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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-08-2016, 09:03 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,800
Posted By hdc1894
Well, the plot thickens. She seems unwilling to...

Well, the plot thickens. She seems unwilling to budge on this. Wants to involve a neutral third party of some sort to meet with our son to get at what he wants. Says it is all about me being the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-06-2016, 01:21 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,800
Posted By hdc1894
Amazing responses by all. I have talked to him...

Amazing responses by all. I have talked to him and he indicated that the would prefer fewer switches in an every other week scenario with lots of flexibility. Go figure. When I shared this with his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2016, 05:52 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,800
Posted By hdc1894
Here is tough one, so chime in here. I am trying...

Here is tough one, so chime in here. I am trying really hard not to put him in the middle on this. How do I ask him this question without doing that?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2016, 01:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,800
Posted By hdc1894
Well, it got a lot worse than I thought.... Parenting schedule

Hi All,

Incredible what can happen in 3 months. Posted on here a few times. Really had some hope that we could work this out ourselves, that failed. Mow mediation session one and that is very...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-11-2016, 01:02 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 927
Posted By hdc1894
Change in income question

Hi,
I think I have a good understanding of what my ex has to prove if my income goes up post-separation for her to get an increase in spousal support (she has to prove that any increase is a result...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2016, 12:18 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,062
Posted By hdc1894
Family lawyer in St.Catharines/Hamilton?

Can anyone please provide me with a referral for a Divorve lawyer in the Hamilton Niagara area? My situation is 17 year marriage and we are a long way apart on spousal support (surprise!). Not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2016, 09:13 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 957
Posted By hdc1894
Search Canlii. It will take you to the Canadian...

Search Canlii. It will take you to the Canadian law library where you can search for cases.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2016, 10:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,043
Posted By hdc1894
Thanks links, just what I needed to hear.

Thanks links, just what I needed to hear.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2016, 08:54 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,043
Posted By hdc1894
Despicable Threats. How to respond?

I have couple of posts in here but a bit of a background. Really finding out what kind of person I am married to now. I am a man who had a pretty troubled childhood but managed to weather pretty...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-25-2016, 10:01 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,010
Posted By hdc1894
How to prove those things Links?

Thanks for all tips. I am curious about your comments Links. I think I know what I would need to pull together but what would it really look like to prove that she didn't suffer economically as a...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-25-2016, 01:45 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,010
Posted By hdc1894
Income split

Well, the way I see it is this.

My net monthly is 5480. There is an annual bonus with a three year average of 16 k. Annual gross salary is 118000. SS annual deductions put me with an 8500 tax...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-25-2016, 11:54 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,010
Posted By hdc1894
Thanks Arabian. Did your SS continue...

Thanks Arabian. Did your SS continue indefinitely? What made you personally decide what you should accept and for how long? Also, how was the imputed income decided upon?
Forum: Financial Issues 03-25-2016, 10:54 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,010
Posted By hdc1894
All over the place!

Well, for those of you who have read my posts, you will think I am schizophrenic! In latest discussions with my stbx she is really mad and not really to negotiate past what a lawyers has told her she...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-22-2016, 09:33 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,663
Posted By hdc1894
Length of spousal support

Hi, thanks again. I took the middle of the road on negative contingency discounting but could be wrong. One other thing i got from that is one spouse does not have to agree that lump sum is the best...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-22-2016, 09:18 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,663
Posted By hdc1894
Thanks all. This is certainly proving to be a...

Thanks all. This is certainly proving to be a very complicated issue. I have attached here a link I found that discusses lump sum spousal support and how they are discounted. STBX (very liberating to...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-19-2016, 02:22 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,663
Posted By hdc1894
Opinions on lump sum SS Proposal

Hi,
I am negotiating with my spouse on how to proceed with SS. Her situation is that her current situation is around 40K a year. She just recently completed her masters whose average salary in Ont...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-11-2016, 07:17 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,242
Posted By hdc1894
For sure this is shocking for her and she is...

For sure this is shocking for her and she is scared, angry, sad and the whole bunch so she is striking back. I think she will need support in the beginning but she has all the making of being self...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-11-2016, 01:46 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,242
Posted By hdc1894
Orleans, Thanks for reply. From what you say a...

Orleans, Thanks for reply. From what you say a large income difference pretty much ensures SS. It's 70K difference right now but should be more like 50K.

How does number of years of no job or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-11-2016, 12:28 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,242
Posted By hdc1894
Thanks links

A few points of clarification.

She took 16 months to do accelerated masters. Last 4 months off totally for a field placement.she would argue she has given up huge for our kid but I am very...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2016, 11:22 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,242
Posted By hdc1894
Entitlement

Well, everyone warned me and things are getting a bit heated now to say the least. Lots of talk about lawyering up and i am an SOB, etc. So, my questions surround what is fair regarding SS. I know...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2016, 11:57 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,023
Posted By hdc1894
Divorcing with a Teenager

I am curious about those of you who divorced when your kid(s) were teenagers how did they handle it. Our kid has witness many many fights over the years. He is n't stupid and sometimes I feel like he...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2016, 04:21 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,943
Posted By hdc1894
Again, thanks to all as I am just starting out on...

Again, thanks to all as I am just starting out on this. If we split custody I am fully expecting to pay child support based on the income differences. comments here confirm that thank you. I am not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2016, 02:10 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,943
Posted By hdc1894
This will be one of my many challnges in this...

This will be one of my many challnges in this process I am sure. Trying to be "fair" as I don't really need her money for anything. If she covers expenses while he is with her that is good enough for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2016, 01:56 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,943
Posted By hdc1894
Thanks for the reply Beach. By my calculations,...

Thanks for the reply Beach. By my calculations, the SS i would have to pay would offset CS amount she would have to pay in that situation. If she stays in town, we will have one week her and then one...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2016, 01:39 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,943
Posted By hdc1894
Thanks to all. Our incomes are different because...

Thanks to all. Our incomes are different because totally different lines of work. She makes approx 55-60k. She just finished school and is starting a new job so not exact numbers as she has 2...
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