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Forum: Political Issues 05-22-2021, 02:16 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 942
Posted By StillPaying
When someone's child is taken, they would run to...

When someone's child is taken, they would run to police or court and fix it right away. When the other parent says "whatever" and allows the child to go, which parent should be shamed?
Forum: General Chat 05-22-2021, 02:10 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 334
Posted By StillPaying
Good luck!

Good luck!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-22-2021, 02:08 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 183
Posted By StillPaying
I have no experience with this but I would assume...

I have no experience with this but I would assume you could link other documents within the continuing record, but new items would have to be filed.
Forum: General Chat 05-22-2021, 02:06 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 203
Posted By StillPaying
Not sure what the age limit is. If he's still...

Not sure what the age limit is. If he's still too young, someone would have to be his guardian (possibly friend's parents) and they could claim support.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-22-2021, 02:02 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 254
Posted By StillPaying
I think it would depend more on how the agreement...

I think it would depend more on how the agreement was written.
The more detailed amounts for assets, debt, and support would make it easier to reclaim your unused prepaid support. Then ex can...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-19-2021, 02:52 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,058
Posted By StillPaying
False. I receive long term disability from my...

False. I receive long term disability from my employer, tax free.


Agree, it's tax free.


False. My LTD is tax free.


I never paid into an employment plan, only CPP, and I'm taxed on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-19-2021, 02:13 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,350
Posted By StillPaying
Depending on when you can get on the trial...

Depending on when you can get on the trial (waiting) list, and only if you had a lawyer, you may want to bring a motion before trial to increase your access now. Then, hopefully you can come to an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-19-2021, 12:45 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,350
Posted By StillPaying
I agree with Janus here. Your expectations are...

I agree with Janus here. Your expectations are very high and you need a lawyer desperately. There's no way you're progressing backwards.

Saying you want 50/50 and actually fighting for it...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-19-2021, 12:31 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,058
Posted By StillPaying
Although you and the OP came to ODF for the same...

Although you and the OP came to ODF for the same reasons, which makes your response interesting, just because you continue to suffer mentally does not mean it'll affect others the same.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-19-2021, 12:23 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,350
Posted By StillPaying
You're already at your (20th?) Settlement...

You're already at your (20th?) Settlement conference.
Book a trial management conference at your next SC for asap, 1 or 2 months. They'll give you homework to do before trial and you'll probably...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-19-2021, 12:17 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,058
Posted By StillPaying
Sounds good but no. I paid double my income in...

Sounds good but no. I paid double my income in support for years which always gave CRA a double look.

I'm in receipt of many different incomes (disability, income replacement, pension, annuities,...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-17-2021, 04:49 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,058
Posted By StillPaying
You're doing the right thing by learning, which...

You're doing the right thing by learning, which includes learning which members to ignore.

For the future visitors, remember, garbage in is still garbage out.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-17-2021, 11:35 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,058
Posted By StillPaying
Ignore rockscan. There's no tax slip or anything...

Ignore rockscan. There's no tax slip or anything to declare on non-taxable disability income. It's non-taxable, so nothing shows up on tax returns. However for support purposes only, the...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-11-2021, 04:42 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,758
Posted By StillPaying
No. I'm basing it on the numbers and info...

No. I'm basing it on the numbers and info provided. To come to any other conclusion would actually be assuming. Stop making stuff up.



He left the house and hes only paid 5 out of 6 to 12...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-11-2021, 12:11 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,758
Posted By StillPaying
Ex is getting a discount and certainly doesn't...

Ex is getting a discount and certainly doesn't mind the delay.
OP is living comfortably for now, avoiding the upcoming change for as long as possible.

Let the stance you take follow the rules...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-11-2021, 11:16 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,758
Posted By StillPaying
It would mean he makes poor financial decisions,...

It would mean he makes poor financial decisions, not much more. Choosing to pay more for mortgage is his choice so shouldn't affect you. I think it'll come down to the items he's paying for rather...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-10-2021, 08:58 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 1,758
Posted By StillPaying
Kinso is correct; ignore the peanut gallery....

Kinso is correct; ignore the peanut gallery. You'll be moved into an open mortgage with a much higher payment. Not ideal but since ex makes the payments, this will negatively affect him- as would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-01-2021, 11:30 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 714
Posted By StillPaying
Unless this is new, I don't believe offers are...

Unless this is new, I don't believe offers are filed nor require an affidavit of service. There is a notice of withdrawal form, but I'm sure creating your own form similar to offers to settle would...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-28-2021, 09:57 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 430
Posted By StillPaying
Form 22 helps save time at trial but doesn't mean...

Form 22 helps save time at trial but doesn't mean much if you ignore or can't agree. Regardless, I think he will pay half for those items (receipts needed) as they go with the house and he'll...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2021, 09:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 384
Posted By StillPaying
Were you ordered to pay a fixed s7 amount, like...

Were you ordered to pay a fixed s7 amount, like an extra $200 per month on top of cs for "activities", or a specific amount for a specific activity. Depending on which I would think you're either...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2021, 05:10 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,218
Posted By StillPaying
Good thing court will just see it as entitlement...

Good thing court will just see it as entitlement and not follow the emotional reasoning throughout.
When you stick to the facts, ex is still coming out on top for now, and potentially moreso in the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2021, 09:11 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,218
Posted By StillPaying
Free advice worth much less than the cost... It's...

Free advice worth much less than the cost... It's interesting to hear the bandwagon go off on such rude tangents based on wrong info.

Ex has been paying way less support than he should and is...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-17-2021, 04:54 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 280
Posted By StillPaying
They would. But they may also be on the hook for...

They would. But they may also be on the hook for occupational rent (and bills) incurred since the split.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2021, 06:26 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 584
Posted By StillPaying
1. Ex would have most likely received it by...

1. Ex would have most likely received it by motion anyways, so don't feel bad. Let them pay for a copy to find out it's irrelevant. If there were any concerns, your dr would have already reported...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2021, 08:15 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 584
Posted By StillPaying
Although sometimes it's combined, as you know the...

Although sometimes it's combined, as you know the TSC is different from a TMC.


It'll be a simple process to complete your TSEF and get the judge to approve your trial. This should be much...
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