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Forum: Financial Issues 08-03-2012, 03:28 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,083
Posted By KayD
No blame. We are responsible for our own...

No blame. We are responsible for our own actions, no one else's. You cannot change how others treat you but you can change how you react to the treatment.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-03-2012, 03:26 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,083
Posted By KayD
Also, we all make decisions with the info we have...

Also, we all make decisions with the info we have at the time. That does not mean we make good decisions all the time. Often these decisions reveal themselves to be "not so good ones" or "mistakes"...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-03-2012, 03:17 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,083
Posted By KayD
Hang on Tayken... no one said anything about...

Hang on Tayken... no one said anything about labeling a person or kids...
I'm referring to his actions that led him down this road. Everyone makes mistakes in relationships, regardless if they turn...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-03-2012, 02:51 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,083
Posted By KayD
Take Mark's advice. Consider your $24K 3yrs of...

Take Mark's advice. Consider your $24K 3yrs of very cheap rent and move on. What kind of debt (credit cards, loans) are we talking about here? If you can make a clean break by giving her $5K to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-03-2012, 12:38 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 2,829
Posted By KayD
Wasn't aware of that. My Ontario family court...

Wasn't aware of that. My Ontario family court lawyer asked for letters (medical, counselor, neighbour) and submitted them with the documents. Judge referred to them so I'm assuming they were read. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-03-2012, 12:27 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 3,083
Posted By KayD
Re: Assets & Debts My advice.... avoid...

Re: Assets & Debts

My advice.... avoid court like the plague. If this gets stretched out for even 2 years, you're looking at at least $20K in legal fees, if not more.
Make a spreadsheet of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-03-2012, 11:56 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 2,829
Posted By KayD
Hi dad2bandm, As a mom, I do sympathize with...

Hi dad2bandm,

As a mom, I do sympathize with the anxiety felt by moms when kids are ill/infected. However, there is a better and more logical way to deal with these issues rather than not letting...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2012, 07:07 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,742
Posted By KayD
Good point. My frustration is with the system,...

Good point. My frustration is with the system, specifically at the legal level. It is run by people who, I believe, have never experienced an abusive situation and, therefore, have little...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2012, 01:57 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,816
Posted By KayD
Tayken, not sure how to quote here. Still...

Tayken, not sure how to quote here. Still learning. But wanted to address your post. Hope this works.

"Abuse is a two-way street in the statistics of "intimate partner abuse"."

Agreed. The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2012, 12:24 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 3,816
Posted By KayD
I agree that child abduction is not the way to...

I agree that child abduction is not the way to go. Regarding the temper thing I will tell you from experience, an abuser will explode at any type of resistance, no matter how small. I learned this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2012, 12:12 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,980
Posted By KayD
Thanks blink. I didn't know that. I come from a...

Thanks blink. I didn't know that. I come from a culture where paying for university education is wholly the parents' responsibility. Kids are not expected to chip in unless they want to. It's a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-26-2012, 12:01 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,377
Posted By KayD
Nadia, good for you for ignoring the dips*its...

Nadia, good for you for ignoring the dips*its here. Court orders are there for a reason and they are meant to be followed. I know a few people who believe that it is "easier to ask forgiveness than...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2012, 11:15 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,742
Posted By KayD
Congratulations! I am so happy that a great dad...

Congratulations! I am so happy that a great dad got his kids into a safe situation. I only wish my ex made it as easy but he's smart enough to keep his temper behind closed doors. He perpetrated...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2012, 10:58 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,980
Posted By KayD
If kids are going to college then you will both...

If kids are going to college then you will both pay tuition, split proportionately, him 80%, you 20%, unless the kids are getting OSAP or have set up education funds.
I imagine it might look very...
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