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Forum: Political Issues Yesterday, 04:32 PM
Replies: 2
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Posted By iona6656
Tort doesn't 'end'- it evolves. Et voila...

Tort doesn't 'end'- it evolves.

Et voila the evolution.
Forum: Domestic Violence Yesterday, 04:31 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 761
Posted By iona6656
I don't disagree with you- that's why I think...

I don't disagree with you- that's why I think this ruling is going to be scoped. There are a couple of factors in this decision- the kids have no relationship with the father. There's no...
Forum: Domestic Violence Yesterday, 04:25 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 277
Posted By iona6656
A therapist. A therapist will help you...

A therapist. A therapist will help you understand.

Cause clearly you don't get it.

Assault is not IPV. IPV is something different- it's more insidious. Seriously go google "why is domestic...
Forum: Domestic Violence Yesterday, 12:49 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 761
Posted By iona6656
I really think you're missing how IPV works- and...

I really think you're missing how IPV works- and the implications and trauma it causes. If you think there is even a thought of "how much can I get if I get one more punch to the face'- you've...
Forum: Domestic Violence Yesterday, 12:24 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 761
Posted By iona6656
How could I get that under a spousal support...

How could I get that under a spousal support claim? I was the higher income earner.

I think what you are all missing is this is not about a perceived setup for abuse- it's substantiated. Most of...
Forum: Domestic Violence Yesterday, 12:15 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 277
Posted By iona6656
Also- if you want a laugh- but in like a sad...

Also- if you want a laugh- but in like a sad you-have-to-laugh-cause-misogyny-is-scary kinda way- read the comments under the globe and mail article. The menfolk aren't having it!
Forum: Domestic Violence Yesterday, 11:40 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 277
Posted By iona6656
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/canada/article-sup...

https://www.theglobeandmail.com/canada/article-supreme-court-says-one-incident-of-family-violence-may-justify-childs/

and here is the SCC case:
...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 10:38 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 196
Posted By iona6656
I've dealt with CAS before- which city are you...

I've dealt with CAS before- which city are you in?

Don't get discouraged- there are really great case workers and supervisors in each city (from my experience). I have dealt with them both in the...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-24-2022, 05:17 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 257
Posted By iona6656
All of this sounds good. Does your...

All of this sounds good.

Does your therapist have experience dealing with women leaving abusive marriages? It's important in more ways than you realize.

One thing from my own experience is...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-24-2022, 05:05 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 761
Posted By iona6656
It is very unique in the context of family law....

It is very unique in the context of family law. To get this type of award- especially the punitive award- you would have to go through a civil case. And seeing as it is most often women who are the...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-24-2022, 04:58 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 761
Posted By iona6656
Pretty much. The financial damage caused by my...

Pretty much. The financial damage caused by my abuse is substantial. I'm not even talking about the emotional toll and the years of therapy I've gone through to deal with the PTS, and not let it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-24-2022, 10:05 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 247
Posted By iona6656
Severe atopic dermatitis- extreme eczema which is...

Severe atopic dermatitis- extreme eczema which is prone to infection - I forget the medical name- but it's called weeping eczema. It's terrible and painful for her.


Yeah- she's seen a pediatric...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-19-2022, 06:22 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 761
Posted By iona6656
There are those cases, they've been posted here...

There are those cases, they've been posted here from time to time.

And I don't think this should be in the same breath. At all. What is talked about in this ruling is damages for substantiated...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-19-2022, 06:20 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 761
Posted By iona6656
I'm going to look for the article now. This...

I'm going to look for the article now.

This is amazing. SERIOUSLY AMAZING.

When I left- I started putting together a small claims case against my ex for the absolute hell he put me through with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2022, 05:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 247
Posted By iona6656
I appreciate the sentiment- but I really don't...

I appreciate the sentiment- but I really don't care about things working in my favour. I'm really just trying to figure out how to keep her safe- and her skin cared for. She's having an extreme...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2022, 04:58 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 247
Posted By iona6656
That's what we were doing up to March- and a...

That's what we were doing up to March- and a couple of times she did come home with minor reactions and skin irritations- enough to need the prescription antihistamine and steroid ointment- but not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2022, 01:09 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 247
Posted By iona6656
Do I start trying to reduce access?

Okay- ex is an idiot. But now it's actually affecting D5

My ex has EOW and Wednesday evenings.

He has had full weekends with D5 since March.

For the last couple of months- 7 times in...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-17-2022, 12:54 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 257
Posted By iona6656
In my experience. You can't. You have to- but...

In my experience. You can't. You have to- but you're not co-parenting. You're parallel parenting if you have joint custody. And someone will give in.

This idea that you can be an abusive partner...
Forum: General Chat 05-10-2022, 02:57 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,741
Posted By iona6656
I think there has to be. I think a lot of this...

I think there has to be. I think a lot of this stems from the fact that I have a lot of decision making authority over our daughter - and at the sessions he even tried to play stupid when our PC...
Forum: General Chat 05-10-2022, 12:47 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,741
Posted By iona6656
Update- back we go

I thought I would update this thread- as I don't see a lot of discussion of the use of co-parent counsellors/parenting coordinator post-settlement.

In our final parenting agreement- we agreed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-09-2022, 05:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 751
Posted By iona6656
totally agree. Go for 50/50. Unless there is...

totally agree.

Go for 50/50. Unless there is really something wildly unique about your situation- I don't see why you shouldn't get 50/50.

Offer a VERY FAST graduated parenting schedule. Move...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2022, 03:43 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 672
Posted By iona6656
don't take the bait. ignore it. This place...

don't take the bait. ignore it.

This place is a wealth of advice and information. but it can also be off-putting if you are a victim of intimate-partner violence, in any form.

There is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2022, 01:28 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 672
Posted By iona6656
+1 additionally- make sure your separation...

+1

additionally- make sure your separation and parenting agreement is very detailed. less room for interpretation = less arguing. Also- I don't know how you all make decisions now- but with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2022, 01:25 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 672
Posted By iona6656
ignore this. all of it.

ignore this. all of it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2022, 02:12 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 371
Posted By iona6656
what about setting up a virtual visit with the...

what about setting up a virtual visit with the kids family doctor to talk about it?

it doesn't sound like she's attending FREEDOM! rallies- so, as you said, she's not vehemently anti-vax, but...
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