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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 03:30 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 79
Posted By Janus
To be honest, if my ex wanted to keep the kids...

To be honest, if my ex wanted to keep the kids away from school I would have responded in the exact same way.



Why on earth should she CC you on emails? If you have any concerns, approach...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 03:22 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 482
Posted By Janus
To the contrary, my ex renenged on pretty much...

To the contrary, my ex renenged on pretty much 100% of the verbal agreements we reached while negotiating our separation agreement.

I learned quickly that words were nice, but not to take anything...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-10-2020, 10:36 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 482
Posted By Janus
Nothing is signed. Both of you are alive. The...

Nothing is signed. Both of you are alive. The issues are contemporaneous with the dispute. The judge is not going to enforce an unsigned agreement here. It is just not going to happen.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-10-2020, 10:31 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 163
Posted By Janus
If she is enrolling the child in daycare for...

If she is enrolling the child in daycare for employment purposes, then I imagine you will have to pay your proportionate share.

The kid is still young. Maybe try to switch your custodial...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-10-2020, 10:28 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 363
Posted By Janus
What would you have done if the mother had died...

What would you have done if the mother had died the day you separated. Would you have been able to take custody then? How was separation different than death?



I never said you were.

I...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2020, 03:20 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 363
Posted By Janus
Nope, incorrect. 1) Parents do not have...

Nope, incorrect.

1) Parents do not have rights, only obligations

2) More importantly, the court is unconcerned with the welfare of non-custodial parents, not necessarily just fathers



...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-08-2020, 02:50 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 482
Posted By Janus
You negotiate. If you come to agreement, you...

You negotiate.

If you come to agreement, you sign the agreement, everybody goes home happy.

If you do not come to an agreement, nobody signs anything, and a judge makes a decision.

I don't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-08-2020, 02:44 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 203
Posted By Janus
You believe that opposing counsel lied. That is...

You believe that opposing counsel lied. That is not even remotely the same thing as "opposing counsel lied"



You lost the motion. The judge clearly did not believe that they were lies. It is...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2020, 02:26 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 363
Posted By Janus
I'll go through each part of the scenario: ...

I'll go through each part of the scenario:



S7 expenses are split proportional to income. If the mother does not have an adequate income, father can get income imputed. That said, since...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-07-2020, 12:15 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 363
Posted By Janus
Section 7 expenses are extraordinary, not...

Section 7 expenses are extraordinary, not extracurricular.

Swimming lesson are not extraordinary, so they would be covered by child support. Olympic training is extraordinary, and as such would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-07-2020, 12:13 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,022
Posted By Janus
A parent might reasonably feel that time with...

A parent might reasonably feel that time with both parents is in the best interests of the child. Any means required to get to that point would be reasonable, especially if the best interests of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-07-2020, 12:07 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 482
Posted By Janus
Well, obviously yes :) I was not trying to...

Well, obviously yes :)

I was not trying to be tricky, it was more of a format decision to illustrate my point.

If you freely sign something with independent legal advice, it is binding. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2020, 04:31 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 482
Posted By Janus
Well, one of the parties to the verbal settlement...

Well, one of the parties to the verbal settlement died.

Unless you are divorcing a corpsicle, you may find this precedent tricky to use.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-01-2020, 02:53 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 840
Posted By Janus
Would having my child in front of me reduce my...

Would having my child in front of me reduce my risk? I wish I had known that, I would have totally done that the other day when we went to the park.



A rule that was so blindingly stupid that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2020, 02:45 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 261
Posted By Janus
Extremely unlikely What on earth does...

Extremely unlikely



What on earth does "extended" mean? Do you have medical documentation that explicitly states the maximum allowable number of driving minutes?

Assuming you have that...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-01-2020, 02:31 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 146
Posted By Janus
You are asking a judge to force your ex to pay...

You are asking a judge to force your ex to pay tens of thousands of dollars for something that is otherwise free. You are going to need a reason that is much better than "I feel it would be...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-01-2020, 12:10 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 146
Posted By Janus
Do you know who teaches at private schools? The...

Do you know who teaches at private schools? The teachers who could not get a job at a public school.

I've never understood why people will pay so much money for private school.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-31-2020, 02:17 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 482
Posted By Janus
I'm not really sure what happened here. My guess...

I'm not really sure what happened here. My guess is that your lawyer made a deal with opposing counsel. It will make him look bad if you renege, so he does not want that. You of course can fire...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-30-2020, 12:12 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 840
Posted By Janus
If your region is in stage 3, you can most...

If your region is in stage 3, you can most definitely take your kids to McDonald's.



Most school opening models have kids staying with their classes, so we are talking about at most 30 people...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-30-2020, 10:57 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 840
Posted By Janus
There are two types of helicoptering: 1)...

There are two types of helicoptering:

1) Snowplow: Parent clears a path so that their child faces no resistance in life. Teachers, job interviewers, coaches, etc. are all proper targets for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2020, 11:46 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 266
Posted By Janus
Unfair with shared parenting or unfair in general?

Unfair with shared parenting or unfair in general?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2020, 11:43 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 118
Posted By Janus
Do you have a link to this "friendly parent"...

Do you have a link to this "friendly parent" rule?
Forum: Financial Issues 07-29-2020, 11:41 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 309
Posted By Janus
Why on earth would you not want to file with FRO?

Why on earth would you not want to file with FRO?
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-29-2020, 11:39 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 840
Posted By Janus
For those who don't know, that number comes from...

For those who don't know, that number comes from the following:

8000 kids have had confirmed covid in Canada.
1 has died.

First issue: The sample size is insanely small. If the rate was 1 in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-26-2020, 09:51 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 840
Posted By Janus
Are you worried about yourself or are you worried...

Are you worried about yourself or are you worried about your kids?
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