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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2019, 01:30 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 234
Posted By tunnelight
A complain about the law itself or about a judge?...

A complain about the law itself or about a judge?

Can also file complain about lawyers, mediators, parenting coordinators, custody assessors, family responsibility office, etc.

Depends what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2019, 01:21 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 132
Posted By tunnelight
You have to file a response. In your response you...

You have to file a response. In your response you ask for his motion to be dismissed.

In order to have it dismissed, you will have to challenge that there has not been a material change in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-27-2019, 01:09 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 623
Posted By tunnelight
Depends when you bought the house. Was it before...

Depends when you bought the house. Was it before you guys were common law? If yes, then he is entitled to net difference of the house worth from when he moved in to present day.

If it was after,...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-26-2019, 02:40 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,541
Posted By tunnelight
I find that assumption/stereotype way out of...

I find that assumption/stereotype way out of place and rather hilarious and completely uncalled for because the father in question here did not get fired from his job. He quadrupled his salary to...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-26-2019, 01:51 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,541
Posted By tunnelight
Getting fired from his job is not a material...

Getting fired from his job is not a material change in circumstances effecting access. It's a material change in circumstances effecting child support - imputed income to be precise.

For those who...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-26-2019, 01:42 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 904
Posted By tunnelight
Parents who view or approach any form of...

Parents who view or approach any form of counselling, mediation, parenting coordination as a weapon in their court disputes are not reasonable.

It's like going to a doctor crying stress to get a...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-25-2019, 01:47 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,541
Posted By tunnelight
1. If there is no material change, then yes,...

1. If there is no material change, then yes, status quo is huge and takes priority.

2. Once a material change in circumstances has taken place, status quo is history.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2019, 12:24 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 490
Posted By tunnelight
He can't do that as it is a major decision. Yes,...

He can't do that as it is a major decision. Yes, you can get updates as a custodial parent.

Good on you for being the "kind and sweet" type of girl here and only seeking updates if he does make...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-25-2019, 02:39 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,541
Posted By tunnelight
You can't argue "status quo" once a material...

You can't argue "status quo" once a material change in circumstances has taken place.
Forum: Political Issues 08-25-2019, 02:19 AM
Replies: 89
Views: 22,194
Posted By tunnelight
Ex buys car under boyfriends name. Problem solved.

Ex buys car under boyfriends name. Problem solved.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-24-2019, 05:55 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 490
Posted By tunnelight
I wouldn't write essay like clauses. Keep it...

I wouldn't write essay like clauses. Keep it simple.

Standard clause to add to such an order would be:

mother will have meaningful consultation with father prior to making any major decisions....
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-24-2019, 05:26 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 904
Posted By tunnelight
I'm not sure what it is you are trying to do or...

I'm not sure what it is you are trying to do or get accomplished here then.

It's good that you want to be mature and take high road though I'll give you that! I don't tend to play nice when my...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-24-2019, 01:55 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 904
Posted By tunnelight
I thought you were being fully denied. Choose a...

I thought you were being fully denied. Choose a time and demand it as make up time.If she hasn't given you makeup time after say 6 months pick a day and say you're keeping the child for makeup time...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-24-2019, 01:34 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 545
Posted By tunnelight
Don't do something stupid and childish like...

Don't do something stupid and childish like changing the locks. If that ever happened to me I would turn around and bring over a lock Smith and claim I lost my keys. LOL.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-24-2019, 01:16 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 540
Posted By tunnelight
This is none of their business. Instead of...

This is none of their business. Instead of focusing on this, the focus should be on compromising and reaching a settlement. Also on focusing on winning/defending the case.


But for 5 bux... go...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-24-2019, 04:04 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,017
Posted By tunnelight
LOP - The issue of material change was very...

LOP - The issue of material change was very prevelant from your original post which indicates the child has developed into their adolescence years and expressed a preference to spend more time with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2019, 08:30 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,017
Posted By tunnelight
This where I suggest bowing down to her commands...

This where I suggest bowing down to her commands and hiring a lawyer.

Have the lawyer first send her a letter requesting the increase of parenting time, and asking for a response from her within...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2019, 01:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 183
Posted By tunnelight
With respect to collab vs regular law. They are...

With respect to collab vs regular law. They are both adhering to children reform act and divorce law.

Collab lawyers are still lawyers from the very same law schools and can still go to court. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2019, 12:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 183
Posted By tunnelight
Let me be the one to tell you divorce, especially...

Let me be the one to tell you divorce, especially when kids involved, is one of the worst things that your family can go through in life. I don't envy you for being stressed.

Courts are slow,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2019, 11:45 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,017
Posted By tunnelight
Happy to hear that I was of assistance to you. I...

Happy to hear that I was of assistance to you. I wish you well. :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-23-2019, 03:57 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,017
Posted By tunnelight
I wouldn't call it typical. It's become far less...

I wouldn't call it typical. It's become far less common than in the past.


This question will cross every child's mind at some point in their life. Child's concern with their arrangement of time...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-19-2019, 01:41 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 904
Posted By tunnelight
It will just delay things and serve as a way for...

It will just delay things and serve as a way for her to fish excuses from you to use against you. Don't waste your time with her non sense. It's simply a contempt and enforcement of a court order at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 11:58 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 711
Posted By tunnelight
Yeah I'm not very good in child support matters....

Yeah I'm not very good in child support matters. I mean otherwise I wouldn't be legitimately paying no child support right now :/ That's why you should ignore what I said and move forward with...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-15-2019, 11:42 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,541
Posted By tunnelight
A material change in circumstances can still take...

A material change in circumstances can still take place following a consent order.

Foot note:

You are right, OP should just continue being nice. Being nice to his ex will give him what he...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-15-2019, 10:05 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 456
Posted By tunnelight
By doing the same thing he's doing and going to...

By doing the same thing he's doing and going to therapy.

When my ex was trying to use alleged fears to withhold access, after I had done EVERYTHING the ex had asked of me, the judge accused her to...
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