...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-28-2020, 11:02 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
When his income returns to normal he would again...

When his income returns to normal he would again have to update based on actual.

He canít switch back and forth. His income should be updated either at tax time or with actual amounts, not a...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-28-2020, 11:00 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
The problem is he is NOT paying based on $118 and...

The problem is he is NOT paying based on $118 and he NEVER paid based on that.

He used 2018 for 2019 and is now using 2020 for 2020. He never used 2019 which is why he should go back and calculate...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-28-2020, 10:37 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
Im not a lawyer. I am well versed in this because...

Im not a lawyer. I am well versed in this because my husband went through it. He lost his job and tried to update his cs. His lawyer advised he had to go back and calculate what he should have paid...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-28-2020, 10:19 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 117
Posted By rockscan
Can you take the amount you overpaid, subtract...

Can you take the amount you overpaid, subtract that from the amounts going forward and change the months the amounts start?

Like:

Option A cs is $250 monthly, you overpaid $500, therefore $250...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-28-2020, 09:04 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
Definitely send him an email outlining what he...

Definitely send him an email outlining what he owes you for 2019 based on his decision to not follow the guidelines and your original agreement and include your offer to follow the agreement for 2019...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-28-2020, 09:13 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
Then tell him no. Unless he is willing to...

Then tell him no.

Unless he is willing to pay you his underpayment for 2019 based on his actual income you want it kept the way it is and his reduced income will be used in 2021.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-27-2020, 09:43 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
Did he pay cs on the amount from last year? The...

Did he pay cs on the amount from last year? The amount in 2019?

You could also go back each year for the last three and calculate how much he owed and how much he paid and then that could also...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-27-2020, 08:33 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
But you arenít following the tables if he says he...

But you arenít following the tables if he says he canít pay it. If his income is a set amount then the table amount for one child is a set amount and that is what he owes. When your other child...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-27-2020, 08:21 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
He has to pay it. You email him the amounts going...

He has to pay it. You email him the amounts going by the tables as an official notification. That way if you decide to file for a change to set the support you have proof you asked.

Do you have an...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-27-2020, 07:57 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
Well then agree to reduce it now and refresh the...

Well then agree to reduce it now and refresh the amounts in the fall and when his income goes up. You can also reconcile the underpayment when you receive his income tax next year.

It is not...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-27-2020, 07:23 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 522
Posted By rockscan
If he has proof his income has gone down (via...

If he has proof his income has gone down (via several weeks of pay stubs and/or a letter from his employer) then adjust it to that. If he refuses to provide that then you go by his line 150 on his...
Forum: General Chat 07-27-2020, 11:29 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 145
Posted By rockscan
Janice, your case is really complicated and your...

Janice, your case is really complicated and your posts appear to demonstrate you are trying to find interpretations if the family law act and divorce act to protect yourself. You need a lawyer. Stop...
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