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Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2015, 07:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,168
Posted By cool river
What if there's a claim of undue hardship? Are...

What if there's a claim of undue hardship? Are there limits to what they can be asked to provide?
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2015, 06:22 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,168
Posted By cool river
bank statements

Let's say person A and B were married but are now divorced. Would a new spouse of person A be required to provide full financial disclosure in the event of a request for SS from the ex (person B) or...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-20-2014, 09:04 AM
Replies: 97
Views: 32,535
Posted By cool river
Your agreement needs to say the right words (to...

Your agreement needs to say the right words (to quote the movie Labyrinth), namely, that you pay child support to her and she pays child support to you, and for convenience, you pay the net...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-10-2014, 04:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,393
Posted By cool river
thanks FB for the sticky thread.

thanks FB for the sticky thread.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-10-2014, 04:12 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,393
Posted By cool river
Had to laugh at the jerk part. yeah. Thanks for...

Had to laugh at the jerk part. yeah. Thanks for the information.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-10-2014, 03:58 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,393
Posted By cool river
What would you recommend, or is there a...

What would you recommend, or is there a discussion somewhere already that would be of use?
Forum: Financial Issues 01-10-2014, 02:37 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,393
Posted By cool river
DtD, thanks. could the ex claim undue harship...

DtD, thanks.
could the ex claim undue harship or something like that? (for example, that he needs money given the now larger disparity in household income between us and the disparity in standard...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-10-2014, 02:27 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,393
Posted By cool river
spousal support and re-marriage

Would my remarriage affect the likelihood of a successful claim by my ex for spousal support (non-compensatory) from me?

Is a common law relationship treated differently (same question as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-28-2013, 08:07 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 850
Posted By cool river
remarriage/co-habitation

I am not a payor of spousal support but ex has "reserved right" to claim in the future. A spousal support claim would likely be compensatory and non-compensatory. I pay child support to ex.

I am...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-24-2013, 10:51 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,250
Posted By cool river
Finally heard from the appeals division of CRA...

Finally heard from the appeals division of CRA and wanted to share with everyone. The person there wouldn't put it in writing. I've written to the Minister to complain because I can't get it in...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-02-2013, 10:19 AM
Replies: 97
Views: 32,535
Posted By cool river
OK that helps. So you're saying NOT making it...

OK that helps. So you're saying NOT making it subordinate would cause them to read it as though parent A is the "payor" (regardless of any previous words in that paragraph) according to their...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-02-2013, 10:00 AM
Replies: 97
Views: 32,535
Posted By cool river
reading the first post in this thread does not...

reading the first post in this thread does not answer my question. Why do you say it needs to be subordinate (or not mentioned at all Billm)?

I'm asking because i'm working on language for my...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-02-2013, 09:54 AM
Replies: 97
Views: 32,535
Posted By cool river
Thanks, Mess, for the clarification, but now...

Thanks, Mess, for the clarification, but now we're back to my original question, in a different form: why does the second clause need to be clearly subordinate? Is this recommendation based on...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-02-2013, 09:37 AM
Replies: 97
Views: 32,535
Posted By cool river
You'll have to point me to those posts because as...

You'll have to point me to those posts because as far as I know I've been through them all and haven't noticed an explanation for this particular point (i.e., why you shouldn't actually write down...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-02-2013, 06:36 AM
Replies: 97
Views: 32,535
Posted By cool river
[It should NOT say that for convenience Parent A...

[It should NOT say that for convenience Parent A pays Parent B X Amount instead]

Why not? is this just your opinion? Is it based on experience?
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-31-2012, 03:37 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 938
Posted By cool river
MiViLaLoco--interesting. might work. ...

MiViLaLoco--interesting. might work.

Others--how would you do this sort of thing if some of the issues that could quite rightly be resolved this way (but haven't been because the other parent is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2012, 02:54 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,209
Posted By cool river
Hi Hammerdad--right. Yes, I'm likely stuck if...

Hi Hammerdad--right. Yes, I'm likely stuck if they say no (unless we're going to court about ability to co-parent, anyway), but at least now I have a good idea of what kind of ground I'm standing on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2012, 02:42 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,209
Posted By cool river
Tayken--thanks. good answer.

Tayken--thanks. good answer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2012, 02:41 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,209
Posted By cool river
Hammerdad--thanks. yes that makes sense to me. ...

Hammerdad--thanks. yes that makes sense to me.

Orleanslawyer--If it's a work trip I do not have the discretion to decline to be away from my children, so it's not as though we can default to me...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2012, 01:57 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,209
Posted By cool river
The schedule is pretty much dictated--certain...

The schedule is pretty much dictated--certain days of the week allocated to each parent. Rotating holidays etc. Equal custody. I'm not sure I understand your last sentence. Could you explain it again?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2012, 12:59 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,209
Posted By cool river
make-up time

Our court order is silent on make-up time. Can make-up time be an expected part of discussions when parents are making arrangements for changes to the normal custody schedule? Or is it discretionary,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2012, 07:42 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,236
Posted By cool river
Thank you arabian. Food for thought.

Thank you arabian. Food for thought.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2012, 12:52 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,236
Posted By cool river
Thank you to everyone for advice and book ideas. ...

Thank you to everyone for advice and book ideas.

Tayken, so what you're saying is that I can have all correspondence come directly to me and then practice/get advice from here on assessing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2012, 09:20 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,236
Posted By cool river
high conflict self represented ex

Does anyone have general advice for how best to deal with a high conflict self represented ex?

"provision for costs" is apparently not common in my jurisdiction.

Tayken, WD, Do you think a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-28-2012, 07:39 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 964
Posted By cool river
I complained about the lawyer regarding my last...

I complained about the lawyer regarding my last bill, which I nevertheless paid in full. He's surely upset about me complaining. The docs he's kept are hundreds of pages long (2 of them). He might...
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