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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2021, 10:08 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 260
Posted By helenj
No independent assessor or OCL...she didn't ask...

No independent assessor or OCL...she didn't ask for it and neither did I. Even though she's claiming I abused the kids. But the professional supervisor notes all shows the kids saying they miss me...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2021, 10:06 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 469
Posted By helenj
Thank you both for your input. You're right - I...

Thank you both for your input. You're right - I may be SAVING money by having a better lawyer.

Thank you all!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2021, 10:05 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 326
Posted By helenj
Thank you for your in-depth explanation. ...

Thank you for your in-depth explanation. Everything makes more sense now.

I live 20 minutes away from my ex but during separation she made a bunch of false allegations against me. It's been...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2021, 07:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 260
Posted By helenj
Right - but one of her arguments is that there...

Right - but one of her arguments is that there has been abuse in the relationship and controlling.

Wouldn't the allegations she's made to the police need to be addressed in the family court?
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2021, 05:11 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 260
Posted By helenj
Criminal Court Testimony used in Family Court?

Hi All,

My ex has testified at criminal court regarding her false allegations.

However, the trial ended up going towards a mistrial.

My question is whether or not we can use her testimony at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2021, 01:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 326
Posted By helenj
Yes I completely understand that. How do...

Yes I completely understand that.

How do you make sure this doesn't happen to your case as a Father?

What can be done to ensure you're at the cut-off?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2021, 10:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 326
Posted By helenj
Ordered 38.7% Custody/Access

Hi Everyone,

I saw the below on another forum and I'm hoping to understand why a judge would give one parent 38.7% access versus 41% or even 50%. Like what's the logic?

As I'm heading into...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2021, 05:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 469
Posted By helenj
1. On a conference, he agreed to hand over my...

1. On a conference, he agreed to hand over my entire medical file to my ex. I was exhausted so I signed.

2. Right before my criminal trial he brought a 50/50 motion which got dismissed because...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2021, 02:21 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 15,144
Posted By helenj
Here is an actual Offer to Settle for 50/50...

Here is an actual Offer to Settle for 50/50 shared parenting that covers everything from schooling to medical/dental, travel, and child support and s7 expenses.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2021, 02:18 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 469
Posted By helenj
Thank you for your response. What if I'm...

Thank you for your response.

What if I'm planning on changing my lawyer?

He's represented me for a year now, but mostly at conferences. He said he has trial experience but doesn't have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 10:31 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 469
Posted By helenj
Trial Scheduling Conference

Hi all,

I have a Trial Scheduling conference coming up.

My ex has made several criminal allegations against me which may soon come to an end due to a mistrial.

What can I expect in Trial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 10:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 319
Posted By helenj
So how do I address her allegations in Family...

So how do I address her allegations in Family court? She's accused me of every thing imaginable in the book. IF it is a stay of charges because it took too long, how do I go about it in Family...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 07:37 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 637
Posted By helenj
definitely ask for 50/50 parenting time. Worst...

definitely ask for 50/50 parenting time. Worst case scenario they say no. BTW - here is a settlement offer you can use.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2021, 09:34 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 360
Posted By helenj
Often, what happens, is that people deplete their...

Often, what happens, is that people deplete their financial resources well in advance before the fight is even over. You read TONS of case law where it states that parties were represented for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2021, 02:01 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 319
Posted By helenj
Staying of Charges impact on Family Court

Hi all,

There are some criminal charges that may be "stayed" or dropped due to a technicality/mistrial (late evidence and long delay since being charged). These charges include assault/uttering...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-26-2021, 03:40 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 555
Posted By helenj
Why do you keep asking what he was charged with...

Why do you keep asking what he was charged with when he says it was a fake charge? She could have accused him of murder or rape or assault, the point is that the crown felt there was insufficient...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-26-2021, 03:35 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 595
Posted By helenj
Also go to Canlii.org and search for "Custody and...

Also go to Canlii.org and search for "Custody and equal shared parenting" to see how judges make decisions. It will help you get inside the judges head.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-26-2021, 03:33 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 595
Posted By helenj
Sorry to hear about your ideal. 1. If you...

Sorry to hear about your ideal.

1. If you don't try for 50/50, you may regret it for a very long time.

2. You can bring a motion BEFORE your trial to try and increase your access time. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2021, 07:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 334
Posted By helenj
Criminal hasn't finished yet but the trial...

Criminal hasn't finished yet but the trial scheduling is a month or so after Criminal is done.

Thanks again for ur responses. I'll keep you updated as it progresses.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2021, 11:31 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 334
Posted By helenj
Trial Scheduling Conference

Hi all,

I have run out of funds for lawyers as they spent $80,000 writing e-mails and doing a couple of motions. I'm also unhappy with the way my lawyer has handled the case for the past 1.5...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-02-2021, 12:32 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 303
Posted By helenj
Thank you very much for your indepth explanation

Thank you very much for your indepth explanation
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-01-2021, 07:51 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 303
Posted By helenj
Maximum Contact Principle remove?

Anyone knows why the maximum contact principle has been removed from the new divorce act?

Any analysis or read on this you can share?

Link:...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-13-2021, 10:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 270
Posted By helenj
Thank you both for your response. 1....

Thank you both for your response.


1. What's the problem with locking in the values to both homes? They have the same mortgage and selling value.



2. My ex's lawyer is trying to...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-13-2021, 04:32 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 270
Posted By helenj
Splitting matrimonial and investment property

Hi all,

My ex-wife and I jointly own two properties. My ex-wife currently has exclusive possession of the matrimonial home while I am living with a friend. However, I manage the investment...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-09-2021, 05:31 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 276
Posted By helenj
b) The relative parenting abilities of each...

b) The relative parenting abilities of each parent, and their capacity to make decisions that are in the child's best interests. Where one parent is clearly more competent, responsible and...
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