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Forum: Political Issues 02-16-2020, 07:57 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,950
Posted By Stillbreathing
Tayken I quoted my lawyer not a research study. ...

Tayken I quoted my lawyer not a research study. You are missing the point which is there are exponentially more instances of false allegations than there are legitimate ones (whether 95 to 5 or 99...
Forum: Political Issues 02-15-2020, 07:04 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,950
Posted By Stillbreathing
My lawyer told me that only 5% of cases that make...

My lawyer told me that only 5% of cases that make it to family court are actually cases involving real and potentially deadly domestic violence. She also said because these cases are so few, the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2020, 01:41 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 266
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you have the evidence you can ask for sole...

If you have the evidence you can ask for sole custody and decision making in all areas then argue why this is the only solution left. You have to prove you have tried everything else. Contempt is...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-11-2020, 09:17 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,144
Posted By Stillbreathing
In some cases the above makes sense. My ex only...

In some cases the above makes sense. My ex only ever had supervised access due to his history of violence towards the kids and severe brain damage. He had absolutely no insight whatsoever in any way,...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-10-2020, 08:49 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 532
Posted By Stillbreathing
You are absolutely right to feel pissed off....

You are absolutely right to feel pissed off. Family court has a tendency to allow bad behaviour without much in the way of consequences. If your matter ends up going to trial you can ask for costs...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2020, 12:15 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 532
Posted By Stillbreathing
She can say no she does not want you to buy her...

She can say no she does not want you to buy her out as the above poster said. Then the house goes up for sale on the open market and you can put in an offer to purchase. Since the home currently also...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2020, 11:58 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 382
Posted By Stillbreathing
Change your email account!!!!! Your business...

Change your email account!!!!! Your business customers will just have to understand. Your sanity, health and safety are worth the inconvenience of changing your email address. I hope he doesnít know...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2020, 04:28 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 581
Posted By Stillbreathing
Warn her of the worst case scenario. Follow court...

Warn her of the worst case scenario. Follow court orders to the best of your ability. Be reasonable and make reasonable offers to settle. Try to move on with your life and seek supports when needed....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2020, 02:59 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 581
Posted By Stillbreathing
Stalling in court is extremely simple for an...

Stalling in court is extremely simple for an unreasonable party to do. A judge will give them chance after chance after chance to adjourn and then to comply with orders. Judges are in short supply...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2020, 11:50 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 581
Posted By Stillbreathing
One thing you have to keep in mind, if all the...

One thing you have to keep in mind, if all the abuse allegations you mention are true, is that separating and divorcing will escalate the abuse exponentially. One of the most dangerous times for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2020, 09:29 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 581
Posted By Stillbreathing
My STBX ( soon to be ex) has dragged things out...

My STBX ( soon to be ex) has dragged things out for the better part of a decade so far. It has cost me over $300,000 in legal fees. In all that time and with all the bad faith behaviour my ex has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-24-2020, 07:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 231
Posted By Stillbreathing
Your ex lawyer or your exís lawyer?

Your ex lawyer or your exís lawyer?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 03:16 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 293
Posted By Stillbreathing
First you need to consider yourself lucky that...

First you need to consider yourself lucky that you only litigated for 3 years! Iíve been at it for over 8 years with no end in sight due to an unreasonable ex. Donít get too excited about financial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2020, 08:15 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 746
Posted By Stillbreathing
Read the above post again then read it once more....

Read the above post again then read it once more. Refuse to participate in any more than one settlement conference and put your foot down. Case conferences and settlement conferences will be never...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2020, 08:39 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 336
Posted By Stillbreathing
Unfortunately the other side can call whoever...

Unfortunately the other side can call whoever they want whether applicable or not such as the neighbors, real estate agents, aunts, uncles, paperboy, etc . This can drive up the costs
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2020, 11:45 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 648
Posted By Stillbreathing
You should speak to a family lawyer in your area....

You should speak to a family lawyer in your area. They can look at your case and give you a much better idea of where things stand for you and are likely to go. They can look at any evidence you have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-07-2020, 11:56 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 525
Posted By Stillbreathing
Med/Arb is not necessarily faster than going to...

Med/Arb is not necessarily faster than going to trial. In theory itís supposed to be over and done in a matter of months. My STBX and I have been litigating for more than 8 years now. We have been...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-01-2020, 03:17 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,548
Posted By Stillbreathing
Update. Mediation was stalled in August ( no...

Update. Mediation was stalled in August ( no surprise there). They said they needed more time for an expert forensic accountant to prepare a report about his financials. After two months I had my...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-29-2019, 01:40 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 527
Posted By Stillbreathing
What I did when I was self rep and needed an...

What I did when I was self rep and needed an urgent motion for a financial matter, is I went to the court, spoke to the ladies at the trial co-ordinators office and they gave me a court date. Then I...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-28-2019, 08:47 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 527
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you apply for an emergency motion and it is...

If you apply for an emergency motion and it is not a matter of life or death for your children you will have a strip torn off you by a judge. Do not apply for an emergency motion unless it is...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-28-2019, 11:49 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 527
Posted By Stillbreathing
That sounds right. I had gone to court and made...

That sounds right. I had gone to court and made an emergency motion without notice to my ex. The judge heard my motion that day, gave me temporary full custody and my ex no contact with the children...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-27-2019, 06:49 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 527
Posted By Stillbreathing
No my matter is not yet resolved. We are going...

No my matter is not yet resolved. We are going into our 9th year of litigation. This year in 2019 we finally resolved custody ( permanent supervised access). We have not resolved any other issues...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-27-2019, 02:31 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 527
Posted By Stillbreathing
The court does have remedies available to punish...

The court does have remedies available to punish those who disobey court orders. There are several realities about family court you need to keep in mind.

1) contempt findings are rarely made even...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-27-2019, 12:22 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 527
Posted By Stillbreathing
Urgent motions in court are generally reserved...

Urgent motions in court are generally reserved for emergency situations involving the safety of the children... and yes you can bring an urgent motion about the children yourself as a self rep and be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-25-2019, 05:29 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 562
Posted By Stillbreathing
CAS do not become involved if the children are...

CAS do not become involved if the children are still residing with one or the other parent no matter how high the risk to the children! My ex is catastrophically brain damaged and assaulted the...
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