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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-25-2021, 12:52 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,916
Posted By Alpinist
Through the years my ex has tried and tried,...

Through the years my ex has tried and tried, different ways in order to avoid having to pay me the offset amount of child support. I don't think he feels the offset amount is fair. He tried to not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-25-2021, 11:24 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,916
Posted By Alpinist
When we were working through the agreement...

When we were working through the agreement before, my ex, self represented would reply to my lawyers emails, but also he would CC myself in the response. My lawyer would immediately respond to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2021, 03:12 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,916
Posted By Alpinist
I guess I just feel like if he comes back wanting...

I guess I just feel like if he comes back wanting to change something we've already discussed, agreed upon and updated, whilst I was paying my lawyer and he agreed to preliminarily while he self...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2021, 02:20 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,916
Posted By Alpinist
Thanks rockscan. I knew you would understand. So...

Thanks rockscan. I knew you would understand. So yes what happens is he sends his changes usually (the self represented changes) and immediately my lawyer looks over everything via email and then...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2021, 09:45 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,916
Posted By Alpinist
So I'm here now. I make 45000 per year. Ex makes...

So I'm here now. I make 45000 per year. Ex makes 160,000. We've worked it out and he's started now paying me an offset amount of child support for our children. I had to fight him on this and he only...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-04-2021, 07:50 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 567
Posted By Alpinist
It may be possible with a court order if you are...

It may be possible with a court order if you are divorced to keep your ex on your benefit plan. You'd have to confirm with the insurance provider.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-01-2021, 09:37 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,199
Posted By Alpinist
I agree, act today. My partner was in this...

I agree, act today. My partner was in this position. Now is the time before they end up at that school, at which point it gets considerably harder. Are the children in elementary school?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2021, 07:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,199
Posted By Alpinist
100 percent what arbortrail wrote. I was in this...

100 percent what arbortrail wrote. I was in this scenario with my partners step children. My partner did not act quick enough and ended up with every other weekend custody with the ex in another...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-27-2021, 03:58 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,722
Posted By Alpinist
My kids are older and we do a 5225 schedule. I...

My kids are older and we do a 5225 schedule. I would prefer week on, week off, however my ex seems very opposed to this. I find the same as you, that the kids are crankier on the transition day. This...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-06-2021, 08:04 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 945
Posted By Alpinist
I'm almost there with the wording for everything....

I'm almost there with the wording for everything. I think it will be a lot nicer to have a set holiday schedule to avoid conflict and make for easier planning.

For winter school break.. We've had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2021, 09:45 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 945
Posted By Alpinist
Yes that is exactly it. I need it spelled out,...

Yes that is exactly it. I need it spelled out, and I need it spelled out well. What happens when it's left to us is we leave it to the last minute then have to text back and forth in what feels like...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-04-2021, 08:53 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 945
Posted By Alpinist
Having some major problems with holiday...

Having some major problems with holiday scheduling and hoping from some insight and advice from others on what works.

My ex and I had our separation agreement drafted 2015. Our agreement is...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-02-2021, 07:12 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,324
Posted By Alpinist
Great advice from the others. My advice, go to...

Great advice from the others.
My advice, go to the bank and take a financial snapshot of any joint accounts you have, freeze any if you can. I know it's hard to think of things like this early on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-30-2021, 07:02 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 925
Posted By Alpinist
I see alienation, scare and intimidation tactics...

I see alienation, scare and intimidation tactics at the very least. He is trying to convince himself, his children and possibly a judge of his exceptional parenting skills however it comes across as...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-22-2021, 10:16 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,422
Posted By Alpinist
Your ex makes $500,000 per year and the kids have...

Your ex makes $500,000 per year and the kids have $200,000 per year in section 7 expenses that you split 50/50?! Something doesn't add up? Why don't you counter you want section 7 split according to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-09-2021, 07:15 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 566
Posted By Alpinist
When you amend the agreement its only the items...

When you amend the agreement its only the items removed or changed that are 'updated' and anything not changed from the original agreement would then still be in effect as far as I know. (correct me...
Forum: General Chat 05-27-2021, 08:01 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,546
Posted By Alpinist
I don't think by any means you would be obliged...

I don't think by any means you would be obliged to be involved in the arrangements however if you feel it's the right thing to do, I don't see any problem with that. If you are wanting to do it, why...
Forum: Reference 05-24-2021, 01:37 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 24,832
Posted By Alpinist
My partner is working through postsecondary...

My partner is working through postsecondary wording as well right now. His ex has made $20,000 per year for 3 out of the past 4 years. She seems to bounce around job wise and avoid working. She just...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-07-2021, 08:18 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,340
Posted By Alpinist
Is your daughter requesting her step mother adopt...

Is your daughter requesting her step mother adopt her?
Forum: Reference 04-12-2021, 01:22 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 24,832
Posted By Alpinist
Great - that is very helpful, thank you!

Great - that is very helpful, thank you!
Forum: Reference 04-12-2021, 12:53 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 24,832
Posted By Alpinist
Question, if the child is living with the...

Question, if the child is living with the parent(s) while attending a postsecondary school for studies, is it still 1/3, 1/3, 1/3? Or does this change because there is now child support and less fees...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-10-2021, 11:59 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 716
Posted By Alpinist
I've been using Google Hangouts for years to keep...

I've been using Google Hangouts for years to keep touch with my kids. It's super easy for me and for them. You can share photos on there and it works like texting, for free.
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-22-2021, 02:32 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,887
Posted By Alpinist
On the topic of grooming.. Has anyone heard of...

On the topic of grooming.. Has anyone heard of using extreme veganism or vegetarianism against the 'meat eating household'?
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-21-2021, 01:45 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,887
Posted By Alpinist
Could you sit down and have a talk with your son...

Could you sit down and have a talk with your son and ask him what kind of schedule he thinks would work well, and try it out for a few weeks? It seems like you are wanting something more set in stone...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2021, 11:46 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 2,887
Posted By Alpinist
I agree with rockscan. And kids are perceptive,...

I agree with rockscan. And kids are perceptive, you've been there for your son and taken good care of him and been a very involved, loving and supportive parent. In the end I think it comes down to...
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